How can I reconnect with infp girlfriend she decided I didn't care about her anymore and ghosted me I'm a intp and we had a great connection?

[Yellowstone-cat]

We was LDR for 3 years and was going to meet in August but she ghosted me a week after my birthday I thought everything was fine before that point

[Zatsuma]

I agree with the ladies, you deserve an explanation, even for closure. Can you WhatsApp her a text and ask? Obviously first ask if she ok and doing well, then if she answers ask her if she would like to talk. Take it from there but don't be too pushy. If she doesn't answer then I would let it go. You tried, you were mature enough to reach out. You deserve someone closer that wants to pay you attention.

[Nikki1989]

She should at least tell you what is going on.

[Avicenna]

That's messed up. Take some time to clear your mind. Time heals these sorts of things.

[WhitneySnow]

Did she tell you why?

[Yellowstone-cat]

I reached out to her she trying to talk and have a clear perspective on what happened between us. All she told me was that not to worry about it and that I wasn't being supportive of her and that I have a good day.

[WhitneySnow]

Sounds like she’s done

[WhitneySnow]

INFPs and INTPs often don’t get along super well

[In_Trance]

Move on