How can someone, who is a bum, be mad at you for not letting them use your money and gives you attitude?

[Anonymous]

[crossdressingrihno]

You do realize you’re talking about a bum?


Like they became a bum for a reason and those reasons are usually because entitlement and lack of effort so, of course a bum will be lazy and entitled.

[Asker]

So if they're always saying they want a certain job but does absolutely nothing to go get that position, they're just saying it?

[crossdressingrihno]

It’s not always the case that they are just lazy but it usually is.

[Anonymous]

Because you continue to let this person be in your life. If you want to soar w the eagles stop hanging around w the pigeons.

[Asker]

Thank you for reminding me!!! But how do you leave them behind when they're your spouse..

[Opinion Owner]

You just have to be honest. Do the goods outweigh the bad? If you don’t have children together I think it would make it that much easier to separate. You just have to lay it out in front of him. He may agree or he’s going to get mad, possibly blame you. But you have to make a decision if this is the type of life you want to live if he doesn’t change and you choose to stay w him.

[MementoMori777]

Dummy I guess