Are you a jealous person?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not really I was over jealousy a long time ago , but I would be lying if I said I never get jealous over anything , it just takes a lot for me to get jealous over something or someone these days , i can’t remember the last time i got jealous over something to be honest , it’s definitely been awhile , basically If someone is trying to make me jealous , it’s going to take them a lot to get me jealous , I usually just walk the other way , when someone is being selfish and immature because I i am not into games and drama I am way over that teenage high school nonsense , I treat people the same way I like to be treated in return , with dignity and respect , if they can’t do the same for me , I walk the other way and lose all respect for that person , Selfishness and immaturity doesn’t sit well with me whatsoever. If a girl tries to make me jealous , then she isn’t the girl for me period , if she doesn’t respect me , I will not respect her either , My ex use to get very jealous of me for whatever reason , it took me a long time to realize that she was jealous over me , and it blew my mind when I figured it out. She hated that other people liked me and wanted to hang out with me , or she would be jealous if something good happened to me , instead of being loving and supportive about it, she would just get jealous , she was definitely insecure and had very low self esteem about herself , so when I finally figured out why she was treating me the way she treated me , so walked the other way and told her to go find someone that is jealous and insecure like you.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Yes,

and no.

I have my areas that I will not accept my mate doing. Boundaries not to cross and I was not going to be happy if they pushed those boundaries.

But, I would never be with anything who would push me in these areas. I would have never been with such a person so the moment she would do them I would feel upset but that was the sign to leave her. I would have never kept them in my life.

I marvel at the wusses on Reddit writing these stupid stories asking for advice or if the are the asshole stating it makes them "uncomfortable" as their girlfriend's going out clubbing until 3am, off on wild Miami/Vegas girls trips, dressing like prostitutes with everything hanging out, going nude at beaches in front of other guys, going out on friend dates with their guy friends all the time and they whine like wimps on these posts as they keep these tramps in their lives.

Then all the rabid feminists call them controlling and insecure and tell them that they don't trust their whor... I mean girls and that if they loved their girl they'd accept it all as their girl did whatever she wanted 24/7 and hung out with other guys all the time.

These weak ass men just need to dump these low class women. Quit bitching about feeling uncomfortable, no you dump women who act like that. Let them go be single since they want to act single. Let them be free to whore it up.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

No, I am not the least jealous. I have no reason to be and being jealous indicates a certain weakness in character and personality.

If you are sure about yourself or have nothing to fear, there is also no need to be jealous. Jealousy is a trait of character that I perceive as negative and the vibes from a jealous person would be the one (among many others) that would make me want to avoid that person.

I am not in a relationship and don't plan to be in any relationships any time soon. Thus, it is a little easier on me but jealousy is not just limited to a partner. You can also be jealous of coworkers, family members and siblings.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

Weirdly no obviously if he flirt with another girl in front of me I won't like it but I won't be jealous just would be like "of ok so he don't respect me neither love me" but I won't be jealous. I would just realize he's not faithful or ready to be in a serious relationship.

Account · Answer

I don't have envy within me, but I am possessive and yes there is a difference.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. Jealousy is pointless. I'm not controlling either. The way I approach women is this...

Be with me only because you want to be. If you one day no longer want to be with me, then leave. I can't force you to love me. I don't want to control anyone. Love is not real unless it is freely given and sincere. I don't want to live with someone who is faking it. I'll do the same.

The fact there are no guarantees sort of keeps you honest and on your toes, IMHO. Earn the loyalty of the other person every day through your actions. Or let them go.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

It's  seriously  tempting to be jealous. Tempting to envy specific things people have or feel, but when I look closely at them, at us, when I listen, then I can see how no one is happy about everything. I can't cherry pick a thing someone has and envy that because it doesn't work like that, people are whole and things are impermanent. For anything making people happy, there is a downside somewhere in their lives, past, present or future. So temptation ends here, usually. If this pseudo-Taoist babbling wasn't enough, I can contemplate my own narcissism, I wouldn't trade my life philosophy, my memories and my identity with anyone else, as I'd be forced to trade it if I wanted to possess the life someone has lived. If I traded that I'd be immensely sad.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I can be but it's not that serious.. If a dude does shit with other woman that piss me off. Then I just stop paying attention and depending on how he made me feel and what he did I would dump him if it was blatant disrespect in my face.

sage2021 · Answer

I am not a jealous type of person and I am happy for people who have something good happen to them.
But you better keep those finely red polished fingernails 💅🏻far away from my man!! 👠👠💄

BDRick · Answer

Generally, no. I was in the past, when I was a youngin .. but then I hit adulthood and got my head wrapped around it realizing that there’s more important stuff in life such as my job, my monetary situation, etc. et.

spartan55 · Answer

Not at all. Interesting only ONE pink user claims she isn't a jealous person...🧐🤨

WonderingManII · Answer

I get envious or may jealous of people who seem to have life moving the normal way. Married, Job, handling things, going on vacations etc.

nawtee_me · Answer

Jealousy stems from the inability to trust someone. Whether it is justified because of the other person is not trustworthy, or your own unwillingness to trust in the other person.

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, not at all. Screw it up even once and I am gone. I don't put up with it at all.

Godihateyou · Answer

I'm really not. But respect is respect. I know people doing things they think would make me jealous is just disrespectful and I'm not gonna tolerate it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope, but I don't do drama. If she flirts with someone else I move on.

AviatorTom · Answer

Nope, nuff said.

MinaV · Answer

Jealousy is green that's why they say 'she turned green with jealousy'

bornNerd · Answer

No I am generally a very chilled out person

Anonymous · Answer

Not usually, but sometimes I can be, just a little bit.

robocop666 · Answer

No but I have had men get jealous of me as women like me

Anonymous · Answer

I am veryyyyy jealous like if a man talked about his ex i’ll tweakkkkk. That’s why i’m single 🤣🙏

beenherebefore · Answer

I can be a little jealous sometimes.

exitseven · Answer

Sometimes I can be jealous.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I'm jealous but not so much anymore

DrPepper12 · Answer

Nope. I compete with my past self.

loveyouoak · Answer

I guess I'm not. And you?

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes, in certain situations.

ineedpainkiller · Answer

no never even she sunbathes topless

Jeff51 · Answer

No but when I see a nice car I am a bit.

uncutgem · Answer

no being jealous also being insecure

slatyb · Answer

Not particularly.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Pretty much

Mon1to · Answer

i am

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not really

missindiana93 · Answer

Yes very.

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