This guy is having threesomes and banging hot girls. He's famous though, E-famous. Is that it? The power?
No offense to the guy but objectively speaking, the dude is skinny fat, hair is a mess and just average at best. He's banging and having threesomes with 8+s.
All I keep hearing from girls is that "personality is number 1!!!" but this makes no fkn sense... the dude doesn't sound like he has a good personality. He publicly cheated on his girlfriend (by making out with another girl live) and also publicly tells stories of them having threesomes and leaking pics.
Yes, girls love power and status. That's the ultimate goal men should strive for.
No, maybe he truly does have a great personality and that's what matters the most.
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I guess it's no joke when guys say "get your money up". All this time I've been working on my personality and I'm literally invisible to girls lmao
Its sad but its true. Women are drawn to power and status. It's not a malevolent thing really (not a 'I'm waiting for the next better thing to come along then I'm leaving this douche') but rather a basic need for security to satisfy the female's nesting/mothering instincts. A guy who is wealthy, has his own company, etc etc can give her the safety and security she needs to satisfy that instinct. She feels more comfortable with them.
Just like guys, at our most basic level, will tend to go for the mate who gives us the best chance at offspring. The healthy young female. Thus men dating younger women. Yes we are thinking feeling human beings, but both male and females, when reduced to our more basic urges, will fall into these patterns. It's biological... chemical really. Men are driven by mating, women are driven by nesting/security.
It's the reason why you could have a guy walk down the street and no women give him a second look, but make him a well known celebrity and suddenly he gets mobbed by women everywhere he goes. As much as everyone will deny it, its true. Power and status are biologically sexier to the female subconscious.
Who is the guy in your question exactly, and how do you know he's not just making it up. While to answer your question yes money and status does matter. Just look around and see how easy it is to get pussy for rich guys.
Well, fame and popularity can attract considerably hot girls, but also not only hot girls, the point is that if a girl value more fame, money and popularity she'll strive for it when it's possible without regarding hers attractiveness. It might seem that only considerably physically attractive girls go after fame, popularity, status etc., because he chooses only attractive ones obviously.
"All I keep hearing from girls is that "personality is number 1!!!" but this makes no fkn sense... the dude doesn't sound like he has a good personality." I don't think those girls who said that lied to you, the girls (or as you said those "hot girls") that you see around famous men have other values (possibly personality trait isn't their first choice), people are different and their choices are different, and whenever person states their opinion he/she can't fully represent all their gender/population by their personal opinions on preferences.
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These hoes are in it for ideas of fame. They get hot at the idea of others being into them on camera. If you have a platform to feed narcissism - yeah, some self loving ladies may sell their souls for a chance to feel glamorous.
I'm hottest for fit, funny and down to earth guys personally.
I'm sorry but those girls are doing it for attention. That's all
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Yes they are. They're called 'stream sluts' girls who do anything for attention and views online. But the point still stands... the girl is like an 8 and the dude is like a 4 lol.
comeon all the girls know how hot they are, everyone knows where they stand in the dating world, yeah sure insecurities exist regardless of hotness, but it doesn't turn you into a weak minded slut, it just means you dont like something about you, everyoen does.
are you telling me a 9+ girl is going to throw herself at a hobo cause her butt is not very round or big? doesn't make sense, she knows that even with whatever flaws she has she is hot as hell.
@IceCubedude it doesn't make you weak or slutty. Just doesn't put a person into knowing their 'hotness' as it depends on the other person's standards. and that last part has nothing to do with anything. 9 year old won't do that for a start. And just because someone doesn't know they're pretty/hot whatever doesn't make them desperate
The answer is this: SOME girls prefer a great personality while SOME are more concern with status. If a girl says she prefers a guy with a great personality you can't just say "well I know this guy with a horrible personality and he gets a lot of chicks so she's lying."
no thats far from the truth the girls (hot ones ) will choose what is the best they can get, if he's the best she can get atm she will stick to him if someone better shows up and she likes him more chances are she will stop having strong feelings for the man she has. Personality matters when you have no hot/powerful guys around to compete with.
You can have a great personality but if your friend drives a porsche, is good weight and has a handsome face and can crack jokes chacnes are you will not succeed in getting the girl you want cause her eyes will be on your friend's.
I know cause i live it, i dont have money but i am smart, have the personality and looks and i get girls interested mainly by just looking pretty, except when a guy with more money shows up, its like the girl wants me but she prefers him, she wants to be with someone whos as good looking as me but he priority is to be with the guy who has the money.
Also keep in mind not all girls the same not every girl born with options, hot body and pretty face, if you have no options you will settle for less "the personality type girl" my cousing is easily a 9/10 her boyfriend while not really that attractive or fit makes a decent amount of money, has a 2016 brand new car and has a big flat.
another girl i know who gives me attention non stop like she literally can't keep her eyes off me !! its obvious how much attracted to me she is, but when its time to date she chose a less attractive guy with money.
these are just two examples i could go on and on... etc
the way you are born is not up to you of course but keep in mind we are talking about hot girls, not girls who are average at best ( like most girls on gag) these girls are not what guys mean , they will absolutly settle for less.
@IceCubedude Your experience does not sum up everybody's experience. There may be other factors to take in consideration. It's kinda like when guys keep relying on this "I don't get any girls because Im a nice guy" mentality, as if being nice is the one and only quality that matters. Plus being hot/dating guys with money and being not hot/settling for less is NOT mutually exclusive. I've seen that same order lots of times but I've also seen the complete oppsite lots of time too. I meet cute, average, & ugly guys all the time. Sometimes the cute guys happen to be laid back, nice and fun. And sometimes they are really arrogant and go out of their way to show me their hot car or tell me how they're working on their own clothing line etc. Take a wild guess which guy I go for. I met a guy like this before and even though he was cute and had a nice car, he insulted me the whole time. I dont even know if he was aware of it or what.
As i mentioned girls with options, hot, pretty, has lots of guys after them, come from a good family usually dont settle for less and they dont want to be treated like crap even though some crave that treatment, looks wise i have no issues, iam laid back, cool and know how to dress which is one of the reasons i attract girls but i can never compete with a guy who lacks my coolness but is nice and has lots of money.
Depends on what you define as a hot girl for starters. I'm sure it's nothing but 5 minutes of fame for those type of girls and I assume that is all they want.
"Hot girls" go for guys who have power and status so they can have a name then ditch them later for someone who is more powerful and status worthy.
A woman saying she cares about his personality has always been an excuse so she can seem less shallow for liking him for other materialistic/superficial reasons.
You dont need to be famous or have lot of money. Women are attracted to power. They see kindness as being submissive and weak.
Power comes in different forms. A man who is physically tall displays some level of power in a woman's eyes. A man who is talll and has muscles is looked at by women as powerful to some and will get girls.
Adding money, status just increases your attractiveness and overall scope of power. Now not only are you physically powerful but socially.
This is waht get women They chase after power.
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Women are kind of like parasites trying to latch onto a strong host if you will. You get the best visualization of this seeing a woman on her knees giving you a blowjob.
Status and power are synonymous with money. Yes, being rich makes it easy to get girls, even two at a time. They line up for you.
It is also required to get some of the most desirable girls. I am rich, many of the girls I've had are models and a few actresses, one who now has some fame. My current girlfriend, who is 21, whereas I am into my 40s, was a professional model in HS (I didn't know her then). Money is not sufficient in these cases, but it is necessary.
Women are creatures of 1st impression. Power and money are great but you need to apply them right.
Throwing money at people might or might not work but a cool car and a nice house will impress a lot of people. Access to fame and fortune are also really impressive. You'd be surprised the number of girls willing to do things for back door access or meeting famous people.
"Those who say money can not buy everything are people who don't know how to spend money"
I disagree with the phrasing of your poll, though. If your only reason for achieving power and status is to get women, you're doing it wrong. Why? Because everything you're doing is based on getting the approval of a woman. Power and status should be their own rewards, if that's what you want in life. Me? I've always aspired to be the next Jason Voorhees.
Girls will always deny it no matter what... But it's true... What are girls looking for other than power... They're like biologically made to look for the strongest male that will give and be able to protect the best offspring... And today that comes in money and fame... Wealth is power...
Girls don't give a fuck if you're rich. That will "attract" only a certain type of person for a very short time. Girls don't fantasize about tax returns and bank statements.
@OhioNativeForLife FFFUUUCCCKKKK YEA they do... That's quite a naive statement you have there... If you can't provide for your woman bro,,, What kind of girl is going to put up with you... Think about it for a minute... Feelings and all is great, but women want security... Moneys... Don't let them fool you when they claim the contrary...
Most of them can provide for themselves. The good ones would want a successful guy, but wouldn't want to milk him for his money. Have you ever been rich? I used to go around telling people (hot girls) that I was rich. I'm a pretty good liar/actor. Most of them didn't care at all.
Money doesn't give you the best offspring. lol Good looks do. That's why hot men don't even have to try with women. Money/power don't help hot men out with women they only help ugly men out with women. Good looks= genetics Money is NOT genetic.
They exist but they're not common. Actually a lot of men are good-looking/cute/attractive. Obviously Model looking men are much more rare just like supermodel looking women are more than than average ones.
If you're at least a cute guy you'll have lots of girl who'll like you. Actually I've seen not so cute guys that men like because they have great sex appeal. You either have it or you don't.
Women like handsome/cute men for breeding/relationships Some women are only attracted to rich men for material stuff to take care of the babies they have with cute men...
you don't always need a lot to get a girls pussy wet. I mean based on things that have happened recently even on here, all you often need is nice pecs/abs and you'll have girls worshipping your every word. A great number of women are no more complex a creature than men when it comes to attraction
You can look at all the girls replies, and then go out into the real world and see something totally different. The truth is women are wired to go for men that have looks, power, money and status. Its like the alpha male in the animal kingdom, a man with good genes and money means strong offspring and security.
5 things girls love (from most important to less important) 1. Handsome men 2. Appearance ( İdeal kilogram , muscle , clothes etc ) 3. Money ( gold digger bitches love it ) 4. Communication ( diction , body language , tone of voice , gesture and facial expression etc ) 5. Power status ( to being famous or popular )
İf you want to fuck and date with girls then you should improve yourself on these topics.
Yes power and status are same for a girl like boobs and a hot bod is for guys. And LOL at all the women saying "Not for me", "They do it for attention", "Only shallow women do that", while they drop their panties at the first site of a celebrity. What bullshit
Personality gets a woman, status and power only (as in all they look at) get you a golddigger/girl/young woman/not completely mature up there/etc. etc.
I'll be honest--I said it was all about personality until someone with power and status showed a keen interest in me. The funny thing about power is that it makes a man extremely interesting...
the truth !! everyone girls and guys want the best they can get, we justify being with someone since we know nothing better is around atm, but when something better comes we stop caring for whatever reasons we gave and chase the new person who is usually more powerful, wealthier and more attractive.
Some shame girls and call them sluts for doing that, in some cases they indeed are but in most cases i see, she is hot and she knows it so she chose the best she could get, which is usually powerful, hot and wealthy, nothing wrong with that i just wish people stop lying about it.
Yes. That's what girls want. They want a guy who's powerful and has a high social status. They want a guy who is popular. Lol @ some people saying it's about personality. Girls don't care about personality. They prove that by dating douchebags all the time. Just lol. If you're attractive, powerful and have a high social status then you'll get all the women.
Here's some examples. I know some good looking bartenders who are with guys that play in local bands. I also know that their sex lives are virtually nonexistent because these are little kids who still think that listening to music is cool. I know this from observing their behavior.
I don't wanna lie. Power and status are the two things that attract hot women. A man can possess the best personality ever but if he's broke he can go nowhere with girls. Just saying.
@Oram52 Someone who is rich, quite well known and a leader of an organisation or something. To me I prefer to be with a guy who at least I can see having a bright future. I don't plan to marry a man with power or high status because most of the time the marriage isn't gonna work well. Too much temptation for him to resist outside there. Mafia boss? NO lol.
Ya u need to have money but u dont need to be rich.. get a decent job show stability and have a good personality and a clean appearance and you will find amazing women who want to be part of your life
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