Ladies, are you "wife material"?

[KrakenAttackin]

Regardless of your current relationship status (married,. divorced, single, etc), do you Believe you are "wife material"?

YES, I am a woman who is wife material.

NO, I am a woman and I am not wife material.

I am a man.

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10 mo

A few posts in and it's clear the women responding have ZERO idea what men want in a wife.

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10 mo

I keep getting messages from GAG saying this question has been removed for spamming or trolling?

[cosmosis181]

They ALL say yes (the vast majority anyway). But I did a little survey of my own a short time ago, in public. I asked several women in public how their last several boyfriends ended up... how they were. ALL of them stated he was 1 fuckboy/egotistical asshole/deadbeat after another. The simplicity of their TOTAL INABILITY to self reflect made it very hard for me not to choke lmao. It went right over ALL of their heads-that the ONLY guys they know how to spot... are douchebags. Because I know SEVERAL guys that would pour their heart into the right one... they work, no kids out of wedlock, not lazy gamers on dope all day, etc. Know what ALL of them have in common? No girlfriend's. No women want to get to know them. Then there are the defensive comments like the ones about their "degrees" and the typical feminist regurgitated line (the same line for at least 30 years, I swear🤪)... of "You can't handle a real woman, you can't get one!" Which flies COMPLETELY IN THE FACE of the claim that our "male egos" are getting in the way, because they're so "humble." 😂😂After all, in their minds, we must ALL WANT THEM, ALL DAY... right? Gee, that's funny. In my last job at a store, I SPECIFICALLY ignored ALL female customers... we had 2 cashier's... and I would gladly help the men... I NEVER ONCE offered to help a female... I told them to go to the other line, no matter how long it was. I had coworkers ask me why. I never gave an answer. The answer is... because I KNOW that female attitudes like the ones I previously described... are how most REALLY ARE. They THINK they're the center of the universe that I can't live without every day. You know what they say... the bigger they are... the harder they...🤭

[KrakenAttackin]

@cosmosis181. Agreed. And yet most women are willing to show their asshole to anyone for $4.99/month.

[AnusNdaPainus]

not in the west

Wouldn’t need a passport if women here were wives

you should’ve asked this question to young men

[Jamie05rhs]

Colombia is part of the West, dude. They're just as heathen as anyone else.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs West refers to western culture in this context this would include countries like US , Canada, New Zealand or UK

Australia is on the opposite side of the world and still included

West doesn’t mean the literal west it means western culture

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs and Colombia is a wonderful country

Bad people are everywhere.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, but the girl in the photo you picked is very Western.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs how so?😂

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@Jamie05rhs do you think "Western" women are the only women in the world the wear g-strings and show off their asses?

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Filthy_Immigrant he thinks only Americans have alcohol and drugs

Those tiny clothes were made for women that will fit them

And these pudgy American girls squeeze their big behinds into them

[Filthy_Immigrant]

he must not leave his mom's basement that often. he must not know that latina women are the goddesses of thongs and bikini. or did he at least forgot who Sofia Vergara is?

[Jamie05rhs]

@FilthyImmigrant @AnusNdaPainus That is a very Western thing to do.

[Jamie05rhs]

Latinas are Western. I'm not sure why you were under the impression that they are not. They are some of the biggest party girls around.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs Latinas are not western they do not live in a western society

They are party girls tho
When I lived in Argentina we went to the beach every day
It was like bikini bottom those women were half naked 80% of the time

That’s doesn’t change the fact that they are fit, feminine and submissive

And also know the value of a man

Unlike western women

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay; well, it seems as if we're splitting hairs here. I guess they are Western in some ways and not in others.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs we are only talking about it one way in this post

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs look man you were confused and should’ve just asked before you came in making assumptions it’s cool

[Jamie05rhs]

I ain't confused about shit. Lol.
The Spaniards came from Spain (Europe) (the West) and conquered Central and South America.
(Substitute "Portuguese" for Brazil.)
... So Latin America is Western.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs Western culture, also known as Western civilization, Occidental culture, or Western society, is the heritage of social norms, ethical values, traditional customs, belief systems, political systems, artifacts and technologies of the Western world.

[Jamie05rhs]

No shit. And Latin America was colonized by the West. So they contain many facets of the West.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@Jamie05rhs and what are talking about in this post?

[Jamie05rhs]

@AnusNdaPainus Whether someone in Wife Material or not.

[Jamie05rhs]

"is"

[midnightmoon05]

Wife? No. Any woman can be a wife…in fact… so many want to be one. So Becareful
I would hope guys look deeper when picking a woman to be their wife… she should be a GOOD wife… that means…

1. She comes with high value.
2. she doesn’t sleep around and let anyone use her body. 3. she cares for herself a. Emotionally b. physically, c. financially. She can carry on an intelligent conversation.
4. Her duty as a wife is to understand, love, care for her husband. 5. She is not his mother. 6. She is sexy when at the right time to be with her husband.7. She is classy with how she communicates. 8. She supports and encourages her husbands dreams and goals. 9. She is well verse about the word… not the gossip on TV and other women…10. She can bear him children, and raised them just as well as she was raised. She uses encouraging words and praises how wonderful daddy is. 11. She also knows that she and hubby are not perfect…but always willing and encouraging to be better. 12. She knows how to have fun and makes life easy. 13. She builds a legendary home/future with him.., not just a house wife.

There might be very few left… if not extinct.

[midnightmoon05]

Thanks for MHO
As for me? I tried… but.. all my ways was being make fun of.. that I was Dr. Phili… he didn’t appreciate me. We have made two beautiful kids.
My second husband appreciates my kindness … works much better.
Understand your partner and work out the differences. Life will be easier.

[Vesuvius87]

Being wife material is very subjective don't you think? What is wife material to another man might not be for you.

This is a brief description of me:

- 36 year-old single woman that only been with 1 man in her life. Low count

- Yes I can do basic adult skills such as cooking, cleaning, managing/saving money and working

- I have BA degree in tourism, hotel management and culinary arts but I'm currently working in bilingual translations.

- Religious beliefs: I got none. I'm atheist. I don't believe in god nor religion but do believe in commitment within a relationship.

- I really hate the way things are doing with some divorces. I don't think it's fair taking away someone's hard-working money. I've been scammed with money by an ex boyfriend before I know what's it like to lose your money.

[Vesuvius87]

- I'm childless

[molonski2]

On what you have said there I reckon you'd make an outstanding , productive , organised , diligent wife for someone.

[Vesuvius87]

@molonski2
Thank you. I wish I found him though.

[molonski2]

You will , and it will be when you least expect.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Vesuvius87. That's on you. There are plenty of men who would be thrilled to have a good woman.

[AmeerX]

I told her same about being such an amazing woman 😁

[Apple1996]

Most of the time yes. Been slacking lately since I'm drowning in postpartum depression so not being that great of a wife but still trying my best to be caring and loving towards my husband.

[SarahS98]

I'm alread married since March 20th. We're trying to have a family at this moment. I have a BA degree in business administration but will eventually go for the Master's but not at this moment. Education can wait. There is no age for that. Having healthy kids during my good years can't wait.

For me the important aspects are being a caring, loyal and supportive partner; be there for them not just during the good days but when time gets tough too. It won't always be sunny days. You have to work as a team during cloudy and rainy days too.

[Anonymous]

I love questions like this only because I feel like everyone sees the good in them so everyone female will most likely say yes I am wife material. Lol.
With that being said, what makes you wife material? Every man has a different idea of what they want in a wife.
I grew up in a very conservative family. Women are taught to take care of the home and their husband. Although I am not married yet, I hold those values strongly. I work full time and take care of myself. However, I can also be submissive in a relationship. I guess I am wife material to a man who views that as a wife they want. Lol.

[Anonymous]

I try to be.

I have 1 body count that I lost 3 years ago to a serious relationship.. it would be better if I was a virgin but can't do much about it now

I'm submissive. I never party, never been to a club in my life. I dont drink I dont smoke or do drugs.

I love cleaning and cooking/baking and I like making people laugh..

[Opinion Owner]

@krakenAttackin what am I missing that men want? Hense.. your update

[Siri137]

Are you husband material? What do YOU have to offer in a relationship? Anything at all, or just the usual misogynistic bitterness?

[KrakenAttackin]

@siri137. My thread, my question. Feel free to start your own question.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Reowwr!

[SolitarySolace]

Funny of you to assume men even want to get married knowing what comes after

[DextroShade]

Well you are definitely dying alone.

[Siri137]

@SolitarySolace Well I would of course expect a comment like that from someone who decided to call himself 'Solitary Solace'. :D

[Siri137]

@DextroShade Yeah, no I'm not. I have a very extensive social network of friends (REAL friends, not "online" ones), and I go out a lot and mix. What do you do? Sit in the dark and play computer games all day long?

[KrakenAttackin]

@siri137. You mean you go to clubs and ride the cock carousel... got it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Siri137. And you charge $4.99/month to show your asshole online to any simp willing to pay.

[Siri137]

Nope, I never set foot in clubs or "bars" (pubs). I don't like them. Too many idiots, too many drunks, and the atmosphere is awful (dark and depressing).

[Drooogie4]

In the standard way? Nah. I'm not interested in being a caretaker to another capable adult or having anyone's babies.

But I am a good partner. I'm supportive, loyal and emotionally available.

So yeah, I'd be a good wife to someone I was compatible with, but I'm certainly not interested in being a "traditional " wife.

[FreyaRed]

It's easy to be "wife material"

I pull on some trad wife suit with blue white flowers, make some pics while serving pierogi with fake freckles on my face and post it on public an insta account. I'm sure there will be a lot of guys who will find this little performance as "wife material".

[Drewtate]

2023 wife material

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve been told numerous times by men who know me in person - that I am.

But I don’t think that’s necessarily a good thing.

[KrakenAttackin]

Why not?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Because I usually think that means you are boring. 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. You could not be more wrong and it is sad you think this way.

Don't party your best years away and end up alone or with a simp you hate.

[glennos89]

If men say to that you are wife material then you should be very happy because their isn't a better compliment we can give you as a guy. We are not saying that you are wife material if you are boring! It means that you are exactly what we are looking for in a woman.

So my advice to you is... don't change who you are because you are what men are looking for!!

I would never tell a girl that she is wife material unless I feel that she is absolutely perfect the way she is and that I would want my future wife to be like she is

Stay wife material and don't let your own mind over thinking it and make you change. You are great the way you are 😊

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@glennos89 Thank you…

[Jamie05rhs]

What @glennos89 said!! 💯

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. He right.

[ShesRad80]

depends what someone's qualifications for wife material is, it differs a bit from person to person. but i work, cook, clean, have my own place, car, no kids, loyal.

[ShesRad80]

waiting for the one, yes really i was raised traditional and kept to it

[KrakenAttackin]

Your definition above is just the most basic definition of "adult", and not nearly enough to be wife material.

[ShesRad80]

ahahahahah im sure you have a house paid off at your age? like i do the whole mortgage? that provides stability and a necessity
so whats make you husband material?

[KrakenAttackin]

@shesrad80. What you are describing shows how little you understand men.

[ShesRad80]

the other basics? most would have or should have? communication skills, being responsible, financial issues accounted for, able to deal with problems, real life issues. but also normal adult things, but not everyone has these

[ShesRad80]

not all men are the same, like not all woman, on wants needs, wife material is what you asked you are looking for your own specific because you can't answer for all men you can only answer for you

[KrakenAttackin]

@shesrad80. You still don't get it. You are describing masculine traits and purporting yourself to be wife material. This is why you fail with men. Men don't want to date/marry masculine women.

[ShesRad80]

lol oh so you dawn and apron and cook you are saying thats masculine? yes because working in healthcare is such a mans world, so basically since you have to feel needed to to being insecure to have someone depended on you, thats what you have said above in not so many words. depending on a male for everything is not wife material its co dependency

[KrakenAttackin]

I'm not here to argue with masculine women, I am simply asking if you think you are wife material.

[ShesRad80]

no worries i find you dainty, is what it is, you asked as others have answered- yet you gave nothing on what "you" personally think make a gal wife material, so its open ended your post. after telling a few of us commenting its not wife material. i explained, you however gave no explanation of what makes you good husband material other then you need to be needed and a co dependent female.

[Lliam]

@shesrad80. As if @KrakenAttackin speaks for all men on the subject of "wife material". LOL
I assure you that I would not be interested in the kind of woman he wants.

[ShesRad80]

@Lliam ah ha i know and thank you!

[KrakenAttackin]

@shesrad80. "Dainty", yeah, that's me 😂.

[KrakenAttackin]

Again, women get angry when you tell them what they think men want is wrong. Because, how could a modern woman ever be wrong.

[ShesRad80]

im not angry, no worries there, was trying to debate with you, but you didn't follow through or answer so its a lost topic

[KrakenAttackin]

@Lliam No need to simp. The question stands.

[Lliam]

@KrakenAttackin. Ah, the old "simp" trope. You mean men who respect women and don't act like dicks?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Lliam Women need to earn a men's respect just as much as men need to earn a woman's. Women are so convinced only their preferences and happiness matters, that they are offended when men dare to disagree.

[Lliam]

@KrakenAttackin. I agree 100% with that first sentence.
As for the rest, gee, I can't imagine why a woman wouldn't want her preferences and happiness disregarded. You obviously wouldn't let a woman do that to you. Is it wrong for a couple to be concerned about each other's preferences, desires and happiness or is it a wife's role to be dominated, disregarded and dictated to?

I don't understand why you are always generalizing and putting women down. Why don't you just find a woman who makes you happy and stop stereotyping the entire gender? It reminds me of the way BLM and LGBTQ activists harp on about how much they are oppressed.

[ShesRad80]

@KrakenAttackin sorry i was sleeping, my day in healthcare starts at 4am, im not on here 24/7 and im not married and can't say im looking to get married, how long have you been married?

[ShesRad80]

@krakenattakin i would think @ age 43 you, would have logic and be able to elaborate your feelings other then what you interpret as insults which aren't. so ill use smaller words for the remedial user, you come off "butthurt" because you either cannot find a woman or because you have nothing to offer a woman. you seem to have issues with a woman who has a career or more then you? because you feel inferior to females who are successful. im not sure what you will do then day you have a medical issue and find out your woman your Dr.

[ShesRad80]

@KrakenAttackin respect is not given but earned- with time and getting to know someone, just that doesn't make you wife material. how do you pay bills with no career? how do problems get fixed if two people cannot communicate? how do meals get made if no one cooks? marriage is a partnership, not a one lane road. has to be equal give and pull, so if you dont understand that i hope you find the fleshlight of your dreams because there are many factors on what makes a good wife and husband and a good marriage.

[ShesRad80]

@KrakenAttackin i see where you hid the other questions you asked me, how shady of you-- to answer you fully since its all out there i had a special someone he passed of cancer so your assumption was and is wrong, very wrong. and i promise you cancer doesn't discriminate. so i made time to answer you back while on shift, im sure we will still go at it , but again i answer when i get time on here dont think i forgot about your replies, lol

[Shamalien]

Kraken let up on her she is wife material.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Shamalien Fair enough.

[KrakenAttackin]

But her verbal diarrhea is why she struggles with men.

[ShesRad80]

@KrakenAttackin, i gave you solid points which again you have no answers because you have no answers. i can't help you lack brain power @ 43 and yet again you are not married either, hypocritical- i see you are quiet the wiz with the ladies (sarcasm)

[ShesRad80]

and did you read what i said? he passed of cancer, smh the only thing i struggle to do is to move on, so get it correct when you fly off at the mouth or learn to comprehend the written words. you still have not answered anything yet i answered the questions you asked and deleted. you brought nothing to the debate, not shocking. you have zero clue what woman want, or how to approach one and be logical. in America you dont work you dont pay bills or eat. so i can't imagine how many people you live with or have wiping your rear end

[KrakenAttackin]

Actually I was banned for several days by GAG (again). This is my thread, feel free to start your own.

[ShesRad80]

your replies above before- i replied back say 4 hours ago and i got notifications.

[KrakenAttackin]

@shesrad80. The fact you are so *TRIGGERED* says a lot about you. Look at all of your angry posts 😂😂😂.

[ShesRad80]

you keep taking it as angry,? you really are horrible with woman, lol. or the assumption of feelings, never once did i get upset nor angry. i debate thats it tit for tat. sometimes i only have a few seconds to reply and can't get it all in there, at work. THIS IS ANGRY lol not this

[KrakenAttackin]

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[EmmaMary]

I do sincerely hope so, seeing that I'm already a wife and a mother.

[Shamalien]

It’s true that most modern women are really clueless when it comes to what men want in a wife. They list things like career, car, house, traditionally male assets.

but the most important thing is loyalty. After that, the willingness to raise children and take care of your man.

[Singing_Hollow]

When my boyfriend drops to one knee then ill know for sure lol but I am learning a lot of things in order to be a better woman which should lead me to being a good wife I think. At the end of the day being just a good person is what really matters. The right person will see that in you and marry you based on that.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Singing_Hollow. No. "Just being a good person" is not enough. You need to be a good WOMAN to keep a MAN happy. Stop with this androgynous bullshit.

[Singing_Hollow]

Well it kinda starts with being a good person. I dont think a bad person would be attractive. Men and Woman are not equal but it is both jobs to nurture the relationship and play the role they need to in order for the family to work. A good wife is a wife that is lifted up by her husband daily. The good wife part will come naturally.

[midnightmoon05]

The man takes on a lot of worldly stresses … he wants to come home to a wife who understands his needs, gives him space, love, consideration and to not nag him more. Once he feels that he can trust and unload his stress…shower, take a 15m nap/meditate/sex…he would want to do what he can to please his wife.
We generally don’t know unless we have a good role model at home … seeing how mom and dad treated each other…. then we do better when we become a wife/mother.
Being a good person is good…but not good enough to be a good wife..:
The day to day stuff is what matters when living with the opposite gender…women can help take life stress away and make life fun and easy…OR we can make a living hell for men!!
Be a good communicator with our wants and needs…say I don’t understand…
Oops… I was distracted, please tell me one more time.. I’m all ears for you now honey..
Just an example of how to respect each other in a marriage.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I would make a great wife for some 280 pound black guy named Spud.
Let's hope I never go to prison

[MementoMori777]

dont mind good ol me G

[worldscolide]

As long as she isn't a feminist, or promiscuous, and as long as she is loyal, honest, kind, and caring. she's definitely wife material

[worldscolide]

@KrakenAttackin Sounds like the mods are abusing their power again.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's nothing new.

[KrakenAttackin]

@worldscolide. That's a bare minimum.

[worldscolide]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Most women who think they are wife material are mistaken because they measure their value by the same things they measure men's value, but men want very different things in a woman than women want in a man. And most of today's women have turned their backs on most of the things that have always made women valuable to men.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

What makes someone wife material besides knowing how to clean and do simple cooking?

[KrakenAttackin]

@PBandJ_Nerd. Answer your own question.

[Jamie05rhs]

@PBandJ_Nerd I want a wife, not a maid.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Jamie05rhs Why does everyone jump to a wife as being a maid?

[KrakenAttackin]

It blows my mind that women have no clue how to be wife material. This is because you don't give men's preferences any thought whatsoever.

[Jamie05rhs]

@KrakenAttackin I have no clue, man. I guess that's just the stereotypical lie that feminism feeds them.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Jamie05rhs These women were all failed by their parents. Since modern women believe they belong on a pedestal they have absolutely no idea what men want, and they make zero effort to learn. So what do women do? They throw their pussy at Chad Thundercock because it's all that modern women know how to do. Pathetic and disgusting.

[Kiasssss]

I think that I’m wife material because of the fact that I can take care of someone especially my boyfriend I treat him like his my husband already and another reason yes the material things like cleaning and cooking I can do those too but I also am tradition so in a way I still follow those values I can say that I’m wrong when I’m wrong and instead of arguing or complaining talk through what’s happening.

[SolitarySolace]

All women sue going to believe themselves you be wife material 😂 the only ones who’s opinions matter when it comes to this question are the men who ends up marrying them. They’re the ones who have to decide whether a woman is wife material or not.