How to keep things fresh in our relationship?

[Katie-adeline98]

So a little context my fiancé and I have been together for coming up 7 years, we are nearly 25 and have lived in our own house for a year now. We have also started to plan our wedding for next year and we are so excited.

However, as we now live together and see each other every day our relationship seems to be like a routine, for example we seem to have sex the exact same time every week but we never really go out for dates anymore and usually only go out together to shop or pick up supplies.

Don’t get me wrong we are still very much in love and have no issues as such in our relationship but wondered how we could keep things fresh and alive in our relationship. So it at times still feels spontaneous and fun as we are still young.

[Guy13]

You are experiencing the realities of everyday marriage. This is often why partners etc break-up or never get married. It is the same in all couple dynamics. Often, it takes marriage to fortify and to work through the daily doldrums. You already have had the bliss and you should not expect it to continue as daily life, household responsibilities, responsibilities to one another, and never enough money pressure exists.

[vj0090]

Exactly the same issue I m facing.. Can i text you? The same issue I got😒