Do you Ever tell your Partner to "F OFF"when you're Peeved?

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***I realize we ALL say Things in the Heat of the Night and Fight. lol!!! xxoo

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Really depends on what they want out of the conversation. I mean once you listen to them and acknowledge what they said then that should end to conversation. But I had an ex-wife that never could let a conversation go, she demanded that I agree or give something more immediately to appease her and she would pick and pick, until she got what she wanted. Even after you laid it all out for her and expressed how impractical it was at this time. So at some point when the accusations, implications and assumptions got to much... yeah I tell her to fuck off.

Note this why she is my ex wife and why I left her the second my youngest was 16... I would of held out to 18 but the last 2 years were miserable I could not do it... I was too bitter over all the history and constant scrutiny.

But I never told any other women ever in my life to fuck off, well no one I dated.

De_La_BakedBeans · Accepted Answer

I made the mistake of doing that once.
She left the apartment. I spent the entire night driving around the city on my motorcycle in the dead of winter trying to find her. And then, when I couldn't found her, I came back at 4:30 in the morning and she was there, trying to call me (I had left my phone at home in the panic of going out to search for her), and calling everyone to see if they knew where I was. I started crying at first because I hated myself for saying that to her, and then she started crying for making me freeze myself half to death by going around trying to find her...
Neither of us can hold a grudge on each other for that long...

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Well, I'm solo since more than two years but I've never hesitated to say "f... off" if my partner annoyed me. My little bit aggressive and dominant personality wasn't a problem in this relationship, but maybe it attracts men with specific deficits where I have a surplus. lol

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

No. If I'm telling them to fuck off, I'm throwing them out.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Nope, never have. Wanted to many times. I've only said it jokingly when we're teasing each other or something.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Only once and I am not happy about that moment.

DJB72 · Answer

I've never told a girlfriend or my wife to fuck off. Even when I'm at my angriest I have too much respect for them. I've been together with my wife almost 20 years and I've been so angry I've considered leaving her but I've never been tempted to say that.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Back when I used to be in relationship ms I don’t think I ever said anything like that. All of the arguments that have ever happened were always started by them and would never end until they decided it did. I’d just grow tired and stop caring. That’s when she’d start Hitting me or threaten to leave through the fire escaped window in the basement and walk a 3 hour drive. Which is why I don’t do relationships anymore

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Nope never Paris. People who know me know I never swear. The problem I have though is I can be extremely sarcastic.(ME? I know right?:O) The point is, that tends to get ME told to F off quite a bit!

AviatorTom · Answer

In any relationship, there are times when you just don't get along. Could be a simple disagreement or something bigger. When that happens, both my SO and I may tell the other "F" off until we calm down and realize there are better things ahead.

NathanDavis · Answer

no... I am always the one to be told to fuffoff... lol and that, playfully... because I'm the annoying one

Juxtapose · Answer

I have a long fuse it would go through many other avenues of expressing my frustration before just straight up yelling that. If you get me to yell at you like that, you really, really pushed me hard.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I couple years ago, yes. Now when my girlfriend and I are fighting I remove myself, give myself some space to calm down, then go back and talk it out like an adult.

TheorionMage · Answer

Judicious physical distance and time works better than poorly chosen derogatory epithets. Unspoken insults require NO later apologies.  Hastey VERBAL wounds leave unhealing psychological scarring~

FunkyMonkee · Answer

We've only ever had 1 fight the entire 10 years we were together and I have no idea if I said that to her. We're talking about 26 years ago.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I don't tell people to eff off, that isn't too creative. Go crawl back wherever you came from!

ohshee · Answer

No I'm Steve. And believe me I like the Heat of the Night as much as anybody else but when I'm in a relationship. I mean I might say fuck me. And if I'm peeved that means I just peed my pants

donnny2367764 · Answer

I do but I'm not proud of it. It's never classy to say bad words to women in general... but I have no problem telling any man. to FUCK off

Mangospacho · Answer

No way. What if she takes me literally and goes and does it? She might realize she doesn’t need me after all.

es20490446e · Answer

No. I would rather tell they are behaving poorly, and that's all.

douride2 · Answer

Not that I can recall. I'm sure it has happened at least once though.

Ironic_Method · Answer

No, I don't get into those kinds of arguments with my partners. We are very cordial.

WhatMeow · Answer

To say that shows you have lost the argument and you have nothing to say that would bring value to the argument.

Raaj4you · Answer

I don't have a partner yet. But in a heated argument I use bad words. Just after few minutes, I feel guilty about it. 😔😞😕☹️😣

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