Does this make me a hypocrite?

[tempirl2012]

Everyone i know keeps on saying i'm a hypocrite because i don't want my boyfriend being a dad to his outside baby (that he had on me). But i want my Daughter dad to be around our kid. I have the right to feel like this. Yes, i want my daughter dad to take care of our kid and No, i DON'T want my boyfriend taken care of his kid that he had on me. Plus he don't claim that baby anyway. Every time the baby m called, he completely ignored her. So how am i wrong or being a hypocrite when i was with my boyfriend first? I do not want him doing anything for that baby and he hasn't and never will.

[teamvic]

Uh yes, it doesn't matter what you want when it comes to his kid it's his choice, you don't make that decision. Now obviously he ain't want the kid anyway but the point is that you want your kids father to be in the picture but the guy you're dating with can't have that choice because you say so. You see how that doesn't make sense?

At the end of the day just like how you have the choice to have your kids dad in the picture he should have the choice for his kid

I mean how would you feel if he told you your kids dad can't see him. Maybe you agree maybe you don't but he doesn't get to make that choice without you. Kinda like how you're trying to do it for him. But what do I know im just a mexican

[CurrentJohn]

We are all hypocites but honestly, what you describe doesn`t just make you a hypocrite but just an awful person in general. I mean what the hell, you forbid your boyfriend to be a father to his own child while doing the same on your side? Forget about being a hypocrite, talk more about being an actual decent being or not.

[ZamerZ]

Yes. Yes you are a hypocrite. Every child deserves love and attention and it's not up to you to decide. Leave him alone.

[Fanfare690]

He only ignored her because he was around you. Best to keep the pussy happy... he's a dick

[KrakenAttackin]

Every child needs a father, and yes, you are a hypocrite.

[shades777]

sound like some drama