Guys, My boyfriend was really keen a few months ago he wanted to marry me I lost my hubby last year , been support he does have stress is this normal?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was so keen at the start, been together 4 months, he said he wanted to marry me and live together

last year I lost my husband, just had an operation , he has been so supportive, he does have a lot going on too,

he hasn’t stayed over for weeks I do still see him I do ask him but nothing, he knows how hard the last year has been

does it mean he is losing interest?

[Anonymous]

Sadly yes or work is getting harder!

Often a guy finds a girl and then all the things add up and he loses interest after working with her in hard things.

It shows he won't be a worth partner and it hurts but best to let him go.

My first wife died and went through so many gfs. Till I found one who will stay and we got married a year later!

[Asker]

Thank you for replying back, he has been so wonderful to me from day one, he brought me a commitment ring, last week we were texting all day just like before

He supported me when I was sick and having the op I know he is going through a lot too I never thought I would have feelings like this since my husband died I really love him, he gets very tired after work to especially recently

I am sorry about your wife it’s not easy is it? glad you found someone

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe it is just him being so tired to make time for you.

[Opinion Owner]

Course and I hope it helped some. At worst he is getting bored or a new girlfriend.
At best he is so tired he just needs time but you can never really tell.

[Avicenna]

Isn't that a bit fast to get remarried? Maybe he senses that.

[Asker]

Thanks for for replying, my boyfriend was the one that said he wants to marry me in the future, he brought me a commitment ring and he had our names engraved on it, he is going through a lot of stress at the moment

[strateguy632]

yes, you invited and he said no, so dump him and find someone else

[Asker]

He has been extremely supportive to me when I was bad he gave me a commitment ring, he has been going through a rough time too the last few weeks he has opened up to me a lot

[In_Trance]

rushing into this too fast

[Asker]

Hi, my husband and I got engaged after 2 months and we were married for 22 years, I took care of him for years, my boyfriend has been so supportive through everything, he is going through a hard time too I am worrying about everything at the moment