Should I reach out to this girl I haven’t talk to in months?

[Howdy13]

Me n this girl we used to talk and hookup no strings attached, but eventually we just slowly stopped talking to eachother. Nothing bad happened or anything like no hard feelings against eachother, or at least i think. But i was thinkin about reaching out to her I kinda want someone to talk too. But should not waste my time cause it’s been so long?

[Guy13]

If you are seeking activity to alleviate boredom then why don't you go grab a beer or a dart game. And perhaps give her a call from there as that would be much more impressionable. There's always the dating apps... yippee ! As a guy I get we have needs and when there is easy servicing and a warm body to hold onto it is irresistible. Work it into a meet and then into something like the "good ole days"...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you want her to service your ding-a-ling give her a ring-a-ring…

[Anonymous]

I know being lonely can suck, but I think it’s better to leave that situation alone. Casual sex relationships without much substance aren’t meant to be a long term thing, and I’m sure that’s part of the reason why you drifted apart in the first place. You’d be better suited looking for someone new in the new year than reaching out to try restarting that cycle.

[Howdy13]

yeah that is kinda why i drifted away. I ended up meeting someone and things started going so well and then the last 2 months just outta nowhere we’re bad and she pretty much ended things between us yesterday. So i guess i was just looking for something to make me feel better

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely get where you’re coming from, having a distraction in times like those is nice, but you don’t want that to be the reason you’re seeking her company. Ending things with the other woman just happened yesterday, so maybe it’s a good time to process that on your own and figure out what you’re truly seeking in a woman. If you want something serious or committed, then start a clean slate with someone new. For now you should take the time to recover from what just happened so there’s no women essentially acting rebounds.

[alcorriher]

if its something u wanna do, do it! dont let all the dumb “what ifs” get to you. if it’s meant to be, you will know!

[ur_gurl_Larissa]

yea reach out to her

[ur_gurl_Larissa]

@HectorVargas yes

[ur_gurl_Larissa]

@HectorVargas send u what?