What are your must haves in a relationship that you will not back down on?

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Miah05 · Accepted Answer

You kinda know my history with a trauma i had, so i need someone to give me space when i need it, and understand it's not them, but my grieving process when something triggers it.

Respect

Trust

Kindness to me and others, it is disgusting to see someone just mean or rude to someone just because they can be.

They need to be able to make me laugh.

They have to get along with my parents and brother. It's a red flag if my parents do not like someone because i have never brought someone home, or seen them dislike or not get along with anyone, so if ya can't get along with my family we done.

Let's hear yours.

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

My most important thing is someone who's adventurous. I love to try and explore new things, places and foods. It's a huge deal-breaker if he's not adventurous.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

A beautiful heart, kindness shyness, of giver of self without wanting anything in return, can see things deeper than most people. Someone willing to take on new experiences, smart, intelligent, confident, happy, someone that can speak with their eyes, or their touch, someone real sensual, passionate lover , loyal and straight up honest, not afraid to get dirty, not afraid to speak her mind,

Wallythewalrus · Accepted Answer

Just a few things. I like a girl that is very confident in who she is. I like a girl that likes to be around friends and have a good time. I really like a girl that loves to dance. I also find southern bells attractive! Girls from, just for the an example, let's say, Kentucky, with a hint of a southern accent. Yes, I will not compromise on these "must haves".

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't have any pre-conditions. I evaluate each potential relationship. Sometimes, you have to take some of the bad with lots of good.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

A king and gentle soul with a cute face!

Mamaliv · Answer

A job
A drivers license
The ability to have an intelligent conversation
Drive
Likes to go on adventures
Respectful
Likes dogs
Isn’t afraid of hard work
Can accept my stubbornness but still helps me with the hard stuff even when I don’t ask

Anonymous · Answer

I will not tolerate being treated like a 2nd choice or fallback.  Effort! I need to see it. I'm not her accessory like a pair of shoes. Honesty. I know no one is 100% honest all the time. But if she claims to love me she can't continuously lie to me. Every lie you tell me is a brick in a wall between us. It'll eventually get to the point where that wall is unscaleable.  Loyalty! loyalty is very attractive in a woman because it so rare in women toady. When you're loyal (not just to me, but everyone you care about) it shows me you have STRONG character. Good morals and values. She need to have them. Nothing turns me off quicker than a woman I cannot respect.

cuteangelprincess · Answer

Respectful, calm, logical, really loving in a physical touch kind of way (kisses, hugs, hand holding etc.), hygienic, same values as me , mature ^^ big noses>

Still-alive · Answer

Everything @snowedin says and my personal one is you must not hate video games, you'll have to be ok with them at the very least because yeah i have a ton lol

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

No desire for more kids Physically fit Loves animals.  Good with money. Killer sex

provokeesmokee · Answer

Physical affection, respect, truth, and commitment. Physical affection is a clear need for me tho. Definitely a must have.

NathanDavis · Answer

an open mind, an open heart... and an open soul...

SnowedIn · Answer

Polite. Thoughtful. Kind. Communication.

NotInterestedSorry · Answer

I need someone who won't lie to me no matter what.  Someone who is faithful. Someone who can be understanding of my trauma.

Audette · Answer

Being able to communicate without shame, your true self and good sex life

TheBootyChest · Answer

Open communication, don't me for my comic books passion.

Guardian45 · Answer

I "must have" in a relationship the following: Intelligence  Humor/Wit Empathy Trust Honesty Loyalty

Shiningtempest · Answer

@mandyfire98 Must haves in a relationship that I won't back down on are getting my name right, shared interest in anime, enjoys same music genre, punctual, doesn't change plans at last minute, & doesn't banter or tease harmlessly.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Trust, loyalty, communication, compatibility, humor, respect, affection

jgirl99 · Answer

Respect, trust, support. Without those it's over before it began

serious · Answer

Mine the list is very specific and there are lots of deal breakers. If a person steps into that zone, there will neither be forgiveness nor there will be any second chances given.

Grond21 · Answer

Respectful, wants kids, good morals, adventurous, fun to be around, attractive

Anemone978 · Answer

Attractive Funny Kind  Sweet Patient  Loving Romantic This is what I want but have never found someone with all these traits.. and liked me back lol

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Kindness, honest, hardworking, and not racist.

Nigjt · Answer

Affection. Making love or hot sex. Love. Companionship. Honesty. Loyalty. A good understanding.  God Bless

Nikki1989 · Answer

You have to  love  real music and have a basic understanding of music history and theory.

Alex8736 · Answer

Someone who drinks bud light and sports a tuckie from target is an extreme necessity 😝

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Empathy. Not sympathy, but empathy. I am not a victim. Just understand and don’t do the things that affect me negatively.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Crazy sex, loyalty, and a woman dedicated to her purpose... Doesn't have to be similar to mine, just hate boring chicks

Christoff92 · Answer

Great personal traits, courteous behavior, politeness. Not someone who impersonates her love for me. Just to think that she can use me like a guinea pig. Who's really a utterly moody person.

justabuddy · Answer

Caring, polite, thoughtful, secure in their own skin.

Belgie · Answer

Trust. Without trust, what is the point?

Kabluie · Answer

If we are dating, we are likely already in open/poly relationship and that shouldn't change. Condomless sex is good too, never an issue.

sean1234 · Answer

Jesus Christ , The King James version Bible and his law in it we MUST obey.

JackCarter · Answer

Always smiling , happy and positive  Nothing more...

syncheart · Answer

I need a Woman who loves God and takes scripture seriously. She needs to be forgiving, and extend grace, and mercy.

DiegoO · Answer

A satisfying sexual life. If it doesn't flow naturally, something is wrong.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Basic respect and attention. Appreciate me the way I appreciate you.

msmissydc · Answer

Acceptance, trust, respect,

Unit1 · Answer

Childfree not a smoker Not a gold digger

Kelly6 · Answer

Open minded adventurist  exhibitionist food lover romantic

AlexEfron · Answer

Polite, kind hearted, friendly and easy to talk to.

Samantha36 · Answer

Regular sex. That's about it haha

ShesRad80 · Answer

communication before anything

BunBun369 · Answer

Honesty if there is no trust then what's the point

Jerre · Answer

Kindness, truthful, conscientious, fun to be with, likes sex as much as I do

Longshank · Answer

Great at sex, great to look at and too personality

OnlyMeee · Answer

Personality, compatibility, that's about it really

Twalli · Answer

Must not want to wait until marriage for sex. I won't even propose before we have sex.

krin_m · Answer

Trust, love, respect, non-judgemental attitude, lust and sexual desires.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Loyalty, love, communication

Anonymous · Answer

Conservativism, financial knowledge and intelligence

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Hygiene, respect, no drug use

Abdulwahh · Answer

Sex at least once daily or 4x a week besides on her menstruation

Sparkie460 · Answer

Loyalty, trust, respect, caring, funny,

Anonymous · Answer

Loyalty! by the way why did you use lesbian couple as image? 😳🤔

BumbleStix · Answer

Honestly, Physical Intimacy, Openness

EaterPeter · Answer

Fitness, sex, health, being in shape

TheTimeToThink · Answer

Respect, trust, loyalty, and sexual.

DJB72 · Answer

Trust Communication Two X chromosomes

Coden7 · Answer

Trust. Be interesting, and interested

soe11 · Answer

No, but depending on other side.

Anonymous · Answer

Nice ass lol cute face

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