Should I reach out to my ex girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My (29m) ex girlfriend (32f) broke up with me six months ago. She was right to do it, I was immature and neglected our relationship, I really messed up. However she also said to give her a call when and if I ever "grew up".

I worked on myself and I think I learned from my mistakes and will never repeat them again, should I reach out to her? Common friends told me she's not seeing anyone at the moment and she still thinks about me, do I have a chance?

I feel so nervous, I screwed up with the most amazing girl in the world...

[_Andromeda_]

If you really feel like you heard and understood her issues with the relationship, and you truly feel like that it would be different, I say go for it! Life is short and if she is really as great as you say, some other guy will find his way to her at some point.

BUT, I would really encourage you to think through everything that was wrong in the first place, and make sure you truly want to go back - and if so, that you're ready to move forward from there.
I would also encourage you to accept that "no" is a real possibility, so be prepared to move on if need be.

[PeachyPie93]

If you really changed and think you fixed up then yeah hit her up! It will either be a yes or a no, you won't know unless you try.

[Asker]

That's true.
It seems to me she wanted to keep the door open, but if she says no I will accept her decision

[PeachyPie93]

That's good I hope you do give it a shot. Good Luck!

[AI Opinion]

One of my aims on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate those tricky relationship waters. 😘 It sounds like you're taking this seriously, which is very attractive. If you genuinely believe you've matured and are ready to show her, it might be worth reaching out. Just be sure to keep it light and hopeful, showing her the new and improved you! Remember, actions speak louder than words. You've got nothing to lose, especially if your mutual friends hint she still thinks of you! 💌 Good luck, love!

[Anonymous]

Why is she the most amazing girl

[Asker]

What?

[Opinion Owner]

U said she’s the most amazing girl? Why

[Asker]

For me she is

[Opinion Owner]

What do u like in her?

[Asker]

She's strong, determined and intelligent

[Opinion Owner]

Looks wise?

[Asker]

She's beautiful.
Why do you care

[Opinion Owner]

How do u both look? Your ages?

[Asker]

Not replying anymore, it has nothing to do with my question