Girls , wives anyone that could help me please I am not smart enough to make the right decision?

[butterfly113]

I discovered that my husband is texting his old teacher's young wife and she is being flirty and sending him pictures of her and when i pretended i didn't see a thing.. how can i get revenge on her without harming my husband's reputation

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10 mo

. if he wanted to be with her he would ve asked for a divorce himself and its not the first time a slut tries to break in but he does not give her a chance. he faced me and told me she is his patient (he is a gynencologist) besides she is the wife of his teacher

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10 mo

I don't care about a thing just please give me a way to stop her or anything i don't care of fucking noone i just care about my daughters if ut was not for their sake i would ve dumped his fucking ass. please just help me with what i can do divorce is not my option for now at least

[Zebrina]

Is your husband flirting back? If so, that needs to be nipped in the butt first and foremost.

You should have a (calm) non-accusatory heart-to-heart with him and explain to him that this behavior is not okay and that it's not fair to you, your marriage, or your daughter. Even if it is 'just a patient,' explain to him that you do not like their interactions, and that you feel that it is inappropriate.

Besides that, I would try the 'nice' route first. Text her directly if you can, and kindly tell her to fuck off - i. e. he is married, her behavior is inappropriate, and that you don't appreciate it.

If she continues, I would give your husband a warning that the next step is that you have that conversation with her in person. If that risk to his reputation does not *inspire* him to figure out a way to stop it, nothing will, and you will need to reevaluate whether it's worth it to let them disrespect you like that.

I understand that it is difficult with children in the picture, but you should not have to be the only one to put in all of the work to make it work.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with this. Great answer.

[Spongebobssocks]

Just get a divorce. Dont waste your time on revenge its not worth it.

[butterfly113]

See the update please

[Spongebobssocks]

I did. doesn't matter if he wants a divorce or not. You should respect yourself enough to leave this clown

[Spongebobssocks]

Your daughter won't be happier if you stay in a toxic marrige. She will sense it

[Finchie40]

Your husband needs to stop this , if he truly loves and values you he will put an end to her behavior period , If he keeps making excuses as to why he can’t then he truly doesn’t love and value you and appreciate you , He needs to tell this girl that he is a happily married man and that she needs to back off because my wife is getting upset , If he can’t do that for you, you need to file for divorce because he is clearly cheating on you and trust me money won’t be an issue his ass will be paying you a lot of money cuz he is clearly cheating on you if he doesn’t stop her from flirting with him

[Finchie40]

The truth is you need to be upset with your husband , you said he is secretly texting these girl’s behind your back , so right there makes him the piece of shit for initiating contact with these so called sluts , it sounds like your husband is the slut , If it was work related he wouldn’t be keeping it a secret from you period so he is trying to play you a fool by saying it’s work related , My ex wife did those same shit with me with a co worker , and said the same things as your husband , she would secretly text this guy and say oh he is just a work friend we are just joking around to find out she was actually spreading her legs for him, Don’t fall For this shit girl , if he truly loved and valued you he would be putting an end to secretly talking to these girls behind your back , File for divorce , you will win the case and you will get more than half

[BoopBoopBeep]

For men with no morals, it's cheaper to cheat than to divorce, so no, he wouldn't have asked you for a divorce if he wants to be with her. HE DOES want to be with her, it's not like he's accidentally f'ing her, but he doesn't want to lose half his stuff in divorce so he keeps you around.

If he actually WANTED to stop it he'd put a stop to it. You won't be able to because he doesn't want to. He could have blocked her number and told her the pictures are inappropriate, but he didn't.

[boggboss]

That u think u need to get revenge on her shows u have no clue what u are doing u think u doing somthing to her will stop him from doing this again elsewhere

[butterfly113]

See the update please

[boggboss]

Lol u are delusional if this is a frequent thing its because he entertains this behavior he could of at any point told her to stop because its inappropriate but clearly he didn't again telling her to stop won't fix the issue

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Maybe she doesn't know about you. He's the one that fucking up. Get a divorce lawyer and take him and the house to the cleaners.

[butterfly113]

See the update please

[ImalwaysrightOK]

So you're saying he looks at vaginas all day and has had a good look at hers and now he's sexting with her.

[butterfly113]

I am trying just to save my marriage knowing i have 5 daughters to raise and i am the one who was with him when he had nothing i won't just let her or anyother bitch to ruin my life and take everything easly

[chloeaimeejensen]

Go and fuck his teacher who’s wife is fucking your husband. Play him at his own game.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

*spank*

[provokeesmokee]

No shit you're not smart.

You're dumbass for not just divorcing him.

[Anonymous]

Why get revenge on her. Just dump your husband. 🤦‍♀️

[butterfly113]

See the update please

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You could try putting a pipe bomb on her car