My male best friend's wife is making him cut me out cuz she thinks if we go on like this, it will lead on to something in the future?

[Anonymous]

He told me that she's the jealous type and he told me that if I care about him, I should help him go through this and to regain her trust and that we need to minimize contact for a while. she went through our Whatsapp and she doesn't like our dynamic (apparently they already had problems together). He even asked me to delete our conversation. They have kids and I know how much he loves them and that I respect that very much, and that I would never sabotage that.

[Anonymous]

Give them space. ﾠ

[Anonymous]

This is a tricky situation, but here are some things to consider:

1. His wife's jealousy is misplac ed. You have done nothing wrong and have no romantic intentions toward your friend. Her jealousy stems from insecurity, not reality.

2. Cutting you off to "regain her trust" places the blame on you, when you have done nothing to break trust. Her trust issues are hers to work through, not for you to fix.

3. Deleting your conversation history and minimizing contact feels deceptive. Hiding an innocent friendship to appease jealousy often breeds more distrust in the long run.

4. However, his priority needs to be his marriage and family. If he feels cutting you off is the best way to ease his wife's concerns and save his marriage, you may need to respect that difficult choice.

5. You can express to him that you value his friendship, but will give him the space he needs. Let him know you will be there if he ever wants to reconnect in a way that works for both his marriage and your friendship.

6. In the meantime, focus on your other relationships and activities. His situation may be out of your control for now.

Overall, I'm sorry you're in this tough position. You have done nothing wrong, and cutting you off seems like an unhealthy "solution." But ultimately his marriage must come first.

The best you can do is communicate your value of his friendship while also respecting his choices for the sake of his family. Set healthy boundaries for yourself, and the door remains open if he's one day able to have a friendship that works for both of you. I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

is a tricky situation, but here are some things to consider:

1. His wife's jealousy is misplaced. You have done nothing wrong and have no romantic intentions toward your friend. Her jealousy stems from insecurity, not reality.

2. Cutting you off to "regain her trust" places the blame on you, when you have done nothing to break trust. Her trust issues are hers to work through, not for you to fix.

3. Deleting your conversation history and minimizing contact feels deceptive. Hiding an innocent friendship to appease jealousy often breeds more distrust in the long run.

4. However, his priority needs to be his marriage and family. If he feels cutting you off is the best way to ease his wife's concerns and save his marriage, you may need to respect that difficult choice.

5. You can express to him that you value his friendship, but will give him the space he needs. Let him know you will be there if he ever wants to reconnect in a way that works for both his marriage and your friendship.

6. In the meantime, focus on your other relationships and activities. His situation may be out of your control for now.

Overall, I'm sorry you're in this tough position. You have done nothing wrong, and cutting you off seems like an unhealthy "solution." But ultimately his marriage must come first.

The best you can do is communicate your value of his friendship while also respecting his choices for the sake of his family. Set healthy boundaries for yourself, and the door remains open if he's one day able to have a friendship that works for both of you. I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

is a tricky situation, but here are some things to consider:

1. His wife's jealousy is misplaced. You have done nothing wrong and have no romantic intentions toward your friend. Her jealousy stems from insecurity, not reality.

2. Cutting you off to "regain her trust" places the blame on you, when you have done nothing to break trust. Her trust issues are hers to work through, not for you to fix.

3. Deleting your conversation history and minimizing contact feels deceptive. Hiding an innocent friendship to appease jealousy often breeds more distrust in the long run.

4. However, his priority needs to be his marriage and family. If he feels cutting you off is the best way to ease his wife's concerns and save his marriage, you may need to respect that difficult choice.

5. You can express to him that you value his friendship, but will give him the space he needs. Let him know you will be there if he ever wants to reconnect in a way that works for both his marriage and your friendship.

6. In the meantime, focus on your other relationships and activities. His situation may be out of your control for now.

Overall, I'm sorry you're in this tough position. You have done nothing wrong, and cutting you off seems like an unhealthy "solution." But ultimately his marriage must come first.

The best you can do is communicate your value of his friendship while also respecting his choices for the sake of his family. Set healthy boundaries for yourself, and the door remains open if he's one day able to have a friendship that works for both of you. I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Oliverlogan263]

This is a tricky situation, but here are some things to consider:

1. His wife's jealousy is misplaced. You have done nothing wrong and have no romantic intentions toward your friend. Her jealousy stems from insecurity, not reality.

2. Cutting you off to "regain her trust" places the blame on you, when you have done nothing to break trust. Her trust issues are hers to work through, not for you to fix.

3. Deleting your conversation history and minimizing contact feels deceptive. Hiding an innocent friendship to appease jealousy often breeds more distrust in the long run.

4. However, his priority needs to be his marriage and family. If he feels cutting you off is the best way to ease his wife's concerns and save his marriage, you may need to respect that difficult choice.

5. You can express to him that you value his friendship, but will give him the space he needs. Let him know you will be there if he ever wants to reconnect in a way that works for both his marriage and your friendship.

6. In the meantime, focus on your other relationships and activities. His situation may be out of your control for now.

Overall, I'm sorry you're in this tough position. You have done nothing wrong, and cutting you off seems like an unhealthy "solution." But ultimately his marriage must come first.

The best you can do is communicate your value of his friendship while also respecting his choices for the sake of his family. Set healthy boundaries for yourself, and the door remains open if he's one day able to have a friendship that works for both of you. I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Dkc123]

She's insecure like most females at the same time she's right to think.. coz things happen..

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you should move on from that friendship.

[Asker]

i am already. but what could she possibly think it will lead to in the future?

[Opinion Owner]

An affair with you.

[Asker]

she thinks he loves me

[Asker]

and unfortunately i cried really hard and he saw me cry

[Opinion Owner]

Hugs.

[Anonymous]

You should be out of his life. As you said you don't want problems