Do you ever piss your partner off on purpose?

[Pink2000]

My boyfriend pisses me off on purposes. He likes to get a ride out of me. He enjoys pissing me off just so I can go off on him and cuss him out. It’s like some weird ass turn on.

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+1 y

Y’all i wasn’t asking for advice on my relationship lol. I just wanted to know if anyone else had the same experience. 😒

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+1 y

I should’ve clarified some of things that he does to piss me off before y’all start calling him “toxic” when really he just likes to aggravate me until he gets a reaction which is the same thing my brother does.
Usually I’m a calm person and it takes a lot to get me really irritated.
I could be sitting down watching tv and come next to me and yell in my ear or I could be eating something (I love to eat) and he’ll snatch what I’m eating out of my hand and take a bite. That really gets me going.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Usually when i was in a relationship and girl purposely pissed
me off i would totally ignore them for while and take a break.

[Pink2000]

That’s what I need to do.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah sometimes no other way out.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank You For Most Helpful Guy :)

[abc--123]

Haha all the time

[Greegreen22]

You know that song sail by awolnation? One time when my ex was almost alseep i hissed sail really loudly in his ear

[Pink2000]

Omg that’s the type of stuff he will do 😂

[Y3llow]

No. I give him crap and tease him but the minute I notice it bothers him I stop

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I would never do that to my girlfriend. How does that benefit me or our relationship?

Why would you tolerate such behavior? Do you want to be with someone like that the rest of your life? Or would you rather simply say, "I don't want to talk about it!"

[CubsterShura]

I don't think it's a serious matter. Even my boyfriend loves to mess with my like that sometimes but it's only a problem when a guy does it excessively.

[OlderAndWiser]

@CubsterShura I think if it as the tip of the iceberg. What is so awful is not the minor needling that they do now but it indicates that they derive some pleasure from seeing you uncomfortable or displeased. This could later express itself in more serious ways.

[CubsterShura]

This is why I there is a limit to everything. People also love pranking and doing other crazy things. It's fine to a certain limit.

[CubsterShura]

I said*

[CubsterShura]

Yeah he definitely loves to mess with me sometimes xD he thinks I'm cute when I get angry and it's just cuter when I'm serious. It makes me feel like he doesn't take me seriously and it's not my favorite, TBH.

[Pink2000]

Thankyou for understanding the question

[CubsterShura]

It's more common than you could think xD

[RussianNestingDoll]

I have to think a few guys have pulled that nonsense like they were dying for me to put the hurt on them. I don’t think that stuff is at all funny. I think they do it out of boredom or to balance the perceived power in their favor. Some people do it because it adds spice to their sex life but it makes me want to catch a murder beef😂

[Jamie05rhs]

This is a good question. I'm single, but if I had a girlfriend, I might say something to trigger her if I thought it would be funny (as long as it didn't hurt her, of course). But I know that annoying her could make her stop talking to me. But even then, my mischievous side would take over and I'd be like "but it's totally worth the risk." Even though technically it isn't. Because she's wonderful and I would never ever want to lose her.

[winterfox10]

Not for fun, but I have had a few times where it seemed like this girl just straight up didn't give a fuck about how her actions made me feel. I called her out on it. She told me that she didn't appreciate me saying that her behavior seemed out of character, but she straightened her ass out quick after that.

[JackSmy]

No!! Why? That accomplished NOTHING but making things worse!!
If you have an issue, talk about it!!
If the other is just some passive/aggressive D-Bag, find someone that treats you like you want to be treated!

[BabyBirdy]

Honestly, yes. Some men just look so sexy when they’re angry and it does things to me 😹

[bklynbadboy1]

Shit I do that all the time especially to my step mom she fronts like she doesn't lick it especially when I kiss her little face like 50 times in a row

[DebraHeart]

Teasing is ok, joking around, but to actually make them mad? no... why on earth would someone want to do that... relationships can be hard enough without creating extra drama...

[Jjpayne]

It can be fun to roast your SO every once in a while :) not to the point of pissing off but just teasing them a bit

[Jjpayne]

I would not yell in your ear but something just enough for me to give me a brief little punch and say stop in a laughable voice. Something like that

[Sonorous]

Nah, I've only done that with family that I didn't want to bother me. I used to enjoy annoying people when I was younger. 😂 I was an odd one.

[JDavid25]

I don't even like gettin people I'm not in a relationship with mad, sk I definitely wouldn't play mind games and purposefully push my girl off.. That's petty.. 😂..

[Grobmate]

No I have never purposely pursued the goal of pissing off a partner. I do have a strong, stubborn personality, and I think that is what does it.

[TonyBologna25]

No that’s manipulation. I’d leave him as this will lead to a toxic relationship. It will only get worse.

[debi2622]

I try to never do to someone what I don't want done to me. So, no. I do not.

[sarahburberryy]

No. Simply because i hate mind-fucking people, i'm passed that.

[Elliegirl]

No. I piss him off sometimes, but never on purpose.

[ColoradoKid]

No I try to keep the peace. But if I am getting picked on I will defend myself. Bu picking a fight is not me.

[chriscdi]

well i like pissing people of on purpose in general, i dont have a partner but if i did i would piss her off on purpose too

[Vesta]

Some men just get turned on my women who are mad. Can't explain it

I don't

[Pink2000]

That’s what he does.

[Vesta]

We weren't offering it. We know you don't need it

[Pink2000]

Read the other comments. That’s obviously what I’m referring to.

[Vesta]

We already know you don't need advice, YOU NEVER DO

[Pink2000]

Like I said read the other comments 😒. All y’all bout to piss me off.

[Vesta]

Just sayin'

[Giggletr0n]

Yeah, it's the only way I can get some peace sometimes

[Wowgirl30q]

I've never heard of it that but it sounds unhealthy him doing that to you for whatever reason

[Wowgirl30q]

I have not had the same experience.
Smile pretty girl❤️

[Snakeyes7]

I’m too afraid to. I’ve met too many women who start swinging the second something slightly inconveniences them.

[Snakeyes7]

I would mainly to it to be playful. Never to start any wars.

[VaIiant]

This is unhealthy and toxic.

[Pink2000]

Oh I wasn’t asking if it was cause that’s still my baby regardless.

[VaIiant]

Definitely won't last, no offense. This is a horribly toxic trait

[Pink2000]

Read the damn update. I don't know how you people get taking food and yelling in my ear and translating it as “toxic” that’s fucking stupid. Y’all don’t know shit about me or my relationship obviously. Y’all just assuming shit and it’s really irritating. It would be different if I had asked for advice but I didn’t.

[VaIiant]

You’ve apparently broken up before, which contributes further to my point.
If he’s intentionally picking fights and doing something he knows you really dislike, that’s toxic.

[Pink2000]

We didn’t even break up though 😂 that’s why you shouldn’t assume.

[Pink2000]

He’s not picking fights ! He just likes to piss me off cause it turns him on and we end up (you know). I appreciate your concern I really do but believe me I go it.

[MlleCake]

Get rid of that jerk.

[Pink2000]

Damn it’s not that serious 😂 just read the update

[MLGbreezy]

I thought you were single 🤨

[Pink2000]

We been got back together

[MLGbreezy]

Oh okay

[brittslitt]

👀👀

[brittslitt]

🌾👀🌾...

[BrittBratt2416]

no... don't see a reason to really.

[StingRayxoxo]

No way.

[reptocarl]

No I don’t play juvenile games like that

[Gottabsavagee]

My ex used to call me a bitch lol

[brittslitt]

Pink be nice 🤣🤣🤦🏼‍♀️

[Metatarsals]

No patience for mind games.

[Riyadh3]

maybe he doesn't love yu

[Secret6620]

Honestly yes. 😫🤷

[theFantasticJayy]

I would

[Glen68]

Never

[jimmy2]

Wow thats strange