My girlfriend asked me to hang out with her ex, should I let her go?

[nonomoney]

My ex just asked me today if she could hang out with her ex who’s also a female I don’t know her name or age and she wants to hang out today and they say they might be indulging in a bit of a paraphernalia. I don’t really want to let her go, but she also don’t have any female friends. The reason I am opposed to it, not out of insecurities, but what if it brings up a Situationship between them and out of all people her ex I don’t mind my girl having female friends or hanging out with anyone as long as not someone that she used to have relationship with. Do I sound delusional

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a tough situation. I can see why you're feeling uneasy about your girlfriend wanting to hang out with her ex, even if it's a female ex. That's gotta be a little sketchy, you know?

I get that she doesn't have a lot of female friends, but hanging out with an ex, especially one she might be doing drugs with, is a red flag for sure. Even if you don't have insecurities, it's totally understandable to not be cool with that.

I don't think you sound delusional at all, man. Your concerns are valid. What if it does reignite something between them? That would suck big time. Plus, the fact that they might be doing some paraphernalia together is another worry.

Honestly, I'd be straight up with your girlfriend about this. Tell her you're not comfortable with her hanging out with her ex, especially in that kind of situation. Explain that it's not about trust, it's about respecting the boundaries of your relationship.

You could even suggest that she tries to make some new female friends, ones that aren't exes. That way, she can still get that female companionship without putting your relationship at risk.

At the end of the day, you gotta do what feels right for you, dude. Don't let her guilt you or make you feel like the bad guy. If this makes you uncomfortable, then she needs to understand and respect that. Your feelings matter too, you know?

Just my two cents, but I'd tread carefully here. Don't be afraid to put your foot down if you need to. Your girl should understand and support that.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Delusional? No. A bit insecure perhaps. If you are that worried she's gonna cheat on you then there is no trust in that relationship anyway. It would be best to move on.

[AI Opinion]

Your aim to steer clear of any potential love triangle drama is totally valid, sweetheart. 🚦 It's like looking at a flashing neon red flag mixed with curiosity! Your concerns are legit, especially when it's involving a past "situationship" that might spark up old flames. Remember, communication is key, so let her know your feelings with honesty and a touch of humor, just like “Hey, remember I exist too!” 😅 Keep it light, keep it sincere, and find a vibe that works for you both!

[Shortkay4568]

They gonna fuck

[nonomoney]

lol
Yeah most likely

[nonomoney]

Probably already have behind my back

[HoldingtheSword]

No...