I can’t tell if I’ve been dumped, or is this silent treatment?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend picked a fight with me last Sunday, then dropped me home. I gave it a few days then texted to ask if we could talk. He had friends over, kept it short and said we’ll speak tomorrow. Still no sign from him.

[Ozanne]

The silent treatment is the stupidest thing a person can do. It proves nothing. If this is how he behaves after a fight, then that's a problem. It's now nearly a week and if he is giving you a chilly response and still not talking to you, you can just make it clear in a text message saying, "Well, despite my messages, I still haven't heard from you, so I just want to say that I don't want to fight anymore, just wish you well. Take care." If he doesn't answer, that's a breakup. If it lights a fire under his ass, he'll probably respond with "what do you mean by that?" and you can take it from there.

[Yannae]

If he hasn't made things clear yet, I'm guessing it's silent treatment which isn't a good approach either. Reach out if the day he said he would talk to you has passed.

[Asker]

Yeah, I called him and said I wanted to talk. He was with his friend, and was supposed to call me after he left. Never did 🤡

[Anonymous]

Move on