What do I do? panicking rn?

[tglovesu1218]

so i’ve been seeing this dude on a sexual level. we have seen each other around before we did but never really spoke because he was in a relationship at the time. now that they are broken up, i hit him up and asked him if he was still in a relationship with the girl and he denied it and said he was purely looking for a sexual relationship since he just got out of one and since i was down with that and since i wasn’t looking for a relationship whether, i agreed. two weeks into us meeting up occasionally to hook up, i’m at home and i’m the type to lurk online to find out a little more information on his past. i find his ex gf’s page and i find on her page a post of her posing but she’s PREGNANT (looking about two-three months). i’m kind of panicking and don’t know if i should ask him about it since i’m the one that went and did my own like detective scheme. i know it’s not my business but if his ex girl’s is pregnant with HIS kid, he should’ve at least mentioned it to me as we ARE hooking up. i don’t know what to do and i need advice on what i should do.

[Anonymous]

If this is how you’re going to be then you shouldn’t be hooking up with the guy period. You agreed to casual sex, and that’s it. You aren’t his girlfriend or someone he’s even dating so it’s just not your business to pry about things like that. Although pregnant doesn’t equal a relationship, you should reconsider your boundaries and if this arrangement actually works for you or you’re just taking any part of him he will offer.

[kylee2437]

Those two details are kind of irrelevant. You two are around each other for sex and you agreed to that. Hun having sex with you has really nothing to do with his pregnant ex. That’s their own business.

[kylee2437]

Him**

[MementoMori777]

do nothing, its his business, he isn't force to tell you anything, like you said, y'all are just hooking up, his loyalty towards you isn't required, y'all are just hookup buddies, i recommend staying out of his business before you ruin what you have with him for yourself, if he has a baby mama now then thats him, it doesn't effect you in any way.

[Blueeyes81]

You're hooking up not in a relationship. He owes you nothing.