Anyone else go through phases where you keep arguing with your partner?

[Anonymous]

Me and my partner seem to go through phases where we don’t argue at all and phases where we argue every few days about stupid stuff.

[Finchie40]

When you argue with your partner here and there , that’s a sign you both actually love and value each other because it’s the passion you have for each other , if you didn’t love each other you wouldn’t be arguing with each other period , and not having make up sex lol , when the arguing stop’s completely, that’s when you should start worrying if whether your partner still loves you or not , The reason most couples argue is because we are all incompatible people , we all come from different paths in life and we all experienced different things in life or in relationships, you aren t always going to agree on things. Why it’s best to put yourself in your partner’s shoes before making decisions and try to figure out what is making them upset with you , instead of just assuming you are right and they are wrong. When someone constantly thinks they are in the right that person only values themselves and cares about themselves, making them a selfish person , Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , You can’t expect your partner to do for you if you can’t do for them period ,
It won’t always be perfect but when you make your partner your top priority it will make it easier
For them to make you theirs. When you learn to remove your inner selfishness’s for
Your partner it will make it easier for them to do for you , if they choose not to and they only think what is best for them , then you are best to kick them to the curb where they belong because
They truly don’t value you , they only like the convenience of you. It’s best to fix what is broken between you both before running
To someone else thinking they will save you , They won’t save you , it will just make matters worse , invest your time and energy into your partner and nobody else period unless you want that relationship to end cuz it will

[JackCarter]

Thank fully NO..

I've read somewhere that "It takes two hands clapping to make a noise"... so often the argument can be avoided if you don't "raise a hand"

Argument can't be avoided with persons who are just looking for a fight (Even if you don't raise hand, they are gonna try hitting your face LOL)

[panda2712]

That’s legit my relationship right now and I HATE it but I also can’t leave even out of an argument situation my boyfriend said he’d kill himself if I leave him so fun 🙂🥀

[panda2712]

thanks for the MHO 🙂

[Lyndsielee666]

We’re long distance and I’ve got bpd so yes 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[lightbulb27]

No but it can happen. Its impossible to argue when both agree. Therefore its a bsttle for power, feeling right maybe nit picking.

[Anonymous]

only on my period lol.. which just ended with him spanking me and then we went back to normal

[Anonymous]

almost every damn day and she's the one who causes it

[sheikalana]

Not really. We don't really argue.

[Emanon25]

That’s obvious and normal.

[Asker]

But how do you get out of the arguing phase? It’s sooo stupid

[Emanon25]

I don’t think there’s a way not to argue, it’s inside ourselves and I avoid the argument if I feel it going to start.

[Emanon25]

You can pm me if you want to talk more about it

[KrakenAttackin]

You mean phases where you pick fights with him.

[jahaims]

Nope

[DreamLife7]

Nope