Guys, do you think or know you have a certain power over a woman that loves you?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

My wife is heterosexual, so she admires masculinity - the fact that I am taller and stronger than her. I'm 6'2" and she's 5'5". I can reach objects that are high up, lift and carry heavy objects, repair things and build things. I am bolder and more daring. I make her feel safe and secure.

On our first date, we went to our cars in the restaurant parking lot. We stood there talking for a while. When we went to leave, we found out that the gate had been closed and locked. So I hoped over the 6' high cinder block wall and got someone to open the gate.
I didn't think anything of it, but when my (future) wife told her friends what happened, it obvious that she was genuinely awed, as if I was a super hero for effortlessly climbing over that wall and rescuing her like a damsel in distress. 🤣

She also respects my knowledge and thinks I'm smart.

So those are the powers I have over my wife. LOL

I don't wield any power over her, though. I don't act like the head of the household. We treat each other as equal partners. Neither is the boss of the other. We are both too independent to take orders. She admires and respects me and I admire and respect her.

[nolookingbackx]

That's nice 😊

[Hithere4567]

If two people love each other, they have a power over each other. That's love. I'm single but it's a power I wish a girl had over me.

[Hithere4567]

Thanks for the MHO.

[nolookingbackx]

That's nice. I've met some men who thought that letting a woman have that power over them is weakness. You know what's love about!

[nolookingbackx]

People always feel this and loving someone always gives them power over us. Some respect it and show you more gentleness and some use this against you. That is the harsh truth...