Is it normal to not have any conflicts with your partner?

[Anonymous]

[dynamicyandere]

My significant other and I can go for months without any sort of conflict. But they occasionally occur, almost always from some sort of miscommunication or misunderstanding (which we quickly resolve). Having rare arguments can be a sign of good chemistry and compatibility.


BUT, it can be a bad sign if one or both of you are bottling up things inside, leaving relationship issues unresolved, which can either slowly eat away at the relationship or result in a huge argument down the road. Some people don’t voice issues and concerns because confrontation and conflict makes them uncomfortable.


But like a wound, issues need to be treated and resolved, which may figuratively burn, but it’s better than getting a serious infection that leads to an amputation.


So, if the lack of arguments is because of amazing compatibility, great for you! 🎉


But, if the lack of arguments is because of unaddressed issues that are left unsaid, those need to be addressed. 🩺

[PragmaticProfit]

I can only infer that there may be an absence of enthusiasm in the relationship if there's no disagreement. Alternatively, it might be that both individuals are excessively compliant, which can also be problematic. Long-term relationship health involves a process of compromise and negotiation.

[TenderFantasy]

I'd say so. I hardly ever fight with my honey so... And I like it that way. I have a peaceful and fun, lighthearted relationship and it's what I have been looking for after all these years. It's like a nice breath of fresh air in comparison to the ones I have been in in the past where I felt like I have had to walk on eggshells. Pretty stressful in my onion. Thank god for who ever was responsible for us crossing paths lol.

I feel that is what having a really COMPATIBLE and MATURED relationship gets you!

@Still-alive

[TenderFantasy]

My opinion ah lol. Was too lazy to correct the squiggly red line lol.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I think that's normal because me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and we've never had an argument

[Drewtate]

Largely depends. An ex of mine was always about conflict. One of the reasons I dumped her. It was always war with her or her starting drama with neighbours or whatever.

My current girlfriend is my peace when I come home and I look forward to coming home. Like she will make a nice dinner, fetch me a beer or whatever just because she wants to.

[California_Poppy]

I don't know if that's the 'norm' but I don't think it's abnormal. Even when you disagree with each other from time to time, which is normal as separate individuals with different perspectives, it does not need to result in conflict.

[Nikki1989]

It should be normal. If you consider it is not, then that is kind of sad.

[Anonymous]

I'd be worried neither of you are emotionally invested and just kind of on autopilot and maybe lacking some passion. Some arguments should happen. Hopefully nothing too major but some argument is healthy.

[provokeesmokee]

No.

Conflict (within reason) is part of living with another person. It's normal to have it, but it needs to be dealt with in a healthy way.

[Anonymous]

bad sign. a lot of resentment will build. a lot of unsaid things will build. just bad... it's healthy to have conflicts so you guys can grow together.

[Jazzy54]

Are you still in the “honeymoon phase” of your relationship? Meaning, did you two just get together and everything is “perfect?”

[boombastik]

If you never have an argument it's probably because one of both of you is people pleasing.

[Christoff92]

Sure. But people should be more courteous then ranting all the time for agreeing and disagreeing in small, silly, and unexpected things 🫥

[najekim]

My wife of 25 years & I have never had a fight/argument. We have had several disagreements and debates, but never a fight/argument.

[shades777]

conflicts is what humans do best!

[CuriousMufuxka]

That could prove to be unhealthy.

[BLP11520]

No it isn’t highly unlikely

[dudeinohio]

Sure

[LavLavLuv]

sure ig