How do I reconnect with a girl I haven't talked to in a while or should I not?

[celeste12344]

We hit it off well during summer and have so many similar interests. She seemed like she was really interested and so was I but we both got busy and stopped talking about a month ago and wondering to text asking if we can meet up around Halloween time and how I should do that. I just feel like she might not be as interested anymore so just wanted some advice on that.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A heart is a wonderful thing & when two hearts connect some real magic can happen. As for hitting it off over the summer of love I think that is wonderful & I think it is wonderful that she seemed to be interested as well. As for faith like a lot of things it can work in mysterious ways. As for faith it can bring people together but on the other hand it can separate people as well. As for being busy unfortunately it does happen & if you two really had something you two wouldn’t have lost contact busy or not.

Seconds went by, minutes went by, hours went by & days as well.
A month later you decide to post the following question.

How do I reconnect with a girl I haven't talked to in a while or should I not?

My Answer: Grow A Fucking Set & Call Her Right Now You Asshole!

[Zack-Bann]

I know the feeling well.


It’s best acknowledged the situation first
Say “hi it’s been a while how’ve you been” and all that
And then make light of the situation to avoid needless drama.
Make a joke like “I wanted to hit you up sooner but I was kidnapped by the cartel sorry”
(Obviously make sure she knows it’s a joke)


Then say something along the lines of
“I hope it’s not too late for me to ask if you’re up for doing something on Halloween”
And obviously make sure you have a plan
Don’t keep it abstract.
Find a party you wanna take her to or something like that and if she says “maybe” or “definitely” or whatever else other than no thank you, just suggest the party.


You have nothing to lose since if you don’t hit her up she’s gone anyway.
So might as well take a shot in the dark

[Rei13]

I think you should go for it, you’ll regret not trying more. If you guys normally text I’d reach out to see how she has been then that you were planning on going to -insert place here- and if she would be interested in joining you. If she isn’t/can’t that is fine but it opens the line of communication and you can kind of feel where to go from there. If she is showing interest keep the contact going, if she isn’t it is okay to let it go and move on

[Abbycado]

Don’t overthink it. Just text hey what’s up? Just happened to think about (insert whatever) and made me think about you.

[Gobbyjobby52]

You'llbe fine dont worry it'd be more concerning if you were tk not have messaged her in years. She probably thought you were busy dealing with something in your life.

[Massageman]

Just give her a call- "warmer" than a text- and you get your answer (good, bad or indifferent) sooner.

[bunnyboo24]

If you have the self discapline to be man enough and work for it then yes if not don't bother

[Ariesman81]

A simple... what the fuck is wrong with you? text should do the trick.

[Anonymous]

The key is in good communication.

[In_Trance]

You should not