People say eyes don’t lie, can eyes lie?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing love in his eyes, he was happy when I was surprising him by my visits to his office, I was seeing his eyes smiling, I was seeing the happy eyes look all the time when he was hugging me or talking to me, he was always happy when I was around.
But He cheated on me , I just want to know how can eyes lie?

[Leapfrog00]

It's really sad when this happens, and here's the truth, some people are so good at lying, they spend every waking moment planning their next one, rehearsing how they are going to present it, and practice on making it sound believable. When the time comes for them to say that lie, they know what you want to hear, how you want to hear it, and their eyes look so truthful.

I'm sure he did love you a little, but how can someone love you that cheats? My ex girlfriend cheated on me several times, and you don't usually find out how many times until it's over.

You can do so much better! Any guy that lies to a girl, show her affection by hugging and kissing her, and then makes it all worthless in the end is NOT worth the tears. You'll find someone better, and when you do, he won't make you cry!

[Asker]

That’s what I’m wondering how could I see love in his eyes and if he did love me how could he hurt me, it has been three weeks since I knew he was the who showed me the video of him having sex with another one and something triggers me all the time to check his social media accounts to see if he is going normally through his life, I did today I unblocked checked and he is posting his normal posts and living his normal life
I feel like I can’t move on

[Leapfrog00]

Wow, I'm really sorry. It sounds like he doesn't even care about you. Did he send the video to you through email or something? You deserve any explanation if anything. You should ask him how he could lie to you like that, but then again, he probably doesn't care.

It sounds like he destroyed your reason to trust. Get a journal and write down everything you loved about him or everything you miss, and then write down everything he did to hurt you. I did that once with a girl that broke up with me who cheated. I can tell you're really hurt. I'm also a good listener if you want to talk.