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Depends on the circumstances, but generally not really. If a person doesn't care enough about me to send a message/reply/heads up that they're going to stop communicating with me then they're not right for my life.
I don't expect my loved ones to be in constant contact or reply every time but I find it very hurtful and disrespectful when they just vanish or never bother to respond when I message them.
Some people surely have good reasons for doing this, but I know the people who've done it to me only have bad excuses that show me how little they actually cared about me. So bye!
I wouldn't but not because he ghosted me.
I wouldn't because I gave him up in the first place and eventually lost interest altogether.
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At best I would pump, dump and ghost them this time. Get even. But that would take mental preparation on my end. Probably not a good idea.
It’s only justified to ghost someone if:
Other than that you are a selfish piece of shit if you ghost someone just because of your “feelings”. This is getting more common in culture too. But it started as a female thing. Now guys are doing it too.
It depends. Maybe.
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How long are we talking about? That’s one thing I can’t stand in relationships and in friendships is ghosting 👻 I hate it, it’s total disrespect it hurts. I hate being left in the dark left in limbo. I remember when I was younger and this female ghosted me and I would be pacing the hallways walking back-and-forth wondering when she’s going to call. I don’t wanna feel like that in a relationship or in a friendship ever again that’s a friendship killer that’s a relationship killer if that’s an occurring thing that keeps up.
If she could prove she had a good reason for ghosting me, like if she had to go to a remote part of the world where there were no cell towers and she had to lay low so her cover wasn’t blown because she was on a mission to save the world and she couldn’t even tell her family that she was on a mission to save the world, I might give her a second chance but that would be Strike Two for me because, even under threat of treason and/or blowing the cover of a clandestine global operation, I’d still like to know the status of the relationship.
I made plans with a girl to go shopping. We decided on a date and time. Well, she never showed up that day or texted since. I later asked what happened. She said her phone was messed up 🙄 yeah i blocked her after that. She knew darn well the time and day
At that moment I felt like a dude getting rejected 😂
Knowing they ghosted me, and they think about me, I can't care what happened or why. I'm someone new, and the old girl you know is gone. No chance to rekindle that relationship we had.
Well, I'm abit confused about this Ghosting term, I'm one that totally unable to keep in contact with anyone, relatives or friends, close friends, girls I'm interested in, well everything.
But I'll not shy away from someone who tries to contact me, am I still ghosting?
Introvert, I am.
Ghosting mean Someone/You cut contact for no reason and ignore any attempt to get a reply
They’d get one more chance. If they ghost me again, nope. Bye. Have a nice life. I’m not a toy so don’t you dare play with me.
Never. If they're coming back my way I highly doubt it's because they're really sorry and miss me. Most likely it's because no one else wants them and they want to see if I'll be game for a new relationship. I don't let people recycle me.
Maybe but probably not. If they had a decent excuse for why it happened and bothered to apologize, then I fully believe in second chances, but that behavior doesn't seem to be as common as one might hope.
no. it shows a distinct lack of respect. lack of honesty. two big no nos in relationships for me
never say never, so ill have to say depends on the situation
Sure, but they don't have the same value anymore and I won't take them very seriously.
They are meat the grinder.
No. If they were not mature enough to have a conversation with me about why they didn't want to keep in touch with me, then it's not my loss.
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
I wouldn't cause he would do it again and id he ghosted me it meant he didn't like and I'm just a second choice
Maybe but a lot would depend on why she ghosted me
certainly take back. that is not like insults or anger.
No, ghosting is disrespectful. If they choose that path, they stop existing to me.
No. We are not children. If you're way of ending it is by disappearing then you are not mature enough for a relationship so a second chance would be a waste of time.
No. It’s not possible for me to take back someone who chose to disappear. I keep them blocked
If you take someone back after that, you’re dumb.
I might. Depends on the reason they ghosted me and the reason for coming back. Maybe if I missed them enough and they apologized.
I'd be vengeful I don't like that, it takes 5 seconds to text someone, shorter to cut ties. No1 should take a ghoster back, we respect the dead and move on
If they already ghosted you once that means they really aren’t into you or you’re their backup. It’s a instant turn off for me but if they have a valid reason or willing to take you out I’d go but there’s a low chance it’ll lead to anything.
Why would they even contact me again once they ghosted me? That has never happened to me before.
A girl I was fucking ghosted me and it turned out she got in a car wreck and smashed her hand.
If they have a good reason for ghosting me for a while I'd take them back. I usually give a second chance to people
Maybe for some fun. I can't see a situation like that becoming serious.
Nope, but I'm probably going to mess with her if she acts thirsty about it.
No! If that happens then in my mind i would be thinking did she got dumped and want me as a consolation prize?
Yes for a good bye fuck then leave them.
But most of the time
They do it as you have something they dont.
Yout alive and human
They can stay dead 💀
No. Because she's a jealous hot headed bad mouth attitude.
No, but this is the type of lesson you have to learn the hard way
I feel it’s ok to ghost and don’t take it personally.
Very unlikely.
Probably not
Nope. I have moved on. I deserved better
Only for a one night stand.
Nope, I could never do it.
If its a chick then yes
Depends but prob not
Most likely no
I dont even know what ghosting is
It's likely that I wouldn't
No, I don't like rude behavior.
No, I would not.
100% NO
Nope
no way
Nope.
Nope.
Nope lol
no of course
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