Do you believe opposites attract?

[MementoMori777]

i always believed so but the more i thought if it i have come to the realization that for me thats an unrealistic expectation and the person i settle with would most likely have to be partially insane to deal with my ass for life so now even tho i believe opposites still attract, it might take a not so opposite to deal with certain people, so do you believe opposites attract? 🤔

[beautyjoyfover200]

I believe it !!! I think it’s the cutest if it works for them with happiness and love.
I’ll pray to whoever I end up with the long term or the rest of my life that they are ready to deal with me because I’m a lot even for myself lol. I have different ego in a way I can go about that I’m still learn who I am (that might sound weird and insane). I love to be center of attention by my partners eyes I want them to be obsessed with me ( I’m a Leo so that say it all) but also very shy and anti social. So I want someone who is not a spotlight person, but also an extrovert. Together that balances our relationship, and we are kings and queens in our own world that no one can touch.

[MementoMori777]

i see you have your own unique traits that require a certain person as well lol

[beautyjoyfover200]

What could that certain person be like?

[MementoMori777]

someone similar but maybe not too similar, its a good question tho 😂

[beautyjoyfover200]

Lol ohh yeah and yes a very good question, I won’t know until it actually happens lol

[MementoMori777]

yes but there's always a bit of excitement in the mystery ain't there? not knowing who or how they will be

[beautyjoyfover200]

Your right lol! Being a mysterious person will excite things for me I live for that honestly but I don’t want to be disappointed at the end then it become a waste of time but also that’s just how life is.

[MementoMori777]

well considering a healthy marriage is a happy marriage i doubt you'll marry someone you aren't happy with so i doubt you'll be disappointed 😆🤣

[beautyjoyfover200]

Again your right I won’t marry someone that won’t make me happy lol, I’ll send you an invite to the wedding if it ever happens tho😅

[MementoMori777]

and ill try to make the appearance, if i dont im either dead or i genuinely forgot the date, im normally not very good at remembering dates 😂

[beautyjoyfover200]

Oh you better remember the date, I’ll send out a reminder every two weeks until the big day. Your seat and plate won’t be cheap 😂🤣

[MementoMori777]

ill make it easy for you, just grab a random plastic chair and put it all the way in the back and grab a paper and just write chris on it and tape it to the chair, boom 😂

[beautyjoyfover200]

Lmaooooo genius!!

[MementoMori777]

😎🤗

[sheikalana]

It often happens. My parents are the complete opposite of each other and they've been married for more than 30 years. I'm personally not attracted to someone who's the opposite of me. Me and my partner are not the same person but we're the same style of person calm, quiet, sweet, caring.

[MementoMori777]

i see, fair enough 🤔

[exitseven]

They might attract but it usually ends badly. Once I dated somebody who was just the opposite of all the other girls I ever dated. I really was attracted to her and she was a lot of fun to be with but she was also crazy. Maybe she was an alcoholic too and maybe bipolar. One day she was telling me tha tshe loved me and the next she would not return my calls.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[UniquelyBasic]

To an extent yeah but I would say if two people are too different it probably won't last.

[MementoMori777]

yea thats a good point indeed 🤔

[AmandaYVR]

Nope. Fun for a while, but recipe for disaster. (And tension, headaches. Solidarity and common sensibilities is much more manageable over decades. Trust me.)

[MementoMori777]

really? 😂

[AmandaYVR]

"Boom!"
Fun for a bit, like a firework.
In the long haul... so much negotiating, compromise... it's tiresome.

[MementoMori777]

interesting, i always thought there was a change, i think it would all depend on how well they can stand each other haha

[AmandaYVR]

The more differences, the more you will push each other.
But the more conflict and tension there will be, having to negotiate all your differences.

[MementoMori777]

or just accept each others differences? 🤷🏽‍♂️🤣

[AmandaYVR]

Optimistic thought.
But over the long haul...
"What food do you want to eat?"
"Oh, you're going to bed already?" "Wow, you're sure awake at this time of the morning."
"What movie do you want to watch tonight?"
"I want to go out." "I want to stay home."
"Your friends are weird." "Your family is nuts."
"You want to jump out of a plane? Can't we read a book?"

... stuff like that.
It gets tiring fast.

[MementoMori777]

well that does sound quite tiring but maybe if you go for the first thought that goes in mind then maybe the rest won't come to mind, like not giving it a chance type of thing

[LostandFound__x]

To an extent. Like it has to be simple things lol extrovert introvert…. I’m a reserved women I’m not going to be attracted to a drug dealer lol

[MementoMori777]

well thats understandable lol

[gothbxtch]

sort of! would date a guy who was opposite of me in some traits, but not others

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xweiQukBM_k

[MementoMori777]

seems realistic lol

[MissBoogus]

I think so? My boyfriend and I were veeery different at first

[MementoMori777]

at first? fair enough lol

[MissBoogus]

After the 8 years our personalities kind of merged lol

[MementoMori777]

interesting observation 🤔

[JoyGirl]

Yes and no.

[MementoMori777]

explain yourself, and why aren't you trying to bully me? 🙂

[JoyGirl]

It depends how much of an opposite they are. Being too different could be a problem. Having something in common is important.

I was sleepy. 😂
But now, since I am up, I will fight you. 😌

[MementoMori777]

good good, you are delusional again and fair enough lol

[JoyGirl]

lmaooo 😂

[JoyGirl]

Look who is talkng. 😂

[JoyGirl]

Talking*

[MementoMori777]

i am, have you not been listening pff 😏

[JoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

Definitely not!