How do you comfort your partner when they are stressed?

[ventustalks]

Long day at work, a problem, an argument. What do you do for them?

[Billlewis]

Regardless of whether she's stressed or not, I always have the goal of doing all her household chores, laundry and general cleaning. As soon as she walks in, I remove her shoes and socks and give her a long, leisurely foot massage, followed by at least an hour of oral worship to her feet, often while she's talking on the phone with her girlfriends or one of her boyfriends. Shee may decide to have me give her a full body massage, which is usually followed by a thoroughly pleasurable session of anilingus.

[Chevy1_kb]

when my ex partner was sad or I'll or upset I use to comfort him i can't stand seeing people hurt because when I cry i cry alone if iam sad maybe someone will give me a cuddle but not much for how much i do them so when I got upset or cryed because of my ex he cuddled me when we first met a while after he just let me sit there and cry for aomething he said that hurt me and say what you crying for i would tell him why i was because of what he said and he said aw dont start this iam like you need to stop doing this you hurt me made me cry then ask me whats wrong nd ubdont even hug or comfort me anymore either its sick

[_Maya_]

Depends on the problem and the person. Ideally they would want me to listen to them. Sometimes people just need to vent. I'm always happy to listen if that is what they need. Sometimes that isn't what they need though. Sometimes they don't want to talk about it because they are tired of dealing with whatever it was and just need some space. I try to just let them lead and let them involve me as much or as little as they want. I just try to be supportive.

[serious]

I am not good at comforting people, yes I can only offer company provided the other person wants it. Otherwise nothing much I can do.

Hence it can be said, hypothetically if I had a partner I won't be able to comfort them. I don't know maybe I can offer to hear them out but I don't know if that qualifies under comforting or not.

Hope the opinion made sense

[Pinay_ako]

Make them a delicious warm meal and draw them a nice bath or give them lots of hugs and a listening ear

[Anonymous]

Listen to her. And at some point I say "I told you that b**** was crazy". Because it never fails. Every woman has at least one woman she works with that she absolutely hates and thinks has it in for her.😆 So even if I don't understand what the hell she's talking about I always say that line whenever things are starting to wane. That always seems to get me back on her side.😆

Also rub her feet that usually goes a long way.

You have to realize you're never going to fix a woman's problems most the time they don't really even have a problem to fix.😆 they just want to burn for a bit and know they have an ally.😆

[Peter_Penetrator]

Just plain ass pamper her.


Take a warm shower with her using a quality body wash, wash her hair, tantric massages along with soothing music, aroma therapy and then just let her sleep uninterrupted.


Sure l should always do this for her, but it would just be routine.


I wait until it would be special; at a time it would be needed the most.

[Grovermint]

Well, if I ever have a partner, that would depend on her preferences.

Some people just need space to deal with it themselves. Other people need an empathetic or sympathetic ear without the other person offering solutions unless they ask for it. Some people enjoy being pampered a little, like a massage or a hot bath prepared, dinner of their favorite meal, or a foot massage.

The point is, that everyone has their own way of dealing with stress and what helps them with it.

[mandyfire98]

I talk to them and listen the their problems. Cuddle with them or take care of them sexually.

[smilelots]

talk to them hold them , just be a ear if needed or a few words of comfort if you know them well you should know what will help.

[Anonymous]

Easy. Get them focused on the things they are grateful for.
You don't join someone in misery... That's how losers think.
You help them by getting them back thinking like a winner.

[katiesmuff]

I will bring him his Scotch on the rocks and make my listening ear available should he want to talk.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Cuddles and listening. I just go on the bed, spread my arms and he'll come. Then I just ask about what's wrong while caressing his back, playing with his hair. That's usually enough.

[sheikalana]

I give him space to regroup his thoughts. I let him know that if he wants to talk he can talk to me but if he doesn't that's okay too. Cook him something delicious and give him some affection.

[sheenagwapa]

i usually talk to him about the topic he likes, cuddle in bed and pricking his back because he liked that abd prepare something to eat

[ariadneR]

First question I'll ask is "comfort or solution", and then depending on their answer give them what they need

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"The way to my man's <3 heart is through his stomach."

[KingOfMe1]

Seems unsanitary if you ask me

[LazerBean]

Listening, reassurance, massages, hot tea, walks, etc...

[SnowedIn]

I listen to them without offering advice or trying to fix anything.

[Anonymous]

It would depend on their personality. IRL I'm not much of a talker so probably just listen to them while massage their back or give them space.

[OddBeMe]

I have a “comfort extender” not unlike those grabbers you see at CVS for old people. I rub their back from a safe emotional distance.

[Anonymous]

I would give him a bj if he had a very stressful day especially if it has to do with work.

[Romeo0071234]

My kinda girl lol

[Anonymous]

In cases like this, in porn hub they shove the dick in the mouth.


I Would not recomend to follow their leads.

[JackCarter]

Hug, kiss on forehead and massages

[drwine]

play and sing her favourite song

[Bklynbadboy12]

I give them what they need

[BLP11520]

Listen and put phone up

[Anonymous]

Hugs first and sex second

[balyai]

What?

[DerekC321]

Hold them.