Do you Ever tell your Partner to "F OFF"when you're Peeved?

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***I realize we ALL say Things in the Heat of the Night and Fight. lol!!! xxoo

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Really depends on what they want out of the conversation. I mean once you listen to them and acknowledge what they said then that should end to conversation. But I had an ex-wife that never could let a conversation go, she demanded that I agree or give something more immediately to appease her and she would pick and pick, until she got what she wanted. Even after you laid it all out for her and expressed how impractical it was at this time. So at some point when the accusations, implications and assumptions got to much... yeah I tell her to fuck off.

Note this why she is my ex wife and why I left her the second my youngest was 16... I would of held out to 18 but the last 2 years were miserable I could not do it... I was too bitter over all the history and constant scrutiny.

But I never told any other women ever in my life to fuck off, well no one I dated.

De_La_BakedBeans · Accepted Answer

I made the mistake of doing that once.
She left the apartment. I spent the entire night driving around the city on my motorcycle in the dead of winter trying to find her. And then, when I couldn't found her, I came back at 4:30 in the morning and she was there, trying to call me (I had left my phone at home in the panic of going out to search for her), and calling everyone to see if they knew where I was. I started crying at first because I hated myself for saying that to her, and then she started crying for making me freeze myself half to death by going around trying to find her...
Neither of us can hold a grudge on each other for that long...

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Well, I'm solo since more than two years but I've never hesitated to say "f... off" if my partner annoyed me. My little bit aggressive and dominant personality wasn't a problem in this relationship, but maybe it attracts men with specific deficits where I have a surplus. lol

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

No. If I'm telling them to fuck off, I'm throwing them out.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Nope, never have. Wanted to many times. I've only said it jokingly when we're teasing each other or something.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Only once and I am not happy about that moment.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Back when I used to be in relationship ms I don’t think I ever said anything like that. All of the arguments that have ever happened were always started by them and would never end until they decided it did. I’d just grow tired and stop caring. That’s when she’d start Hitting me or threaten to leave through the fire escaped window in the basement and walk a 3 hour drive. Which is why I don’t do relationships anymore

DJB72 · Answer

I've never told a girlfriend or my wife to fuck off. Even when I'm at my angriest I have too much respect for them. I've been together with my wife almost 20 years and I've been so angry I've considered leaving her but I've never been tempted to say that.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Nope never Paris. People who know me know I never swear. The problem I have though is I can be extremely sarcastic.(ME? I know right?:O) The point is, that tends to get ME told to F off quite a bit!

AviatorTom · Answer

In any relationship, there are times when you just don't get along. Could be a simple disagreement or something bigger. When that happens, both my SO and I may tell the other "F" off until we calm down and realize there are better things ahead.

NathanDavis · Answer

no... I am always the one to be told to fuffoff... lol and that, playfully... because I'm the annoying one

Juxtapose · Answer

I have a long fuse it would go through many other avenues of expressing my frustration before just straight up yelling that. If you get me to yell at you like that, you really, really pushed me hard.

TheorionMage · Answer

Judicious physical distance and time works better than poorly chosen derogatory epithets. Unspoken insults require NO later apologies.  Hastey VERBAL wounds leave unhealing psychological scarring~

FunkyMonkee · Answer

We've only ever had 1 fight the entire 10 years we were together and I have no idea if I said that to her. We're talking about 26 years ago.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I couple years ago, yes. Now when my girlfriend and I are fighting I remove myself, give myself some space to calm down, then go back and talk it out like an adult.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I don't tell people to eff off, that isn't too creative. Go crawl back wherever you came from!

ohshee · Answer

No I'm Steve. And believe me I like the Heat of the Night as much as anybody else but when I'm in a relationship. I mean I might say fuck me. And if I'm peeved that means I just peed my pants

donnny2367764 · Answer

I do but I'm not proud of it. It's never classy to say bad words to women in general... but I have no problem telling any man. to FUCK off

Mangospacho · Answer

No way. What if she takes me literally and goes and does it? She might realize she doesn’t need me after all.

es20490446e · Answer

No. I would rather tell they are behaving poorly, and that's all.

douride2 · Answer

Not that I can recall. I'm sure it has happened at least once though.

Ironic_Method · Answer

No, I don't get into those kinds of arguments with my partners. We are very cordial.

WhatMeow · Answer

To say that shows you have lost the argument and you have nothing to say that would bring value to the argument.

Raaj4you · Answer

I don't have a partner yet. But in a heated argument I use bad words. Just after few minutes, I feel guilty about it. 😔😞😕☹️😣

Ratpack60 · Answer

Never have. If I ever felt like saying that or was told that it’s time to walk away.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I don't have a partner; if I did, I wouldn't tell her that---unless I wanted a new partner.

Stoner710 · Answer

Yea she wasn’t happy but she knew why I was mad she had just gotten me fired from work for arguing with my boss she though my boss as flirting with me

Anonymous · Answer

I did in the past relations ships but i realized thats a huge mistake ad i used to be mean with men and i believe it ruined the relation to an extent.. but guess what when i strted being nice with men and apologize for the things i am doing and initiate an apology after a fight that didn't work out either they end up leaving you and doing more silly things to you , i recently told my recent ex that i hate him and i regretted that even if we won't talk again but i dont want the last conversation to be full of bitterness :)

msc545 · Answer

No way would I ever speak to her like that no matter how angry I am.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Fuck off mostly yes then just leave for bit to clear my head

nawtee_me · Answer

It has been known to happen... in a loving way... lol ;)

rockytherock · Answer

You need to work on communication skills, that shit hurts.

Better_off_here · Answer

i yes have been known to say things i regret when i am angry with someone.

MacLove999 · Answer

Its healthy to cuss each other off sometimes. It shows you give a Fuckk. Unliike fake people.

Justagentuk · Answer

Yes, but only when she's really going on and on from the back seat about my driving which is fine by the way.

America1st · Answer

I don't say it. In my opinion, your Partner deserves your respect regardless of what is going on. There are many words that can be used to give the same message.

Browneye57 · Answer

Sure. Even told her to get the fuck out many times. She won't leave. LOL

TheAfrikan · Answer

I do not know if I wouod use it or not since am single. But you never know lol since this anger can drive people nuts @paris13

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Hallway sex.. ya pass each other in the hallway "fuck you!" "Oh yeah? fuck you too!" hehe

SkyCastle90 · Answer

No. Most of our arguments end in laughter.

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes we have more of a conflict oriented relationship.

MCheetah · Answer

I don't have a partner.

Apulu_3 · Answer

Never had a partner so no answer.

TrueConfection · Answer

No, that crosses a line.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

No I explain to her why I’m upset and ask for space

Citizenkirk · Answer

No, I'm not vindictive that way🚫🛑

humanearth · Answer

Not if I want to live

Blaine999 · Answer

Anger is a very slippery slope, I'd just try to bury it or take a walk. I wouldn't tell her to F Off

KatherineJ · Answer

It has happened a few times.

exitseven · Answer

Never would say that. I usually just keep quiet.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

Yep. I have no issues being blunt

Anonymous · Answer

No but technically yes, just in a much nicer way lol I’d tell them to leave me alone for a bit bcs I need space to cool off

Massageman · Answer

Not quite THAT bad - - - - -

clampfan101 · Answer

I’ve never said that to anyone!

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

No I won't do that Paris!

James899 · Answer

Never said like that. 😛

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes the one on the computer here

theelegantman · Answer

I've said it many times. she also said many times

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

That would be very mean and rude

CubaPirate · Answer

Only on very rare occasions

ariadneR · Answer

Nah. I'll say go away and then walk away

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes lol

worldscolide · Answer

No, never. I love my wife too much for that..

boobliker · Answer

yes and she at her moms at the mo

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