Do you get annoyed when your partner does this?

[CorbetRig]

When your partner is online and not replying for your message. (Even if it's for few minutes)

or

When he/she chat with other people in between in your conversation?

When do you get annoyed and what would you do?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t get annoyed. I accidentally do it because I have ADHD lol. I will scroll on social media or on this site and see a notification from him, but continue scrolling because I’m focused on what I was doing. Then I completely forget and respond back to him.


My boyfriend does it too because he also has ADHD. I just send him memes to get his attention again, it works. Or I try to change the convo and ask a question that requires him to answer.


I think you should let your partner know that you feel annoyed by it. It’s good to communicate that so they can try and change their behaviors. Or, you can try and be a bit more patient with them because it’s only been a few minutes. There’s nothing wrong with them texting other people while texting you, they might have a lot of friends.

[CorbetRig]

Yes, i always get mad for this lol. But i also hate to show my annoyed reaction, cos she would think I'm too controlling and once she told me that.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I think you should talk to her about love languages. You can tell her that your love language is “quality time.” You want her to give you undivided attested without any distractions, and that’s reasonable when you two are talking. I think over text and online, it’s just normal to be scrolling or whatever for a few minutes until your partner texts back. I think you need to tell her about it though.

[CorbetRig]

Yes I'll tell her. Thanks

[Shhh31]

Yes, absolutely 🙄..


Well, I’ll communicate with her/him.. If they’re really busy and cannot reply my chat (offline) then ok.. I’ll understand.. but if they’re online but didn’t reply my chat while they know that I was chatting with them and they say they’re busy.. “Bruh? Are you blind?” 🙄😮‍💨


And if she/he is chatting with other person while we’re having a conversation.. Dude.. imma get piss, idc.. like bruh were talking and now you have time to talk with another person? Like you cannot talk with them on another time? If it’s emergency then communicate to me, but don’t talk to another person while you talk to me.. that’s rude🤨 Hell no.

[CorbetRig]

Lol we've same mind

[crossdressingrihno]

It doesn't bother me if she's not replying to my messages unless it's a long distance relationship and she hasn't replied to any of my messages in a while then that kind of defeats the point in relationship online

[IMuser]

Stop chatting and call them. Talking on a call is much much better as you have their exclusive attention.

Better yet, meet them.

[CorbetRig]

What if you call her and she's scrolling through Instagram while talking?

[IMuser]

That would be disrespectful however not exactly a deal breaker

If she is doing this in front of you (like when you are on a date), she has no respect for you

[CorbetRig]

Yeah she sometimes do that when i call her and i would cut the call immediately

[IMuser]

Good response

[CorbetRig]

Thanks for the opinion man

[PrettyPriya]

My SO isn't online to communicate much through social media. The only time he does is with his family back home. I don't mind as I know he only gets to see them once a year.

It is important for him to have as much contact because of that. So, he typically tells me he is going to be talking to his mom, dad or sister and I know then I won't get replies back immediately.

[CorbetRig]

Oh then my question is not for you. Thanks anyway

[Waldoe]

if I do not get a reply in a reasonable time... I put them on Ignore... some have been on ignore for years

[CorbetRig]

How long is a reasonable time according to you

[Waldoe]

depends on the event... to mant variables... 2 days to 2 weeks

[Avicenna]

A bit