Girls, Do you realise how much power you have in courtship?

[Anonymous]

You don't have to do much because courtship is purely gynocentric (i. e. it focuses only on you), you just have to be yourself. A heterosexual man, on the other hand, has to do a lot of things to get attention.

[jennifer_bloom]

A woman sacrifices herself during marriage and a guy sacrifices himself during courtship

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Good lord, man, stop thinking relationships are so one sided.

You deserve some of the focus as the other partner, too. It's okay to want that, and it's right to claim you deserve it.

Equality goes both ways, my friend. You're worth just as much as the woman in your relationships.

Cut that toxic thinking out, or you're going to end up abused and unhappy.

[KatherineJ]

If you think either gender has or should have “power” in a relationship, I suggest you rethink what a relationship is.

[Asker]

Thank you very much for commenting.
I am referring to the act of courting a person to establish a sentimental relationship, the period in which one tries to fall in love.

And it's not what I think, it's the reality, the man is the one who must have the initiative to be able to court the woman, but the woman will only be limited to select who suits her and who does not. So, in a way, she has the power because she has the ability to control the situation.

There are also one-sided relationships.

[KatherineJ]

I don’t think that’s how it works. But hey, if that’s what you have dealt with I can’t argue it.