Things he said matched with me. He would say things like she cries at night, had midnight snacks, doesn't brush at night etc. My teacher said she knows who the girl is. I think it's me. Should I ask my old university teacher or will she judge me for asking? . I have graduated. Hr would also say she got majority of firsts but since the third year she hasn't. Also, her periods are heavy. She sleeps with an extra cloth at night. If it was another girl surely their cannot be so many similarities to me?
Should I ask my old teacher about a classmate I had a crush on? My crush used to speak about secretly going to a girls house? ?
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It's important to consider the potential consequences of asking your old teacher about this situation. If you ask your teacher about your crush and the things he said about you, there is a risk that she may judge you or the situation negatively. Additionally, if your crush did not want you to know about what he was saying, it could potentially create an uncomfortable or awkward situation between you and your crush.
Before you decide to reach out to your old teacher, it may be helpful to reflect on your motivations for doing so. Are you seeking validation or confirmation of your suspicions? Are you hoping to find out if your crush has feelings for you? It's important to consider your own feelings and expectations before reaching out to someone else for information.
If you do decide to reach out to your old teacher, it's important to approach the conversation with an open mind and without making any assumptions. It's possible that your crush was speaking about someone else or that the similarities between you and the girl he was talking about are purely coincidental. Ultimately, it's important to respect your crush's privacy and boundaries, and to approach any potential romantic situations with honesty and communication.
Like you have doubt that your crush and this teacher have some se*ual relationship?
No not that. My teacher said to my crush infront of me ' I know which girl you are speaking about, she is innocent and you shouldn't hurt her'. Many of the things he said matched with me and I want to know from my teacher of the girl is me. Do you think I should ask my university teacher?
You serious you gonna ask her that is that guy having crush on you?
I am serious. That will not be my exact wording but more like "was the girl he was speaking about me"? She is not my teacher anymore. I have graduated. Is that inappropriate to ask?
I don't know ma'am if it would be but kudos to your guts
This sounds disturbing. Was this person stalking you?
I think so yes. Surely their cannot be so many similarities to me.
Wow. 😳