I've supported her on everything she wanted, even the most morally questionable things, but with me she's being just unsupportive and a fifth columnist.
I won't forget her behavior.
Not about everything, if they think something it’s stupid I’d rather hear them say it than support me. In a way it’s a form of care. But normally when people don’t support something they let you know in a very ugly way and make you feel bad and even stupid for allowing yourself for such a crazy idea to go through your head. I don’t like that, you can be respectful and tell me that it’s a stupid idea still. I can handle a lot of criticism as long as it’s constructive, if it’s just to make me feel bad i’d pass.
No.
The idea of romantic love being unconditional is the perfect gateway to parasitic codependency where the clinger (or ‘supporter’, in this case) will justify any sort of shady, narcissistic behaviours of their partner to satisfy the unconditional narrative they’ve built in their mind.
Yes, you should be supportive. Being a team is important because if you guys love each other, being supportive is also key in being in a relationship. From both parties. It seems she isn't engaging or attentive to you. But of course within reason. Don't support anything that can harm yourself mentally or the relationship negatively.
I think honesty is the best form of support I couldn't just support any thing a partner agreed such as hunting If they were for it id explain why I don't I would support them emotionally Always have their back Unless as I say it was my opposite
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Nope. Not always. If your partner does something you consider morally wrong or that simply it's illegal, you shouldn't support that. If it's something good or at least unharmful, the normal thing would be to support your partner.
Definitely not. And don't expect them to be supportive in everything because that's only gonna hurt you in the end. Basically setting yourself up for disappointment there.
You are right.
The abyss of my disappoint is extending to the infinite.
As long as it isn't something detrimental to your health or morally wrong, then yes. And even if you don't agree with them, don't doubt them in public. Discuss it later in private, you guys are a team.
I don't think so, I won't support things that are just wrong, or things that can jeopardize my partner's well being. I won't deny my convictions because of a partner, doing questionable things to please my lover doesn't sit well with me.
You can't always support your partner. Some things cross the line.
Can you be more forthcoming about what she's not supporting? Message me if you like.
It's simple, she doesn't support me trying to get up my activity and be financially independent from her.
I want her out from some projects and she still tries to meddle in.
So be a man and put your foot down about it.
That's what I'll do.
I'll let her have her Christmas, then make it clear that either she respects my conditions, or I'll easily find someone else.
Already got a pair of people's numbers.
Ultimatums are not the best way to proceed. My strong advice is to leave out the "or else" part and just tell her that YOU expect the same respect that you give her. If she doesn't subsequently change her ways, or give it to you, then you decide to move on. But as a side question, what are you doing with two other girls numbers if you're living with your current girl?
They are just friends, and although nothing happened nor I did make anything happen, I prefer much more to talk with them than with her.
They understand more, we agree on many things and overall it's much pleasant to talk with them.
My fiancée tries sometimes to engage on my interests, but it's always when I'm busy or when I don't wish to talk about them.
We've gone through this topic before, you know. WHY is she still your fiancée when you seem to have much more in common with, and get along better with, most any other girl you know?
Because sometimes we have moments where we get perfectly along and agree on everything.
Maybe she drugs me or puts some kind of spell on me, I don't know.
Well my friend, you better figure out REALLY soon if those moments are enough to build a life together on, or if they are too few and far between. It's not smart, or even fair to either of you, if you don't take it seriously. By the way, if she actually HAD cast a spell on you, this wouldn't be happening because you'd just be saying "yes, darling" to anything she said or did ! LOL But don't joke about it, or you'll end up marrying someone you only get along with "some" of the time, and that's not good.
definitely not. different people will have different ways of thinking and as such at some point in life they will have different ways of thinking, for a moment you can't always ask your partner to support you when you decide to commit a crime or do something that goes beyond their limits, let's say. it is up to them to decide to what extent they are willing to support you.
I don't think so. And you shouldn't support her uncoditionally, neither. This is irrational and dangerous to me. And sounds more like dependence not love.
Yes within limits. If he thinks I'll be doing something stupid then it's within his rights to not be supportive.
Not strictly speaking but I do think that even if he /she disagrees at least they shouldn't act as an obstacle anyway...
I think you should support them unless you feel it is going to hurt them or others. But yeah people should be supportive of one another
Yes it is very important. Unless I want to make a decision that is unhealthy, dangerous, that would be different. But overall I would want to feel supported no matter what
For the most part, yes.
The only times I won't support her is if it's destructive and I find it morally wrong.
I hope she is the same with me.
She should not if she thinks I am wrong about something. However a private discussion is appropriate.
No. If my partner was planning on going on a murder spree or planning a terrorist attack I would not support them.
No, part of their purpose is to call you out on your bullshit and help guide you to the light. That may mean supporting you, or it may mean telling you you're flat wrong or a loon.
But if they're not approve at all, why are they in your life?
As long as they are useful to something, but that usefulness is becoming very little
They dont have to like blindly follow you but have to show some interested in your career.
Support doesn't necessarily mean encourage. Sometimes supporting some one means helping them understand that they are wrong so that they can grow.
Your partner should support you always... Your dreams and everything you want remember that the support should be mutual
No it's your partner job to call you a dumb ass when you're being a dumb ass
No, sometimes tough love is needed to teach someone something
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