Would you take someone back if they ghosted you?

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PumpkinSpiceLatte4 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the circumstances, but generally not really. If a person doesn't care enough about me to send a message/reply/heads up that they're going to stop communicating with me then they're not right for my life.

I don't expect my loved ones to be in constant contact or reply every time but I find it very hurtful and disrespectful when they just vanish or never bother to respond when I message them.

Some people surely have good reasons for doing this, but I know the people who've done it to me only have bad excuses that show me how little they actually cared about me. So bye!

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't but not because he ghosted me.  I wouldn't because I gave him up in the first place and eventually lost interest altogether.

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

At best I would pump, dump and ghost them this time. Get even. But that would take mental preparation on my end. Probably not a good idea.

It’s only justified to ghost someone if:

they cheated on you
they (legitimately) abused you
they insulted you publicly
they are looking to mooch and freeload off you.

Other than that you are a selfish piece of shit if you ghost someone just because of your “feelings”. This is getting more common in culture too. But it started as a female thing. Now guys are doing it too.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

It depends. Maybe.

Iron_Man · Answer

How long are we talking about? That’s one thing I can’t stand in relationships and in friendships is ghosting 👻 I hate it, it’s total disrespect it hurts. I hate being left in the dark left in limbo. I remember when I was younger and this female ghosted me and I would be pacing the hallways walking back-and-forth wondering when she’s going to call. I don’t wanna feel like that in a relationship or in a friendship ever again that’s a friendship killer that’s a relationship killer if that’s an occurring thing that keeps up.

Mangospacho · Answer

If she could prove she had a good reason for ghosting me, like if she had to go to a remote part of the world where there were no cell towers and she had to lay low so her cover wasn’t blown because she was on a mission to save the world and she couldn’t even tell her family that she was on a mission to save the world, I might give her a second chance but that would be Strike Two for me because, even under threat of treason and/or blowing the cover of a clandestine global operation, I’d still like to know the status of the relationship.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I made plans with a girl to go shopping. We decided on a date and time. Well, she never showed up that day or texted since. I later asked what happened. She said her phone was messed up 🙄 yeah i blocked her after that. She knew darn well the time and day

Sour-rose · Answer

Knowing they ghosted me, and they think about me, I can't care what happened or why. I'm someone new, and the old girl you know is gone. No chance to rekindle that relationship we had.

kakaling · Answer

Well, I'm abit confused about this Ghosting term, I'm one that totally unable to keep in contact with anyone, relatives or friends, close friends, girls I'm interested in, well everything.

But I'll not shy away from someone who tries to contact me, am I still ghosting?

Introvert, I am.

Jazzy54 · Answer

They’d get  one  more chance. If they ghost me again, nope. Bye. Have a nice life. I’m not a toy so don’t you  dare  play with me.

ManOnFire · Answer

Never. If they're coming back my way I highly doubt it's because they're really sorry and miss me. Most likely it's because no one else wants them and they want to see if I'll be game for a new relationship. I don't let people recycle me.

Alli39 · Answer

Maybe but probably not. If they had a decent excuse for why it happened and bothered to apologize, then I fully believe in second chances, but that behavior doesn't seem to be as common as one might hope.

madhatters4 · Answer

no. it shows a distinct lack of respect. lack of honesty. two big no nos in relationships for me

ShesRad80 · Answer

never say never, so ill have to say depends on the situation

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Sure, but they don't have the same value anymore and I won't take them very seriously.  They are meat the grinder.

JCT666 · Answer

No. If they were not mature enough to have a conversation with me about why they didn't want to keep in touch with me, then it's not my loss. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

alice55 · Answer

I wouldn't cause he would do it again and id he ghosted me it meant he didn't like and I'm just a second choice

summiter · Answer

Maybe but a lot would depend on why she ghosted me

strateguy632 · Answer

certainly take back. that is not like insults or anger.

worldscolide · Answer

No, ghosting is disrespectful. If they choose that path, they stop existing to me.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

No. We are not children. If you're way of ending it is by disappearing then you are not mature enough for a relationship so a second chance would be a waste of time.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. It’s not possible for me to take back someone who chose to disappear. I keep them blocked  If you take someone back after that, you’re dumb.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I might. Depends on the reason they ghosted me and the reason for coming back. Maybe if I missed them enough and they apologized.

red_knight · Answer

I'd be vengeful I don't like that, it takes 5 seconds to text someone, shorter to cut ties. No1 should take a ghoster back, we respect the dead and move on

jdelwadia · Answer

If they already ghosted you once that means they really aren’t into you or you’re their backup. It’s a instant turn off for me but if they have a valid reason or willing to take you out I’d go but there’s a low chance it’ll lead to anything.

JHNS98 · Answer

Why would they even contact me again once they ghosted me? That has never happened to me before.

Sharkstealth · Answer

A girl I was fucking ghosted me and it turned out she got in a car wreck and smashed her hand.

Sparkie460 · Answer

If they have a good reason for ghosting me for a while I'd take them back. I usually give a second chance to people

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Maybe for some fun. I can't see a situation like that becoming serious.

RHK36 · Answer

Nope, but I'm probably going to mess with her if she acts thirsty about it.

JesseP1nk · Answer

No! If that happens then in my mind i would be thinking did she got dumped and want me as a consolation prize?

Manuel2 · Answer

Yes for a good bye fuck then leave them. But most of the time  They do it as you have something they dont. Yout alive and human

Pinay_ako · Answer

They can stay dead 💀

Christoff92 · Answer

No. Because she's a jealous hot headed bad mouth attitude.

DrKrieger · Answer

No, but this is the type of lesson you have to learn the hard way

OddBeMe · Answer

I feel it’s ok to ghost and don’t take it personally.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Very unlikely.

Avicenna · Answer

Probably not

haiuyu · Answer

Nope. I have moved on. I deserved better

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Only for a one night stand.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope, I could never do it.

BrookeS · Answer

If its a chick then yes

Arichip · Answer

Depends but prob not

sethtav · Answer

Most likely no

peedy · Answer

I dont even know what ghosting is

Minahh · Answer

It's likely that I wouldn't

msc545 · Answer

No, I don't like rude behavior.

krin_m · Answer

No, I would not.

rosemilk · Answer

100% NO

Laura131 · Answer

Nope

boobliker · Answer

no way

Wise4myage · Answer

Nope.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope.

Fuentes · Answer

Nope lol

AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ · Answer

no of course

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