What is something about yourself that you want to change but you know you never will?

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Beautyblossom2 · Accepted Answer

Being fashionable and a flaunting type of a person.
I m very grounded, simplistic and just am not used to clicking selfies, sharing stuff or my talents, dressing pretty n all that. Used to do it all that as a teen but I'm over it now. Like sometimes even if I know a prettier word for smth, I'd still go for the common/normal one. I wear the first thing that comes to my hand n am usually repeating the same clothes only. I don't feel bad about it, I feel like I get enough attention & validation right now as well, with how I am.
But I feel people who maintain a pretty & fancy exterior get a lot n lot of advantage n are just taken seriously n respectful. It's just how the works. And getting cheated by a guy who was all that with a girl who posts stories about lit. each step of her skincare.
It all just hits directly at the heart. I feel like I need to level up but it's smth too beyond my motivation (also I don't wanna be those 'glow up after breakup' or 'making him regret' types). I feel like there should be a change in my ways n I should take advantage of whatever looks I'm given n all the pretty jewellery n clothes I once bought at once but then again... I'm not that excited n lively in general, been this way for years, it all feels very natural & comfortable so it's just not happening I guess

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i want to go to therapy but i know i never will. it's too expensive.

i want to change my sensitivity to sounds, but i don't think that can ever happen and it may be out of my control.

i want to change how i act when i'm extremely overwhelmed but it's so ingrained in me that it's second nature.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For my part, I am a relentless creature of habit. The house could be caving in and I would still be eating at the same time. Taking out the trash. Taking a shower. The list goes on.

Nothing interrupts my sacred routines and while that has a lot of advantages, I also miss a lot of opportunities for spontaneous fun because I have to stick to the routine. It has, as I say, its' advantages, but then you look around and see what you missed and you sort of regret it.

Very much a mixed blessing - and per my habit for sticking with routine, I never will change it.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

I don't want to say it's something that'll never change, since it probably will and I am still very young. The fact that I like to be in control quite a lot.

It has its benefits, but I have limited myself opportunities before from not being able to let loose.

AviatorTom · Answer

Sometimes I wish that I was more outgoing... more extroverted

NathanDavis · Answer

great question, hmm...

I don't think that there is something, let's say, too drastic... that I absolutely need to change or not something that is doing me harm or keeping me from better things

it's more like a few things here and there that, I need to keep on check and under control, and that I do... though, there's a couple of habits I should definitely improve and these are my sleeping hours (around 6 or less) and eating better (maybe a lot less of the processed bread) and maybe I should quit drinking Coca~Cola all together

but... I don't know, I'm having some bread right now, and a Coke, lmfao

ohsheeT · Answer

Probably one of two things
I believe one of the secrets to life is becoming one with yourself that's one where your heart and your mind become one becoming one with others and then becoming one with the universe and that means you have to let everything go and never let anything bother you again I mean it's way deeper than that but yeah that would be one and the other one

Even though I b**** about it a lot is helping people and I just would not feel right if I could not help people

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Procrastination. I always end up reverting back to it. I'll stay on top of things for moths on end with out procrastinating but sooner or later I'll have a day when I'm exhausted and say"I'll get to it tomorrow". Then it's down hill for months on end, then the cycle starts anew.

TheBootyChest · Answer

My willingness to help people I consider a friend. Going all out to help them.

SnowedIn · Answer

Probably diet. Maybe also motivation to work out. The latter I am far more likely to change.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i like the shortskrts and dresses too much... then people think your a slut... i guess in a way i am... i do like to do certain things... but i love it and it's ruining my life.

syncheart · Answer

Number 1, I wish I could get rid of my learning disability, because it causes me so much problems. I even think it has given me a personality disorder. Number 2, I wish I was closer to God. I wish my faith was more solid. Number 3, I'm ugly, I wish I could have a better face.

Justmeagain1 · Answer

My scar from when I died- belly button to pubic bone

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

I always wanted to win American idol but then I have to go on the show and audition. Fuck that!

AlexEfron · Answer

Pessimism. People never disappoint me when I have a bad feeling about something, so I don't think that pessimism is ever gonna change.

I'd certainly want it to change. To have a positive outlook and hope for a better future. Instead of a gut wrenching feeling of mishap

A_Bell · Answer

I am always going to hate going to work for others.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Sometimes I wish I did have a more traditional mindset. Sometimes

Wonderingguyy · Answer

I would like to not let things get to me so much- i wish I was less sensitive

exitseven · Answer

I wish I could have finesse. I am like a blunt instrument. I usually brute force my way through every task until I beat it into submission. It would be cool to be able to work smart and not hard.

Subflics · Answer

Very weird reading some of these like "u can definitely change that" I wish I could change that skin doesn't tan correctly

OnlyMeee · Answer

My belly, could do with a six pack rather than a dad bod, but that comes with diet and gym. And to be fair I can't be arsed with either of them, not at my age, maybe when I was younger lol 😂

Coden7 · Answer

My housing. I would love to upgrade. But I won’t afford it

Jennz6 · Answer

I am very submissive but I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ how to change

Andres77 · Answer

I need to stop procrastinating, but I think I’ll start tomorrow.

dolemite58 · Answer

i wish i was more of a people person. As long as i can still have sex here and there i thoroughly enjoy solitude. i’m one of those guys that could live in a cabin in Alaska by myself.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably my lack of emotional expression when it is proper to show some.

Gramkabir · Answer

I want to be a cricket player at an early age but now it's not possible to change the course anymore.

SoJust · Answer

I not change is life , these life everything is good , just is accept

lorenzomichael · Answer

Having trust in police. I'll never trust the police I fucking hate them bastards.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I’d like to be less stubborn but seems like it’s a core feature

Christoff92 · Answer

Watching shows and movies on YouTube eating snacks and drinks.

Staximus · Answer

Lack of motivation when it comes to self improvement

AmeerX · Answer

I cannot turn my back on the people 😔 even if they have done wrong to me

larry69 · Answer

Being a better person and being a better giver than I am already

Cb142 · Answer

i wished at times i could start my life over

Anonymous · Answer

Be more motivated to go on dates however with the current state of how bad it is, it's stopping me from doing so.

BigRed1987 · Answer

Vaping. It’d be nice to quit, but I’m too stressed for the foreseeable future

Darkest-Knight · Answer

My low self esteem. I'm too old to bother trying to change now.

muscles_glasses · Answer

I would like to be in a relationship but refuse to change who I am just to be in one.

Stillsleeping · Answer

Quit smoking. I'm going to try but I don't like my chances of actually being able to do it.

krin_m · Answer

Nothing! I think I have changed enough in my life :-)

Beccaasaar · Answer

Sticking up for myself, taking no crap from Noone.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Sometimes I'm too caring. I try helping everyone.

Anonymous · Answer

My personality My height My balding head

4ngelic · Answer

procrastination

PeterLegg91 · Answer

That I'm very opinionated and argumentative, I've gotten better but I know I'll never change completely :(

RoseySarah · Answer

Never being happy and trapped all alone!

Billlewis · Answer

Being such an ass kissing simp... lol

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Too focused on sex and women.

Anonymous · Answer

My masculinity.

Kelly6 · Answer

My sexual behavior

Anonymous · Answer

Wanting to die sooner LOL

Anonymous · Answer

My health vulnerabilities.

Bobbysworld · Answer

Being too nice

Samantha36 · Answer

Bigger boobs

abc3643 · Answer

My future.

Simslover92 · Answer

How shy I am. 🤭

Bigjake1995 · Answer

Wearing thongs I want to stop

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I'm tired of being alone

justabuddy · Answer

Projects... I always have too many projects going.

Nerdvana · Answer

My looks.

Mansearching · Answer

Not being a shovenistic pig

jahaims · Answer

Depression

CubaPirate · Answer

My cynicism

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