558 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think that even if statistics could somehow show which is better, they wouldn't be without their issues. Because they'd have to rely on more concrete stats like divorce statistics or how many fathers leave their wives & kids. But I say these would even come with issues because correlation does not equal causation. There are many reasons for turmoil in relationships. Not always stemming from how good of a husband or wife someone is to someone else. And even that perception itself of a "good husband" or a "good wife" is one that's very subjective. So this is why I think this question is one that isn't very productive.
Instead, I think we should focus on the many ways why humans in general could improve rather than try to find out what race is worse & which one is better at something. Because that just leaves far too many openings for bias to come through & inaccurate results to be accepted. And the average person isn't going to approach it from a rigorous scientific perspective. So that's why it could be dangerous.
I don't think it's wrong to ask questions like these. But I do think they don't serve much of a purpose if certain advantages & disadvantages aren't being acknowledged & inquired about. Because for instance, a black man in America that was raised in poverty (which is more common in comparison to other races) doesn't have certain advantages in their family structure, environment, peer groups, (etc) that others (in this case, a white man) may have been exposed to. So the culture may not be as healthy of one when it comes to long term sociability or preparation for different environments.
I really do believe that the negative effects of slavery has made many black Americans act the way they do. But ofc, there is a greater human problem to tackle since unfavorable ways of acting aren't simply confined to a race. It is only that skin tone just so happens to unite or divide people since we're drawn to things that look more like us. And the effects of that create "issues" due to our brains being the way they are. We are largely irrational creatures when it comes to interpretation & perception.
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1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Of course this is a common sense answer for ignorant question let's see you could probably ask this question if they were just two women in the world and they were both married to each one of the guys that's about the only way that you could get answer not the answer you're looking for because you're not looking for an answer you're looking to be a prick you're looking to be a punk you're looking to get people excited because you're ignorant probably stupid but that's okay I do understand you probably don't like yourself that's the reason why you need the answer to this so you can switch colors because you can't get any girl
So in theory what are you asking this question for does it really matter to you or are you just a troublemaker ignorant troublemaker by the way
See because all guys are different it doesn't matter who you are where you came from every single guy in this world is different just like every single girl in this world is different there is no color there's just different people with different attitudes different religions different ignorances different problems in their life that they're not happy so they have to create more problems to make other people not happy
But you got me can you actually you didn't I just had to become a dick just like you and act just like you but I used a little bit different language no color involved. Because there is no such thing dude do you know that every black person in this world is a different color black they're not all the same color black did you know that every white person in this world doesn't have the same color white everybody's different they all have different colors of white
Did you know there are people in this world that are evil and did you know that the biggest evil on this planet is ignorancy because of people like you that keep the garbage going because they're so unhappy because they can't make it in life
There are people in this world that want to bring it together everybody together because that's what needs to be done because we're going to need each other but there are people like you who cannot stand who they are because they can't hold up to who they are because they're afraid to make their way in this world so they use ignorancy to keep themselves down I feel bad for you bro that you can't stand up and become part of the solution instead of part of the problem00 Reply
As Arabian girl from North Africa, Morocco to be precise, I'm going to be straightforward.
Black men here are either terrible out of poverty that made them smuggle themselves to our country, or they're very nice, succeed on working a fortune/working seriously by trying to intergate instead of going after a life of crime and willing to spoil their girl and respect our country's conservatism by actually putting a ring on their finger before anything.
White men, I met some white Frensh and Germany guys (friends of my immigratied uncles) in childhood, or some Moroccans became tenants to my dad's apartments for a while, and one who's my cousin's husband (from England). So far, my impression of them is they're very polite and humble in general and fun people to be around, . But considering I only met around, they respect boundaries, often succeed in being mature and lighthearted.
But still, I met limited number from both races, and this is just my own impression of them and I know it wouldn't be fixed and I shouldn't use this as metaphor in the future.14 Reply- +1 y
Black men and white women make the worst couples.
800 opinions shared on Relationships topic. They both are, and that's based on personal experiences. My dad is a black man, my brothers are black men, and they are exceptional husband's to their wives.
One of my aunts is married to a white man, and he is one of my favourite uncles, hands down. A lot if my dad's female cousins have white husband's and they're amazing.
So based on personal experience it's both. I think it boils down to how they were raised, their morals and values, not the amount of melanin in their skin
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Sounds like you have excellent genetics and coping strategies You're very fortunate.
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Yay! Another mixed person! I think I will follow you!
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+1 yWith all due respect, your question makes no sense. It says it's looking for statistics that have nothing to do with race, yet it's looking for a racial difference.
There are good husbands and not so good husbands... nothing to do with the colour of their skin.
40 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. There is no need to choose. Just get a black and a white husband so you have the best of both worlds
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Interesting idea.
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@Apple1996 Isn't that what mixed race is for the best of both worlds?
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@XXblack88 supposedly but for what I observed to my practice the mixed race kids have more anger and more to prove in life which makes them more dangerous. It's a behavioral I have noticed.
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@Cuminginside They really don't have more to prove that just the pressure from society.
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@XXblack88 is it real pressure or artificial generated pressure?
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@Cuminginside Shrugs I don't know It's real to them tho
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@XXblack88 because they make it real or it is real. That's why I've made the theoretical department.
1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. 🤣 what does race have to do with being a good spouse or person?
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He does. Sad to see that there are lots of people like him who say they are for free speech but want to censor people at the same time.
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@VforVindication aaw ur feelings are hurt
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@VforVindication you seem hurt and upset there buddy
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@VforVindication ur the one showing it, it's not me
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@VforVindication if you can read I simply stated how GaG picks and chooses. They rather attack regular posters but anything racial can exist even if it has a bad taste but post a questions mods personally don't like and they'll take your ish done.
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@VforVindication don't self project onto me there bub, here's a mirror 🪞
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@VforVindication don't mimic me pal, you need it for the self projection.
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u +1 y1. How do you define "better husband?"
2. Don't you think it depends on the individuals involved much more so than their race?05 Reply- +1 y
'I'm not asking about race, but who's better: black or white?' Dude, I laughed when I read that!
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@midnightmoon05 good husband is all around care of the family in all aspects
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I love your answer. I have friends from different countries/world…they treat their wives well because I pick them as my friends.
I don’t have an answer for you for those who are bad husbands.
On average, whites men have higher IQ's and higher incomes. On average, black men are more masculine and more athletic. However, they also have higher divorce rates and commit more violent crimes. Therefore, generally, white men make better husbands.
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@adaeva
I’ve always felt that what you said is true. If we look at pro sports, blacks dominate all of them except for hockey, and that’s because I think they don’t have much of an interest in it.
As for whites…Look at Europe. 2000 years ago they had advanced engineering, advanced forms of government, superior medical knowledge compared to the rest of the world. Yet in many places in Africa they still live in the Stone Age.
I don’t know if there is any reputable science or stats to back up what you said. All I know is just based on observation, blacks clearly are dominant in athletics and whites in science, engineering, and other such areas.
There has to be something to it. - +1 y
@Jersey
So what are you trying to say? When blacks were selling other blacks to white slave traders they didn’t just capture and sell whoever they could? Instead the did a physical fitness test and administered IQ tests to see who would be the best candidates?
Dude, when salves were bought and sold they damn sure didn’t consider intelligence. Anyone who got caught whether intelligent or stupid, whether strong or week got sold. What? Like they threw a net on some get and we’re all: he’s too smart, free him? - +1 y
@Exterminatore I think he’s more just saying because slavery was such intensive work, the physically weak would die off and not survive. And of course the intelligent would leave because they could just become free blacks instead. Matter of fact it was intelligence itself that was forbideen. Slaves weren’t allowed to read
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@Exterminatore Europe is a peninsula. Europe and Asia: same continent. The largest continent that exist. It extends from east to west. Trading was more fluent, farming was more easy.
Europe development don't have anything to do with IQ and everything to do with geographical location.
Read the book: gun, germs and steel. - +1 y
@Exterminatore @WhiteBoyChill The first part of the slave trade was slaves were kept in brutal conditions prior to shipment so people died. Then the arduous journey on the ships in which many of the weak died. A lot died on the transatlantic journey and some who were weak were simply put overboard. The work killed others and then they were bred for strength. They were bred like any farm animal for the desired traits such as strength. Intelligence was not a desired trait and it led to problems so those with it did not fair well or were kept as a house slave but those positions were limited.
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@Jersey2 Jewish were enslaved and put to work till death. They were not used for their intelligence.
They were enslaved by Africans: Egyptians.
You are putting aside lot of things to justify your narrative of intellectual superiority.
Look, if Europens were able to conquer most of the globe—the British Empire did it—was thanks to the encounter with America.
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@Exterminatore Actually the majority of pro sports are dominated by whites.
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@intovertedguy Really...
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@Diego
Geography and engineering, architecture, law, and science are not connected.
It’s the people who inhabited said geography where the difference must be.
America’s eastern Geography is little different from Europes, yet I have yet to hear about the Indians building aqueducts, a coliseum, or having advanced systems of laws and government as the Romans and Greeks. The Hippocratic oath that doctors take is named for an Ancient Greek as for the time they had advanced medicine compared to the rest of the world.
Sorry, geography is not a factor in this. Geography does not create these things, people do. - +1 y
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Really? Then why is it every time I watch Sports Center I see clips of a white guy standing underneath a net with a look on his face that says “how do I guard against this guy”….. meanwhile in the same clip I see a black guy launch himself from half court flying over the top of 6 guys for a slam dunk.
Same is true in just about every sport.
I think if blacks had an interest in hockey, curling, polo, and cricket they’d be killing it there too, but most seem to have no interest in such sports. - +1 y
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Hell, if homosexuality ever becomes acceptable among American blacks they will dominate figure skating too. We’ll see them inventing moves never heard of before. - +1 y
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@Exterminatore You are saying geography doesn't shape a society. Well, it does.
Tell me, if Europe was a small continent—it's a península, but let's assume it's a continent—in middle of the Ocean. Something like The Americas. Isolated as well from the rest of the world; with white people been it's only population, do you think Europe would still achieve the same level of development? - +1 y
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As far as hokey black hate cold environment as Africa is hot - +1 y
@Monarch
Yeah, no. Do you know basic history sir?
What about the Vikings…known as the Germanic tribes of the north? Have you not heard of their renown in sailing and navigation. These dudes were world travelers. Traveling as far as N. America and Constantinople. In fact it would seem whites were the only people to build vessels capable of trans Atlantic travel. Blacks got to N. America transported on said ships, not built and navigated them.
What about the Industrial Revolution? What about electricity? What about nearly every modern connivence we have? All invented by whites. Atomic bomb - whites, space travel - whites. Would you like me to go on? I don’t feel the need too. These things were invented by whites. Not blacks, Asians, Arabs, or Native Americans.
Who invented TV - whites, Radio - whites. Why not try to tell me that geography is responsible for those things also. What about cars? What about planes?
Sorry dude. I think it’s painfully obvious by observation that whites clearly have some give for technology and that sir is based on intelligence NOT geography. NOT anything else.
There must be something to what @Adaeva said and to what we can all observe. That blacks seem to be superior in athletics and whites in IQ in general. - +1 y
@Exterminatore I hope you are jocking. Vikings were raiders, pirates; not a distinctive culture of scandinavia. They historically surge from farmers and fishermen's.
Africans never discovered The Americas, because there was no need for them to do so. They traded with the middle east and adopted the Muslim faith. Europe never did had much valuable things to offer, by its own. Also, Africa was partially isolated from Eurosasia, beside the radical environmental differences—within Africa—made it tough for Africans to have a fluent development. - +1 y
@Monarch
We can acknowledge these things as objectively true based on observation. Or we can label the truth as racist and choose to ignore it. Doesn’t mean there can’t and isn’t brilliant blacks and athletically gifted whites that exist, but what it does mean is there are clearly observable traits in both races that can be seen as a pattern throughout history. - +1 y
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Stop dude. Just stop. I get it. Having to admit that whites as an entire race have higher IQ’s is threatening. I get it. It’s hard to admit our weaknesses. However things are what they are. Do you think I like having to admit that blacks also seem to be more well endowed than whites? No. It is what it is. - +1 y
@Exterminatore Bro, you don't even care to understand why many blacks are really good athletes. You know why? Because within the black comunities, playing a sport is the only way to be recognized. Not because been an athlete is the peak of a black person potential, is because been an athlete is the only OPORTUNITY to don't end up in poverty, or socially stuck.
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@Exterminatore Lol, just say you are racist.😆
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@Diego
Depends on where we’re talking about. In New England, the pilgrims would have starved had it not been for Squanto. However, that’s because they had more to feed then hunting game could feed. Crops were required. If they had smaller numbers of people they could have survived off game and fish alone. So, yeah. Squanto kinda saved their asses.
Let’s try this again. Who invented industrialization? Who invented: cars, planes, atomic energy, space travel, TV, radio, how to use electricity, modern medical practices, modern medicine, and frigging computers?
I’m not debating this with you. - +1 y
@Exterminatore Black are more endowed than whites? Wth, lol. No way. We are in the 21st century, but you speak like someone from the 19th century.
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@Deigo
Ahhhb yess. The classic “I’m wrong, don’t like what you’re saying and not intelligent enough to debate you so I’m gonna call you a racist.”
Are you aware you just proved my point? I’m white, and you sir are not intelligent enough to even win this debate against me. None of this is even advanced knowledge sir. Imagine how dumb I will make you look when we get to topics that require serious intelligence. - +1 y
The bottom line is there is a clearly objectively observable pattern we see though out history regarding racial tendencies. You can in no way debate that so why not just accept it?
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@Exterminatore "Are you aware you just proved my point? I’m white, and you sir are not intelligent enough to even win this debate against me. None of this is even advanced knowledge sir."
Says the one that clings to his racial prejudice.👍 - +1 y
It must be difficult being unintelligent, although they say ignorance is bliss.
I’ve heard a person describe stupidity like this:
“When you’re dead, you feel no pain. All of the pain is felt by others. The same thing happens when you’re stupid.” - +1 y
@Exterminatore Oh god, I am stupid and you are clearly smarter. You're in fact of a superior race. You are white. Your ancestors conquered the globe, with their intelligence.
In fact, you are so smart I guess you don't need to read biology and psychology books. You already know it all. I bet your favorite book is the Mein Kampft—source of supreme wisdom.
I imagine you also would agree with having a nazi svastica marked in your forehead, since you are a proud Arian.
Don't forget also that white skin superiority makes it more possible to get skin cancer. Also, the Arian height! Also don't forget that taller people have a higher chance of developing cancerous cells. Neither forget that the beautiful clear eyes (blue, green, hazel..) increase the chance of ocular problems.
I doubt you also forgot that the Muslims help Europe crawl out of the dark age, with all the knowledge they had.
Neither forget that the biggest empire after the British, was the Mongol Empire—an Asian empire. Thousands of years after. Only reason he didn't swiped Europe from end to end was because: he died. You would be speaking Mongolian.
Don't forget ALSO that the richest man on earth in ancient times, was Mansa Musa, an African man. It wasn't a white man.
There are tons more to say.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it. I’m a racist. Whatever. Has no impact on me. You guys over did it. Calling everyone racists who disagrees with you has no impact anymore. You guys have done this too often for too long. 😱
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Better in what way? I think potentially every race may potentially have advantages and disadvantages comparatively.
Better as in morally superior? No race can claim that over another.
What did you choose the name Normandi? Are you Scandinavian or were your ancestors Normans? You know that Normandi means northmen in Italian and Latin right? - +1 y
@Exterminatore They are better in what they make... tv cars phones trains
medical equipment the list goes on
Chose the name cuz I was in northern France at that time - +1 y
Wow, you guys are still going. Koreans a million times better? Seriously? North or South Koreans, lol. North is the worlds basket case and you can’t argue that. South Korea? It wouldn’t exist without the US. Do you even know your history? Then Korean, like Japan, was modeled after the US. They are still heavily dependent on the US. The US wrote the Japanese Constitution after they defeated them in war not so long ago actually. Then the US helped rebuild them completely. GDP per worker hour and it’s the US:
en.wikipedia.org/.../List_of_countries_by_labour_productivity
687 opinions shared on Relationships topic. That really can't be decided by us. I know that many people look at white men - particularly Asian women - as making better husbands, but also look at black men as stronger and more sexually satisfying. Both "preferences" are not good. A woman marrying a white man because she thinks he's smarter or can provide, yet doesn't think he's the sexiest or most ideal in bed is still very sad. But also a woman wanting sex with a black man because of his dick size or how he performs in bed, yet not thinking he's marriage material, or even knowing her family won't accept him, is also very sad.
A woman is going to be happiest with who gives her the best in life, whether he's black or white. She could always love white men yet ended up marrying a black man who was the best thing to ever happen in her life. Or she always dated black men and a white man turned out to be the one to love her most. Experience tells us everything, not what's on paper.
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+1 yConsidering that 69.4 percent of black babies are born out of wedlock compared to 28.2 percent of white babies I think the answer is pretty obvious.
And I think it's also pretty obvious that the pervasive lack of a fathers' presence in black childrens' lives is a major reason why blacks commit so many more crimes per capita than whites, are more likely to be addicted to drugs and are much less likely to succeed in society and career. Fatherless children lack discipline in their youth which leads them to be more likely to make poor decisions in their adulthood.
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They are not "my" stats. They are official US government stats. If you are talking about blacks in America they are the most accurate statistics available.
"For blacks, the number is 69.4 percent; for American Indians/Alaska Natives, 68.2 percent (Native Hawaiians/Other Pacific Islanders were at 50.4 percent); for Hispanics, 51.8 percent; for whites, 28.2 percent; and for Asian Americans, a paltry 11.7 percent."
www.nationalreview.com/.../ - +1 y
Your update... "The question wants to know statistically which is better nothing to do with race"
Makes no sense at all. Your entire question is about race! Black and white are races. So how can you say it has nothing to do with race. That's absurd. It is ENTIRELY about race. - +1 y
I checked a source in regards to the statistics. You are correct
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@imfreeze95 👍 Thank you.
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI feel like there are different kinds of black men. African people who grew up in africa (that now live in the us) are very different to African American men. I get what you mean though, and yes it doesn't have anything to do with color. People are just too sensitive about race.
Anyway, I've been *with* black men but haven't had a relationship with one. I feel like we wouldn’t be compatible enough to commit to each other (based on the ones I've hooked up with). I've been in relationships with white men and we get along better. Might be the personality, culture, family, attitudes.
Personally i would say white men, for me (so far), but i might meet a black guy one day id be compatible with. Only then my opinion would change.02 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 ySure, that is what im saying. And? Eat a dick.
Opinion Owner+1 yLol, yes it is
Although some black men are well endowed, culturally speaking, African American males are not known for their commitment. There are exceptions.
Just as white guys can have commitment issues as well, their cultural circles usually shames them of they do not commit.
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+1 yYour question is pure non sense and why on universe would that question be a "great question". And great questions as these are for GAG Admins a great inquirer (Brainy medal).
... are you serious? Come on...
It's about the individual. Not height, beard style, hair style, pubic hair nor skin color/ethnicity.
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And your statement on your update is far worse than the question itself which makes the most non sense of all with:
-This question wants to know statistically.
I wouldn't be surprised that my comment (s) will be removed. Eventually getting warnings.
That's just suppression.
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+1 yTough call...
Maybe we need a global competition?
Have seen good and bad in both chocolate and vanilla, don't know how to answer.
I'm mediocre at best, being Vanilla persuasion. I could not compare to African goat ranchers passing on their crafts and wisdom. On the other hand, they get to beat their kids if they see them playing video games all day and I'd go to jail for that.
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Anyways, this job is really something I've been waiting for. Easy, pays my rent and other... and it's a good start to stay away from home. Couldn't be happier, honestly. May have had some crazies around the park, even heard one today about some naked mofo taking a bath far away from my jurisdiction. (security woman by the way)
00 Replybeing a good husband has nothing to do with skin color
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@normandi the premise of the question is false. Your question explicitly assumes that one race of husband is better than another. Yes, I get it, you put "in general" but that can't be answered either. @gothbxtch point is well made and exactly the right answer: how good a husband is has nothing to do with race or skin color and you saying "collectively by experience" doesn't invalidate what she said or make the question better.
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It's about culture not melanin content.
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@DextroShade blacks and whites differ in more ways than skin color.
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+1 yWhite men are. For one black men don't even like to marry but just get women pregnant and leave them as single moms.
Statistics don't lie on what black men do to women in that regard.
Secondly, white men are smarter and have better work ethic than black men and provide better lifestyle to their families.
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Decent.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAccording to my loving slut of a wife white men are much better lovers!
We are open and now just do 3somes or couples swap cause black men are just to shit in bed they only want what they want and don't care if they have a condom! White guys care more but still just want what they do but they will attempt to devour her pussy and my cock!
Black guys just want it in her and in Thier ass to cum and run.
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+1 yI'm not sure there's a real tangible way to completely prove this with stats alone. Statistically speaking divorce doesn't necessarily mean that's the only way to measure a failed marriage.
People stay married and have have failed marriages. I grew up a kid in one. Statistics don't show the entire story here.
I am curious as to why you seek out the answer to this question though?
00 ReplyThat is not a fair question skin color has nothing to do with it, there are good and bad with every color its who you are on the inside are younz good or bad person and how well you get along a guy could be great guy with someone who he doesn't get along with the bat shit crazy type and all of a sudden he's the bad guy there is do many factors involved but skin color isn't one of them
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After thinking about it I think I know where you're coming from and you should listen to Candice Owens she talks a lot about the broken family in black community how a lot of children are brought up with a father figure and anyone black or white from a broken is more likely to turn to drop out of school and turn to crime
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yDepends on the area each is from. A Black guy from Seattle is from an area with good jobs that values an education. A White guy from Huntington, WV is a junkie deadbeat. I've lived in both. A White guy from Sacramento probably has a good job and values education. A Black dude from Memphis doesn't. Once again, I've spent time in both. When in Rome, do as the Romans... and most people-regardless of color-fit into what that particular area values.
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+1 yLook at divorce rates now and find yo answer.
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Good indicator
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It's a rough gage It doesn't split the races and the ages.
+1 yI have a black husband and honestly I could not ask for a better husband. I only dated a white man once and my experience wasn't great.
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+1 yI've heard of white men who have sacrificed everything, even their own lives, for their wives and families, I've never heard the same about black men.
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+1 yWhite men… coming from a black women. Not that black men are bad husbands but I think white men love us the way we need to be loved.
I think this difference is bc of generational trauma.
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+1 ymarried twice. same race background.
one was willing to work with me … the other not.
The one who is willing to work with me is the better husband. Race has nothing to do with this.00 Reply
+1 yIt’s really not something where you can say in general one or the other is better because it totally depends on the person
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+1 ySo you want women to use racial stereotypes to gauge which one is better? You don’t find anything wrong with that? Please explain.
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That isn’t what was asked in the original question. That’s assuming that everyone knows what every black and white person is like for a husband.
Not everyone understands that. It’s also assuming that every black person would show the same behavior as the next black person because of the color of their skin. - +1 y
@QA update: “this has nothing to do with race”
Then why is the question specifically asking which race is the better husband?
You have no fucking clue what you’re asking 🤣🤣
+1 yWell they say black men have no fathers. As a Caribbean black man the stereotype is true. My father was a shit father. He was in my life but most black fathers are shitholes. There’s a small percentage where they will be in their kids life and be there for him. Mine wasn’t, he cared only about himself. His job came before his kids. That black selfish b@stard
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My dad is African American lol I don’t get the Caribbean from him
It depends on how the man was raised. I know a white man who beats his wife and I know a black man who gave his wife an std. lol I don’t think the race matters
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yStatistically, black men are more likely to abandon their wife and offspring, either voluntarily (cheat/leave) or involuntarily (death, incarceration).
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Opinion Owner+1 yOne counter example does not make my post untrue.
454 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Statistically in the US white men have a lower divorce rate and fight to stay in their children’s lives even when divorced. That’s the macro view.
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+1 ySo we're just being blatantly racist today lol ok
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That’s not racism at all.
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@serious_miss419 even if I pretended to agree with that, this question is weird and off-putting, on top of being nonsensical.
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Not at all, you’re making it like that.
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@serious_miss419 actually she is right. Anyone who would take this question seriously is a joke
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It’s a question. Reasonable question too. Folks are too sensitive and folks need to be allowed to ask a question. Think whatever you want
1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Either can be better.
No matter what a person's ethnic background is you will find both good and bad parents.10 ReplyLike the old saying says:
"Once you go black, you're a single mother."
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+1 yYou can’t generalize when it comes to race. That’s racist.
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Rather a personal choice id say
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@TheBallGuy1234 it is a personal choice whether you prefer black guys or white guys. But it’s racist to ask which race in general makes a better husband. And saying it’s for statistics doesn’t make it any better.
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I mean prolly yes the question wasn't framed properly.
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@TheBallGuy1234 it’s ok. Maybe ask “Which do you prefer to date, Black guys or white guys?” That’s still a little shady but at least it acknowledges that people have personal preferences that aren’t necessarily racist.
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What do you prefer tho?
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@TheBallGuy1234 I generally prefer white guys, but I have seriously liked one Black guy (he had a girlfriend though) and I definitely would not rule out the possibility of dating a Black guy if I ever become single again in the future.
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You're dating a white guy rn? You're black or white?
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@TheBallGuy1234 I’m white and my boyfriend is white. I’ve never had a Black boyfriend (though there are other races besides Black and white).
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Yes they are also centered around black and white lol
I don't know who is better. I will not talk about the color or sex. It depends on many factors: education, career, life circumstances, characters, culture, moral, ethics, family values and upbringing of that person, male or female.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I fail to see how skin color would make a difference.
There is a prominent difference in wealth status that we never seem to conquer. Obviously poor people have more shit to deal with that could destroy marriages.00 Reply796 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Asians are better than both but that gets held against them
00 Reply10.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have nothing in common with black men, so I have to say white.
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+1 yThere's plenty of racists on here like yourself who'll have an answer to your question. I'm not, so I don't.
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You sound psychotic.
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Racist piece of trash
+1 yYou're an idiot and I hope for the sake is this world that you have not procreated and never do.
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Oh ouch that really hurt my feelings, or not.
Your question and comments to other people show how close minded your are and apparently racist. There's nothing more to say and I'm not going to waste anymore time or energy on you.
496 opinions shared on Relationships topic. A Christian conservative, regardless of melanin.
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+1 yDoesn't matter on their skin colour, as long as they treat you right ❤️
10 ReplyI feel red ones are better we should have more of them
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+1 yI've seen bad husbands of both colors, its not a race thing
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yHonestly based on my PERSONAL experience, black men do fuck way better
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Opinion Owner+1 yHe’s my best relationship too and i’ve been through it… so I am comparing it with a lot
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What do they do that makes them fuck better?
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Nevermind, I see the answer
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@WanderingLoveWizard may be bigger and thicker and harder cook... don't know
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Yeah, that’s what being a good husband is about. A good fucking
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+1 yThe one who had a good parents, who rasied him well, he comes from a war home with good attitude.
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+1 yWhite men are likely better able to provide for the progeny following divorce.
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+1 yIs this some American question I'm too civilized to understand?
I'm saying that because you say black and white like an absolute instead of many cultures in both races.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yi think both suck. but i absolutely just cannot be with white guys. they are such douchebags.
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+1 yI think black men although I've never met one before so I don't know
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+1 yThere is no "general." Each person is an individual and is individually good or not.
00 Reply 595 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Isn’t it whats under the skin that counts?
Good and not so good in every race! Women needs to learn how to pick them.00 Reply- 779 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yI would say white men because they are more likely to come from intact families and not be raised by a baby momma.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yIn general, it's just a preference, in bed... black men. They are more aggressive/ assertive and have more girth
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I can be extremely aggressive if that's what a girl wants, but I've had more luck getting girls off with a more sensual approach. Sometimes while barely even moving my hips.
I think a lot of girls (especially you young ones) are fucking the wrong dudes if you think aggression and dominance is the only way to get off.
There's a whole other world of sexual experiences that you're missing out on.
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It's about passion. Not choking and hard railing
Opinion Owner+1 y@WanderingLoveWizard I think it's an instinctual thing
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+1 yNo race is any better than any other. That’s not what makes a person.
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+1 yIt's not determined by color or race. It depends on the man
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThe one that can spell and doesn’t think colour has anything to do with how good of a husband one can be.
11 ReplyI know pretty bad white people, i know pretty bad black people... Evil does not ask race nor stupidity ask nationality.
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+1 yThis is just a really fcking odd question.
Either way, most black children are fatherless, I suppose
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. How can color have anything to do with that question? There are good and bad husbands of all colors. It depends on what you consider a good husband.
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+1 yBlack husbands are much more lenient just look at how they let their women behave
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