My best friend hugged my girlfriend while she was topless! Is it game over?

[Anonymous]

This morning my buddy Adrian came over while my girlfriend was in the shower. My girlfriend came out of the shower to say hi to Adrian. Wearing just pants with no shirt covering her breasts with her left arm. I told to go back and get dressed and she went and hugged Adrian topless. Adrian and my girlfriend both laughed and said I’m being insecure. I was really pissed about this and blocked Adrian’s number and looking for a new place to live. Am I overreacting?

Dump her and ditch him

Relax it’s not a big deal

[madhatters4]

don't understand why she would come out of the shower topless with company.

don't understand why she would think it appropriate to hug the guy ratehr than go get dressed

don't understand why the friend wouldn't refuse the hug or excuse himself from the situation til she was dressed

i personally would feel like this needs to be over but maybe a convo could be had first as to your issues with it

[serious]

Yes of course it game over. If you have self respect then break up with her, you don't need such a woman in your life.

Since she has done this, cheating is not too far away, someday even that will happen too. Hence you know what you should do now.

[ShesRad80]

she was topless, yet decided on the hug as well, you can't totally blame him. the whole situation is weird.

[Alexz0]

How on earth is that a big deal? It's fine. Get over it.

[Shamalien]

Some girls don’t see nudity as a big thing at all…but I think it’s pretty strange that she would be so eager to say hi to him that she’d do it before getting dressed. I’d be more pissed at her than him. What is he supposed to do? Push her away?

[jshm2]

You're bitching like he put his cock up her ass all the way to the balls, as a "greeting".

He's your best friend, he's probably banged her along side you, and she's only your girlfriend, not your wife.

[Mimiaof]

That's really strange is it the first time she does something like that? But she is a grown woman and she knows the good and bad it's a lack of respect why she would even do that.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's really weird to me that she would think it was totally normal/cool to give him a hug with her shirt off. I'd be out of there if I was you too. Even if nudity isn't a big deal to her, that's just too friendly.

[inhua]

the insecurity argument is most often used by cheaters

don't let them gaslight you and ignore the other users gaslighting you too

[Wise4myage]

Damn, if I was that guy I would have sprung one, lol.

Don't dump her, but if it bothers you that much, then make sure it doesn't happen again.

[DarkWinterNights]

Clearly neither of them respect you. Associate yourself with better people.

[soe11]

• First sorted out with peaceful conversation.
• Doesn't work then you decide final.

[Huntingnfishin]

If she/him felt completely comfortable with hugging eachother while she's mostly naked... he's banging her bro

[Anonymous]

Ask yourself, "would she be ok if the roles were reversed and you were hugging one of her topless friends"?

That's your answer.

Even if it was innocent it's in very poor taste.

[Opinion Owner]

At the very least they both owe you an apology. Her for doing it. And him for allowing it. You don't do that to a guy you call friend and you don't allow a woman to put your friendship in that position.

[cloud9vortex1234]

That shows a lack of respect on her part towards you. She's to blame more than him since she initiated the hug. I don't blame him as what was he suppose to do? You definitely should dump her.

[LiamJHayden]

Honestly this sounds like a fairy tale. If it really happened... I would assume that they are messing around and ditch both of them.

[Anonymous]

The same thing happened to me... and then I woke up.

[Anonymous]

I could never be this bored.

[FYI345]

Dude is in his 30s and probably unemployed. Poor guy.

[inhua]

@FYI345 why does a person's financial situation matter if he's being disrespected by his partner?

[Opinion Owner]

@inhua this is not a real situation, just a bored troll. Maybe he wouldn’t have so much time on his hands if he worked!🤧

[inhua]

yeah it must be hard for you to believe there are bad men and bad women out there who aren't necessarily criminals

if people want to disrespect you, they will and they don't give a flying flip about your feelings

[Opinion Owner]

The gullibility.

[inhua]

there's no vested interest from me or anyone reading this situation. we have nothing to gain or lose

[FYI345]

@inhua Dude, I'm sorry but you must be really gullible if you believe this troll. EVEN IF, this were to actually happen, I don't think he would phrase the question in such a way as he did. He would have asked it in a different manner. It seems to me like this troll has a cuckold fetish of some kind and is trying to pass off his fantasy as a reality.

[inhua]

@FYI345 yeah because men can't be cheated on, men can't be victims of abuse etc.

female GAG users post similar questions and everyone believes them but males? nah. no possible way.

[Opinion Owner]

@inhua dramatic much? Of course men get cheated on, no one is saying that doesn’t happen. It’s the nature of this question that screams troll/fetish. Even adding these unnecessary pics, he probably has a camera roll of them. So you can die on this hill sympathizing with his nonsense if you want to but some of us see right through this fake ass story.

[inhua]

believe all women but don't believe any man. yeah I've heard that story plenty of times

[Opinion Owner]

So because I don’t believe this fantastical tale, I don’t believe any man ever, as a whole? The fuck kind of logic is that?

[Bricealan]

"GAME ON" ...

[Anonymous]

Good story dude.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump her and ditch him.

[LavLavLuv]

Such a real story thank you troll

[Anonymous]

That's up to you.

[BunBun369]

They fucking

[MissBoogus]

Troll

[Anonymous]

This is 🧢