Have you ever cheated and if so why?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Never and I never will. If I had to choose between the two horrible things of - being cheated on and cheating, I would rather be cheated on and have my heart and trust broken than break the trust of someone who loves me.

When I first hugged my ex boyfriend and when he first slept on my lap, and I looked at him how peaceful, gentle and trustful he was when he slept there leaning on me like a little baby, I knew I would never be able to hurt him.

I wouldn’t be able to break his trust.

When he broke up with me I had his bank card, because in China mine didn’t work. And he set up his own card for me to make my life easier in China. It was an active card, he was getting his salary paid on that card. I was able to use that card digitally. I remember I wanted to give it back and apply for my own card in China as soon as I got Residence Permit, he told me something along the lines

“No need, I trust you with everything I’ve got, don’t hurry, take your time, we broke up but it hasn’t changed how much I trust you.”

That was the biggest compliment for me, because I think love and trust are very close to each other. I am happy he knew I’d never ever hurt him, even when I was hurt by him.

[Spongebobssocks]

Nope. I have self respect. I would never do something so low.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO!

[exitseven]

Yes, I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years with a girl who was not going to have sex until marriage. We had not seen each other for about 6 months and I was at a graduation party for one of my friends. I met a girl at the party and we just hung out and talked most of the night. After the party broke up she invited me back to her dorm room. I thought we were going to just hang out. After a while she asks me if I wanted t ohave sex with her. I never had sex before and did not know if the opportunity would ever come again. Thee was no way my girlfriend would ever find out. So I did it. It was not great and I regret it.

[Sasha0426]

Cheaters never regret their decisions. You’re a bad person.

[Sasha0426]

Even if it was years ago, you’re still a bad person.

[exitseven]

@Sasha0426 I have made amends.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never cheated.

Those who have will most likely tell you the justifications they used for cheating and not the real reasons.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yes, because I was 22 and horny. I grew up since then and haven't cheated since.

[SolitarySolace]

No, not I’ve been constantly cheated on. I guess the closest thing would be I was seeing someone who had a boyfriend but I put an end to it because it felt wrong.

[Asker]

Are you a shorter guy?

[SolitarySolace]

I’m 5,11

[Asker]

Oh man then I don't know

[MementoMori777]

no im here to silently judge

[Reorx]

No, I've only been in one serious relationship on the other hand. I got burned pretty bad & never tried again. Been considering it lately, having a family would be nice but everythings so convolitrd now days im not sure its right.

[OfMiceandMen]

I have not, because in my mind it would make me less respectable and disingenuous.

[Drewtate]

Because she thought she could without consequences or being found out

[PurpleiPad]

Never. I don't see the point.

[virtualwasp]

Never have never will

[Anonymous]

I guess technically. Yes

[Asker]

How and why

[Opinion Owner]

Sexting and sending nudes

[vj0090]

High five

Haha

[Opinion Owner]

Not really funny

[Decoded93]

Did the boyfriend forgive you?

[Opinion Owner]

He did it to me first, multiple times but yeah he did. He still keeps some of the pics now

[Decoded93]

Well then that makes sense, also sexting and nudes aren't that bad lol I've had exs that did it before

[Opinion Owner]

Still not okay. Plus it was done to get back at him and get the attention I wasn't getting from him. In the end it made me feel worse

[Decoded93]

I'm so sorry that he did that and that it made you feel bad :( you didn't deserve any of that and I wouldn't even consider it cheating at that point, since it was just payback, besides he got pics out of it too so it's not like he didn't benefit

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't look st them. He looks at other girls doing cosplay on Tik Tok instead lmao

[Decoded93]

What a lame ass!! I always find my girlfriend to be the hottest lady when I'm in a relationship, I guess the bond makes me more attracted to her

[Opinion Owner]

Lucky her

[Decoded93]

I feel like many guys are like this, you just need a guy who'll date you and become obsessed so he only wants you lol

[Opinion Owner]

😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[Decoded93]

You seem like a sweet and caring girl, I feel like any guy would want you!

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks but I don't wanna seem desperate lol

[Decoded93]

But you don't seem desperate at all to me at least, I guess the trick would be to keep a guy attracted but not make it obvious you want him

[Opinion Owner]

He is severely addiction

[Decoded93]

Your man? To you?

[Opinion Owner]

No a porn addiction

[Decoded93]

Well that's lame!! Maybe offer him to be his model or something? Like he can take pictures of you and look at you instead of models? I'd prefer that over porn if I was him

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't like me to dress up

[Decoded93]

Why not? I'd love having a girlfriend I could buy lingerie and outfits for lol

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure

[Decoded93]

You need a better boyfriend lol this guy is lame af, he needs to be more attentive to you

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[Billlewis]

@Decoded93 if you enjoy buying sexy lingerie, etc for a beautiful woman, would you consider becoming an obedient online pay pig for a woman who has a boyfriend and whom you know you'll never be able to have sex with? I love doing that, even though a lot of people think I'm nuts... lol

[Agape93]

Never

[WhitneySnow]

No..

[sheikalana]

Never.

[jahaims]

No, I'm not trash

[LavLavLuv]

Nope

[Jmmmfi4]

NOOOOOOOOPE