Guys, be honest, in a MEANINFUL relations - NOT one night stand / NOT friend with benefits / NOT causal fling - looks or personality matters more?

[FreakyBaby87]

Looks

Personality

[caring__1]

Personality will always be more attractive, but your definitions of personality may be different. I personally am turned off by the phony personalities promoted by social media.

On the other hand, beauty is also in the eyes of the beholder. A legitimate effort to make the most of what you already have rather than attempting to be something you're not is all quality partners seek. Don't ever give excuses for lack of self-care. For every type of person, there are people drawn to that type of person. Being true to yourself will always be attractive to those who are drawn to your type.

[AviatorTom]

Personality wins out, but looks are also important

[Drumlin2001]

Personality all day long. Looks will fade over the years. You'll still have to talk to them in 30 years, be nice to be able to hold a conversation

[MementoMori777]

Personality because you can't fall in love for someone if they have no personality

[clampfan101]

Personality for sure. I’m looking for a lifetime friend and partner, not a doll or a toy.

[Emanon25]

Personality