“I’ll be there for you” - do you believe these words when someone says these words to you?

Question

i believe it ONLY when I see it…

Sweetsurprize · Accepted Answer

Well, relationships are risky in general but it also depends on the person saying. If they are trustworthy and they seem like a good person, then yes. But yeah, you shouldn't truly rely on them util you see it? It's kind of one of those blind faith type of things really.

ShesRad80 · Accepted Answer

only if bon jovi is singing them, lol  unless someone actually backs up the words they are just empty words and promises. if i say something i am of my word, however others? thats some weak ground especially these days

peedy · Accepted Answer

I would love to believe them if they were said to me but unfortunately although a person might have good intentions while saying them when it comes done to it nobody is ever there for anyone and the only person you can court on is yourself

WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

Yeah it's never true lol Unless it's said by family. Most of my family means it when they say it

AviatorTom · Answer

I believe them until I don't.

Anne_02 · Answer

I don't believe it at all. Everyone has their own busy lives, so no one is really available. In the end, you will be on your own to solve all the problems.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Typically, those words are empty. But when I say them, a lot of gals don't believe it. And then when I follow up on it, and show that I meant it, they freak out.

ZackBan · Answer

My best friend never had to say that. But every time I needed him he was there ready to do anything I needed.  So yeah words are easy.  But loyalty can only be tested in trying times

GoodManDave · Answer

I gotta see it. I've had close friends promise all kinds of lovely things on their own. And when it came to needing them, they're conveniently "busy."

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’ll believe someone if they said they want me or love me. But i hardly believe anyone who says they’ll be there for me, because when you need em, thats when they’re not there

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Hell no. People can easily lie through their teeth. They want to say that? Cool. Talk the talk and walk the fucking walk by showing it and following through.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Nice pic of my hubby there I see👀👌🏻 To answer your question, yes if it's from 2 specific people.:)

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I only believe it from people who've shown me who they are.

RavVid · Answer

Heard that and "I've got your back". Usually it means I've got a knife for your back.

devilish-cutie · Answer

yeah, unless they prove me otherwise or already acted different than that

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Living long enough, you learn or should learn in this life all you have is you.

You have to have your own back. People are fickle by nature and can change on you without notice.

I personally just depend on God for everything, never humans.

provokeesmokee · Answer

I don't believe the words. I believe it if they come through. Most people don't.

SnowedIn · Answer

There has to be actions behind that to make me believe it.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Same. Actions speak louder than words. Until then, talk is cheap.

MementoMori777 · Answer

nah almost everyone that has told me that ends up not being there, thats gotta be proven to me now

ProbablyClueless · Answer

So far, no one who has said those words to me has ever substantiated them.

PointTaken · Answer

Exactly like your meme. I don't believe people in general so saying this to me means nothing. Actions mean everything

OG956 · Answer

I heard only I'll be there for you and I care about you from my best friend (when we support each other), but he told me this more times since I'm the 1 who's got bad mental health.

molonski2 · Answer

I think you are correct , in reality the people who say this kind of stuff are never really " there " for you when it comes to the crunch.

Sanser · Answer

Only a few people will be there when you need them... you won't know until the time comes.

Andres77 · Answer

If they have a history of already doing it…sure

thatshydork · Answer

I only believe it when it’s my friends who are saying it to me or when I’m saying it to someone else.

Adam1978 · Answer

Words are cheap so it's actions that matters. If words an actions doesn't match you have will get a trust issue.

Reorx · Answer

Depends; I'll test that theory at a later date & see if the actions justify that statement.

nastyb · Answer

you're not entitled to anyone being there for you besides your parents. don't expect it from anyone.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I don’t think anyone’s ever said those words to me before

Labokachulaa · Answer

I agree, I only believe it when it's followed with actions.

exitseven · Answer

I believe it when I see it.

KBHF44 · Answer

I will wholeheartedly believe them until I don't! People are awful anymore!

Will7997 · Answer

I’ll believe it till you prove otherwise and it doesn’t take much for that

legalboxers · Answer

.. this...

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Trust but verify

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I believe they'll try

LovingJo · Answer

No, only through their actions!! 💯❤️

jshm2 · Answer

That sounds like stalker talk. To be fair.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I believe they’re a fan of FRIENDS.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yup only when I see it

Sparkie460 · Answer

Actions speak louder than words.

Iron_Man · Answer

Well, I would hope so

Minahh · Answer

Same as you only believe in actions

shades777 · Answer

every single time like a family sitcom

msc545 · Answer

maybe a little bit.

dragoblack · Answer

I take it with a grain of salt

nawtee_me · Answer

I “want” to believe it

In_Trance · Answer

depends who says them

justabuddy · Answer

Actions speak louder than words.

Nominal · Answer

Overhelming some why.

BLP11520 · Answer

Only a handful of people I would believe

LostandFound__x · Answer

No I never dk

monghjay2 · Answer

thats exactly my face lol hahahahah

Jennz6 · Answer

Nope never

gothbxtch · Answer

depends on who it is

SoJust · Answer

I sometimes these believe is word.

RyanK9b · Answer

Nope, they never keep their word

Christoff92 · Answer

Yes. They're powerful very powerful

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I agree with you.

mommymommymommy · Answer

No, i don't

Jltakk · Answer

Deep down I don't believe it.

eagle1951 · Answer

not really

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