What is the best way your partner can support you especially when you are having a tough time?

[Anonymous]

We can all agree that men and women need support from their partners but all need it differently, what is the best way your partner can support you when you are having a tough day or week?

[Chevy1_kb]

fuck i hardly gotvsupported from my ex cuddles sometimes and said you ok wich was nice but sometimes he use to sit there nd go your ok or if he called me hurtfull names he would say why u crying a was disgusted a was like you yaa prick or he would say a for god sake not this again fuckn asshole no wonder we are just happy hanging out at his or sleeping together fuck being in a relashionship was him again not my type a guy to have as a boyfriend friends was benifits is fine for me

[Anonymous]

Give me a razor, a dark room and leave me alone

I guess a nife would work too

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO😌

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

She is in tune with me, so she can tell when life is amiss. Simply asking "what's wrong" does the trick for me. Just acknowledging/noticing that I am having a challenging day is enough

[BigDog1989]

Sympathy, or better yet empathy. We don't want to be shown how to fix it, or whatever, we just want you to show that you feel for us

[Asker]

I have done quite a bit of research on this and it seems that this is what men need. Its in our nature as woman to want to fix things and make them better but we dont realise that men dont need that, they just need you to say " I know you got this and im here if you need me"

[BigDog1989]

So, the question then becomes, well, you might say that to a "friend", right? But, then what differs that from a relationship to a person who's "just a friend"?

[TruthBeTold77]

Just feed me.. also give cuddles and tell me everything is going to be okay and I'll feel better 🤣

[TheSpaceGnome]

It would depend on what I'm having a tough time with and why I'm having a tough time.

[Asker]

Okay, lets say you are having issues at work, how would you want your partner to act or support you that will help you feel better or cope better?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Well, I work from home, and if I had a wife, she'd be the co-head to the company, so I'd want her help finishing up the work, but since she's co-head, she'd already being doing half the work, so I'd not be having a tough time to begin with regarding doing my half, unless I was sick that day, and at that point, I'd want her taking care of me and filling in for me until I got better (I'd of course do the same for her if she were sick).

[TheSpaceGnome]

be doing*

[shades777]

just treat him good, women aren't good with dealing with mens emotions because you see us as weak when we share stuff so we have to cough up cash to a therapist instead

[LemiaOfThunder]

A Shoulder to lean on

[JackCarter]

Long Hugs 🫂

[Asker]

Okay so if you are having a tough day, you just want your partner to hug you?

[JackCarter]

Yep her hug is all I need !