Are you a jealous person in relationships?

[MementoMori777]

i am, sorry but not sorry 😂

im not a toxic jealous person but i got my levels of jealousy if i care for someone

are you a jealous person?

Updates

+1 y

in relationships, forgot to clarify that

[eatmycupcake]

Not at all. If my partner is getting hit on, for example, I'm actually quite flattered. It's not like he's going to go "oh wow the cashier at Wendy's thinks I'm hot, I should run away with her" 😂 Plus I'm not mad at her for trying. If I think he's so great I should expect other women to think so as well, yes? So shoot your shot, girl.

I know he will be polite and respectful to her because that's who he is, but ultimately I feel secure in the fact that he's not going to be taken from me by some rando. Jealousy is something that left me a long time ago.

[MementoMori777]

well i guess thats understandable, personally i know most guys intentions are sexual and i just dont want them sexualizing my woman nor give them the satisfaction of even believing they have a chance 😂

but i understand where you are coming from but i have a side of being protective i trust the people i care about but have no trust for anyone else around that person, it is what it is but you sound like a chill woman 😂

[Gochogirl]

Yes I have a lot of jealousy but over the years I found a what to use that as a catalyst to strengthen my relationships instead of hindering them. Jealousy doesn't have to be a private voice telling you horrible things, it can be a sign of very powerful love and you can use it as an opportunity to reflect on the reality of things and improve as a person :)

[MementoMori777]

if i remember im making this MHO because you just did a wonderful mic drop and thats an awesome way to put it, your man is indeed a very lucky man, he was given a girl with a healthy and wonderful mentality, God is good 💯🙏

[Billlewis]

I'm a very jealous person, but my jealousy is always created and carefully developed for the purpose of pleasing the female. Any woman who dates me knows that the more jealous she makes me, the sweeter I'll be in return.

[MementoMori777]

sounds like it sucks for you tho?

[Billlewis]

No, it's fantastic! Of course it's very frustrating not being able to get any pussy, but when I'm listening to him climaxing inside her, all my frustration and sacrifice are well worth the cost of celibacy.

[MementoMori777]

i can't agree or relate

[Billlewis]

I'm a lifelong bachelor, and I've become so skilled at masturbation that I can bring myself to a better, more pleasurable orgasm by playing with my little piglet penis than by fucking a woman. Think about this -- when are you the sweetest, most polite and most romantic? In the beginning of the relationship, *before* you've fucked her. All I'm doing is extending that initial period of frustration to permanent status. After all, the hottest, sexiest woman in the world is the one you're spending all your time with but can never have:)

[Phoenix98]

I've never really been a jealous person in general if I'm being honest I think could count the amount of times I've been jealous in my entire life on one hand.

[MementoMori777]

well if you have any in your hand, you are a jealous person 😂

[Phoenix98]

I've never been jealous at any point in my life when it came to relationships so in that sense I am not.

Every person on earth however will get jealous about something at some point in their life.

Also when I hear people talking about jealous people in my mind a jealous person is someone who gets jealous easily and constantly.

[MementoMori777]

oh then alright

[Apple1996]

Honesty yeah a little bit

[MementoMori777]

gots too 😂💯👌

[DizzyDesii]

I try to be understanding and play detective first... “Is there a reason you thought it was cool to let her do/say this to you?”, “How would you feel if i let a dude do/say that to me?” Like we bout to play 21 questions 😂

[MementoMori777]

thats cap, your detective work comes from jealousy so technically you get jealous first 😂

[DizzyDesii]

No if i was jealous first, you’d know. When I’m asking questions in a calm manner, that is me trying to understand what tf he thought it was before i make assumptions

[MementoMori777]

you have a huge attitude dont you? definitely give off that vibe 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

I dont which is why I keep saying i can be very calm. I won't jump until he jumps

[MementoMori777]

wait i fogot you see red flags as rainbows what am i talking about 😂

[Anonymous]

No but I do get jealous sometimes. My husband is a tall handsome very charming fella and gets hit on all the time, sometimes right in front of me. Its like this video, maybe not as bad

https://www.youtube.com/embed/FLVux0AO0Ts

[MementoMori777]

when someone has the balls to hit on your partner right infront of you it shows disrespect

[DizzyDesii]

Dudes got that bad around here. They’ll hit on you in front of ya guy and be like “Ay man, ya girl can’t have friends?” Lmao knowing good and well they want to be more than a friend

[MementoMori777]

id tell him no she can't, if he gets smart mouth im gonna get physical, just add more teeth scars to my collection i guess

[DizzyDesii]

Teeth scars? mfs biting?

[MementoMori777]

no, have you never punched someone in the face so hard it cuts your hand, i have a few on my fists from peoples teeth, why not add another one if they are getting up my nerves lol

[Opinion Owner]

@DizzyDesii never had a guy hit on me right in front of my guy. Usually they wait u til he goes to the bathroom at a club or restaurant or if he's not with me. A guy actually called up to my house looking to "talk", he thought I was going to let him in

[DizzyDesii]

😂 lmao the nerve

[Singing_Hollow]

I dont get jealous, I dont like being disrespected. I trust my boyfriend in full and know he wouldn't hurt me or chase after another however if another woman hits on my man or does things that are disrespectful to my relationship, I will step in and deal with it. Its not me being jealous, its me protecting something we both worked hard to grow.

[ariadneR]

To a certain extent yeah. I mean I won't get mad if they're going out with their friends but if it's continously..."give me attention!!!"

[MementoMori777]

you are a latina woman, i expect nothing different, gotta love them latina features 🤣

[ariadneR]

It's funny that you say that, cause I'm not 🤣
Just a normal black woman over here lol

[MementoMori777]

you are not 😦

my life is a lie, black women got their own features that are similar to latina but still, im mindblown 😐😂

[ariadneR]

Nbd. You wouldn't believe how often I hear it..

[MementoMori777]

mindblowing lol

[Boomchakalaca]

Yes and if i wasn't jealous about smthn, my mans best be worried cuz that means idc anymore

[MementoMori777]

lmao thats a good way of thinking chaka, homie better be stressin if it ever comes down to the not give a fuckatttude lol

[sheikalana]

I get jealous very easily not in a toxic way as you said. I trust my partner but if some woman attempts to flirt with him you will see a side of me you’ve never seen before.

[MementoMori777]

jealous women keeps the world spinning lol

[sheikalana]

LMAO.

[Gent207-2]

I'm not jealous, I'm territorial call me Rick Sanchez touch my shit and die

[MementoMori777]

okay lol

[Simslover92]

Yep. I won't even have my boyfriend and I go to Hooters, that's how jealous I am lol

[MementoMori777]

good choice, if he goes to hooters its gonna he with you 😂

[Simslover92]

Lol pretty much but he won't on my watch lol

[Simslover92]

The only hooters he's gonna see is mines lol

[MementoMori777]

fair enough 😂

[SolitarySolace]

Absolutely. One of the many reasons why I prefer to stay single

[MementoMori777]

if its that bad then you sure its not toxic jealousy lol

[SolitarySolace]

Either way it’s one of the things keeping me from wanting a relationship

[MementoMori777]

i see, well just keep it under control and u should be fine

[BigRed1987]

Yeahhhh I definitely get jealous. I’m like, my girl! Go away haha. Jokingly…please don’t take that seriously 🤣🤣🤣

[MementoMori777]

i take it seriously cause thats me, you might be joking but im not, thats my girl go away 😂

[BigRed1987]

Haha yeahhhhh but you never know, people might take it the wrong way or whatever. The Karen’s out in GAG, I’m sure they’re out there O_o

[MementoMori777]

this is karen central bro, of course they are out there lurking on their next pray to bitch at 😂

[Yannishka]

No, just look at tired deadbeat parents or a couple fighting and you feel so much better right away!

[MementoMori777]

wdym 😦😦

[Yannishka]

Well it works for me!

[MementoMori777]

i dont think that would work for me but thanks for sharing 😂

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No, unless someone is trying to cross a line with my woman i. e. trying to touch her breasts or butt or inappropriate conversation and touching otherwise I'm not jealous.

[MementoMori777]

thats kinda what i meant about not toxic jealousy lmao

[Fireguy17]

no, not at all.
If she is screwing around with someone else I am gone.

[MementoMori777]

completely agree

[DaddyDiablo]

Yeah I tend to end up jealous but it's cuz lately I've just only met these women

[MementoMori777]

i see, fair enough

[Anonymous]

yes. i have been pushed over the edge far too many times.

[MementoMori777]

i see fair enough anon

[LiamJHayden]

Jealous, as in being weird if she has male friends, no.

Jealous, as in if she messes around or reciprocates flirting with another guy... Well, I dump her immediately, so I suppose that can be defined as jealous.

[BLP11520]

You can only be jealous in a committed relationship like engaged or married otherwise you have no claim to that person

[MementoMori777]

well thats what i meant lol

[BLP11520]

Ok I am a bit tired from work 🫤

[MementoMori777]

fair enough

[sheenagwapa]

if yoy are with the manwhore womanwhore type beinh insecure in the relationship is normal so better dump their ass

[Raaj4you]

I am a good guy. I am not jealous of anyone when it comes to career or relationships or education or money. Every human born on the earth deserves to live happily forever. But it also depends on the destiny of the person.

[SoJust]

No these relationships is not because both sides should trust each other be of who can't change anyone , and you can't love a person you don't trust.

[Nikki1989]

Very rarely, I am jealous for any reason. Life is too short for petty insecurities.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. If she wants to leave you or cheat there’s nothing you can say or do that’ll prevent that from happening. Therefore I’m not the jealous type. It’s actually quite liberating when you accept this.

[LostandFound__x]

I’m a very jealous person

[MementoMori777]

gotta love it 😂

[chinnijunnu]

i am very jealous person when my boyfriend close to other girls or spending less time with me.

[LovingJo]

A little, but not possessively.

[MementoMori777]

no hate here lol

[LovingJo]

Just enough to show that I care

[MementoMori777]

thats the perfect amount lol

[LavLavLuv]

ME❓❓❓ Not a chance

[MementoMori777]

youd expect someone with Triple the Lav to do so, interesting 🤔

[TrillXHippy]

I definitely am and I admit it.

[MementoMori777]

there shouldn't be any shame of it lol

[es_annie]

I am but not to the extreme level

[LazerBean]

Nah. No need and no point.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not even slightly jealous.

[chicken_nugget24]

Unfortunately yes.

[MementoMori777]

thats a good thing, the chicken nugget with sandals has emotions just like the rest of us lol

[chicken_nugget24]

I would be mad if you take my slippers away lol

[MementoMori777]

why would i take them, thats your BBQ sauce, chicken nuggets without BBQ is blend and boring

[chicken_nugget24]

100%

[BobLouis]

No I don't care.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough

[BobLouis]

I want others to be happy Including you.

[MementoMori777]

tf lol

[BobLouis]

I have compassion for people and want others to succeed in life. When you help others you are helping yourself because they will want to pay you back for the help.

[MementoMori777]

im talking about in relationships, i shouldve clarified

[KrakenAttackin]

Test

[MementoMori777]

wdym lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Sorry, was trying to see if I could post. Just got out of GAG ADSEG (again)... wow the sunlight hurts my eyes...😁

[MementoMori777]

whats ADSEG? lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Administrative Segregation... what is called "the hole" or solitary confinement in prison.

[MementoMori777]

oooh okay that makes sense, fair enough lol

[monghjay2]

yup deal with it

[WhitneySnow]

A little