Do you ever stay mad at your partner days in a row?

[sheikalana]

If yes, why do you choose to be mad at them instead of sitting and talking to each other and try to solve the issue?

[HighlyVolatile]

Never. The longest we were cranky with each other was maybe like 20 mins, and that was still unusually long. The reason it was so long was that we were running late to a place and got in a little bit of a minor disagreement on the way there. So we had to rush on foot and didn't get a chance to talk so much while rushing. Once we arrived though and met our friends at the event, we quickly worked it out.

I forget what it was about. I think it was just one of those days where we were in a rush and both stressed out at the exact same time (a bit rare for both to be stressed out simultaneously). So I don't think we disagreed on anything but maybe just both stressed out and annoyed with each other given how late we were running.

[HighlyVolatile]

* [...] So I don't think we disagreed on anything [big] [...]

It was many years ago but I think I was taking a bit long getting ready and she was getting a bit cranky about it, but then she also took long to get ready after I was ready so I was getting a bit cranky about it.

[MrTaboo]

No I usually get the paddle out and spank her then use her very agresivally. I'm being to think she does this on purpose.


Yes, I know she does.

[dovendyret]

I'm sometimes mad at my partner for more than one day. That doesn't mean we don't talk about it, it just means that not everything can be settled with a talk, sometimes it takes longer and that's alright.

[MyaMermaid]

Not really, when I was with someone, we’d leave each other alone, sleep on it or talk to each other the next day when we’ve both calmed down

[weysally]

my answer is no, I have taken the advice of a few seniors never go to sleep on a fall out, always come to some agreement

[Anonymous]

Well of course I want to deal with any I'll feelings right away. But if they don't want to talk about it I can't force them. But I'm not going to be miserable either just because they feel I should be.

[massb]

No , not really. I just sleep on it and talk when were both calm about the issue.

[Andres77]

Ummm... no.
I'm usually trying to figure out what the hell I did wrong.

[2021biguy]

Let the other person calm down and then try to make up, don't avoid each other. Try to work out problems.

[eagle1951]

once or twice , maybe 3 or 4 times in 37years