Haven't talked to my ex girlfriend in 2 year. is it worth reaching out?

[foxes67859]

me and my ex girlfriend broke up 2 years ago roughly. she ended it with me because i probably didn't come off taking it serious enough for her (she kind of gave me some sort of ultimatum) and i think was more into this other guy ( who she's in a relatonship with now since a couple months after we broke up). i was supposed to go see her and took longer than expected and she seemed mad. she called me to tell me not to come. told me she was into this other guy.
i saw she called my house phone the day i was supposed to go up. but walked away at that point then didn't hear from her. i reached out to her once to see if she wanted to hang out months later but she said she was seeing someone else ( she knew i knew who she was with so seemed like she was just trying to spare me feelings or something) we haven't talked since then over anything but text. in the last year she added me on snapchat. then she randomly messaged me just to have a 2 text regular conversation then blocked me.
Then i liked her instagram picture one random day cause she honestly looked sexy. she then a few days later sent me a friend request on facebook. i wasn't sure if i wanted to even try talking to her at that point so i just didn't accept her request for 2 months. maybe 2 weeks after i added her she deleted her facebook it seemed and all her social media prior to the facebook delete. nothing has happened between me and her since which was probably a half year ago. she never really contacted me directly.

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It all could be for social media but she has looked happy with boyfriend on social media when id see there pics. I was about to be in town where she lives. Mind you again we haven't had a voice conversation in 2 years and she has a boyfriend. but at this point after all that time i just feel like she is what i want and to be honest i miss her we had some dope times together. I feel like if i dont do something this summer or make a move i might as well write it off and never look back again. it r

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it really made me feel as though she must still have feeling and be thinking of me by doing those weird social media games. Should i contact her when i go up to her town to she if she wants to catch up? or just keep never looking back because she has a boyfriend and she seems to be the one who ceased contact with me?

[Ammi_goldie806]

If she has not talked to you in months or years honestly she has even moved on or she has other plans with other people. Obviously you are not over her after 2 years and you need to move on because she has moved on and you would hurt yourself by not moving on and being with somebody else. I know that's the hardest thing that anybody can do but you going to need more than 2 years to heal obviously because you still are thinking about anything about her and use somebody better.

[foxes67859]

well i have been with other women mostly one nights lol. which in turn has lead me to still want to contact her because at least most of the woman I've been with are just plain boring as fuck/unexciting and just dont compare. a lot of the time i didn't even care about her and forgot about her/ thought ill never hit her up again... but yea i never got over her 100%. im even cool for friends with benefits. as other user said im probably going to give her one last try. Living with regret is one of the worst things...

[Ammi_goldie806]

They call the present a gift for a reason and tomorrow a mystery but what you have to think about is will this hurt you in the long run if you do go back to her I'm not going to tell you what to do but I'm just giving my two cents in and I'm going to tell you this if you do talk to her listen closely to what she tells you because we girls are really good at manipulation and hiding the true meanings behind a text and even simple words she is probably talking to somebody not dating but probably just talking and it's a very unhealthy relationship if you are having friends with benefits that's going to hurt somebody eventually but do what you want this is not my life I'm going to stop sticking my nose into salt because it's going to get really salty if I continue there are millions of people in this world that you can meet that I could probably be a much better healthy relationship for you you might even find somebody better for you than her. And if you feel that way about her and she is probably the one for you but you might not be the one for her just think about that when talking to her.

[foxes67859]

i feel you. you are right in ways. she wasn't perfect by any means infact she sucked in lots of ways. but she made me feel a feeling i rarely get from women. what if im 50 though haha and i still haven't found someone who makes me feel the same way as her. ill be sitting in regret wondering why i didn't at least go balls in. which i sometimes feel regret even now from not doing anything and waiting. and again it was a distanced relationship. so that barrier might have ruined it alone between us. kinda hard to go a month without seeing each other and sex so i feel like this might have panned out the same. regardless how into me she was then or now. yea friends with benefits wouldn't be best idea but i did enjoy her as her and still wouldn't mind having sex ( we had really good sex i know she even felt the same). but yea she has diff boyfriend now. yea i know of the manipulation. i mean i figured she might have added me on social media then blocked just to try to get me to hit her up so she could get dicked by me hahaha either that or missing me. any other kinda manipulation tactics to be on the lookoutfor?

[Ammi_goldie806]

@foxes67859

[whatdoyouwantt]

I don’t know maybe she has a guy. If you think you are ready to fix your mistakes and aren’t just lonely and bored you can call her and tell her about it then she can decide if she’s still interested but don’t get your hopes too high. It’s been years and she probably moved on by now.

[Gwenhwyfar]

What was the ultimatum?

[foxes67859]

that i go up there in the asap and that i wouldn't lag and take my time like i typically always would. because she was basically saving herself for me even though she was starting to get feelings for this other guy. the day i was supposed to go and leave early in the a. m. . when she called me around 9 a. m. and asked where i was (even tho at that point she said dont come anymore) but seemed she was just saying it cause was upset it didn't go as planned. once she found i didn't leave yet and i was just about to leave it seemed like it was the tipping point and solidifed her decision

[Gwenhwyfar]

I think she may still have feelings for you. You should try and contact her one more time.

[In_Trance]

Nope