Do you ever tell your partner when a person tries asking you out until you tell them you're taken?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Depends on the girl I am with , some girl’s get jealous and insecure about it , so usually I won’t say a word , and some girl’s get turned on by it , so it just depends , when a girl tells me she was getting hit on or asked out by another guy , I will just say I told you , you were beautiful , why I want to bang you all the time 😋 if she loves me or cares about me , she will be honest and tell me she told him she was already taken. So with my experiences with girls’ most girls’ like to try to get me jealous , thinking I am going to be upset and worried that she is going to leave me for this other guy , my thing is if she left me for another guy , he can have her, cuz little does she realize their are plenty of fish in the sea , I can only give to her the same way I want to receive , if she chooses to walk away , I let her go , cuz if someone truly loves you they will not walk away from you period

[Wallythewalrus]

Girls have always pulled that on me, whether we were in a relationship or if she was interested in me. It's a way of them showing a guy they are desired by others. I can't remember ever doing that but I don't see anything wrong with it.

[EmmaMary]

I may mention this to my husband on the odd occasion, to which we will have a jolly good laugh and simply write it off.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes… but in my experience they get jealous or mad

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah sometimes. But I still wouldn’t feel right not telling them.

[Nawlins34]

I tell her on every occurrence. I value her trust and I don't want to be in a situation where she finds out something from another person and I didn't tell her.

I protect our relationship.

[Anonymous]

The wording of your question is a little confusing I'm not clear what you're asking.

If you're asking what I think you are. No. There's no reason to even bring up that somebody asked me out. I'm take already, and it's only going to trigger 20 questions with her. All of which will be pointless because I told the woman no. And had zero intention of saying yes. Again I'm taken. That's all that NEEDS to be said.

[ProbablyClueless]

No, I don't say anything. In my observation, women have no problem telling men that kind of thing but absolutely do not handle it well when it's said to them.

[spartan55]

100% true

[electromagnetic]

I tell him and we would either laugh about it or just keep the day going.
We don’t take it seriously.

[236color]

It's only happened once, but yes I did tell her. Truthfully, I was pretty clueless that I was being flirted with until late in the game.

[Nikki1989]

It happens so often that I don't even bother anymore.

[Anemone978]

Nope its not that important so need to tell him.

[jwmiller95]

I could see this being problematic with men because that's the last thing they want to think about. Women like men who are a catch though so it may be the opposite

[Fuentes]

Depends how she says it but like @spartan55 said alotta chick's use it to throw in our face, which is even more annoying and u may find yourself dumped.

[spartan55]

Many women love to throw this in their boyfriend's face... bye

[Asker]

So you don't like it when your girlfriend tells you there was a guy who tried to get her number? 🤔 or you telling her that a girl tried to get yours?

[spartan55]

No, I don't like it when she is obviously trying a cheap jealousy stunt.

[Asker]

But what if it did actually happen... does that still make her a jealous girl?

[spartan55]

What's the point of bringing it up?

[Asker]

I don't know.. I like to tell him everything because then it feels like I'm hiding something from him but maybe it's not necessary or important?

[Anonymous]

No, someone asks me out, I tell him I’m with someone or otherwise decline, it’s a non event. No reason to tell anyone about it.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah I always talk about it when it happens.

[SnowedIn]

Yep. Makes her feel good.

[sammyyyyasdfghjkl]

I have always mentioned it.

[sheikalana]

Absolutely. I tell them immediately!

[MissBoogus]

Yeah I tell him immediately

[Kelly6]

it depends on my mood mostly

[007kingifrit]

yea you should always tell them

[Kacka]

good no one asking me out

[WhitneySnow]

Of course

[Anonymous]

Only insecure people do that.

[Asker]

Some people call it open communication 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

No that's not communication it's called immature and insecure. Find something better to do with your time kid

[Asker]

It was a general question lol if it was important to tell a partner or not. No need to be rude. Plus, as you can see in the replies, many people say otherwise.

[Opinion Owner]

And I answered it

[Asker]

I know but you didn't have to call me a kid with the last sentence when I'm obviously a young adult but thank you for sharing your opinion🙂

[Opinion Owner]

Then act like it

[Asker]

Wow.. it's my first relationship and you're being rude about it lmao thank you. Since you're an adult too, you should know better to keep quiet if you have nothing nice to say to others, have a nice day!