What kind of support do you need from a partner during your lowest moments?

[LiaRaven]

[HawkPerception]

Words of affirmation. "You are enough. You're everything I want. You're intelligent. You're strong. You'll make it. You'll achieve it. I would sleep under a bridge with you if it came to it. I'm with you through thick and thin. I believe in you and I always will. I know you can do it. I know you can get through this." Words of affirmation for me are of the utmost importance when I'm in a slump.

Physical touch. Hugs do wonders. Whether from the front or behind or wrapping her arms around my neck while she's over me just to show her support. Rubbing the back. Massaging the nape, etc.

Acts of service. Making me my favourite foods would be amazing. Linguine bolognese, a burger, chicken pot pie, pot roast, salmon, steak, a shawarma wrap, etc.

Quality time and just being present is also huge.

[Chazmatazz269]

Usually space. Sometimes a completely silent snuggle.
I’ve never really gotten either.
Ell oh ell!

[FreyaRed]

Harakiri would be nice if someone else cleans the mess after. lol
I'm kidding.
Seriously, I don't have lows

[Nikki1989]

We can read each other like a book, if one of us is feeling low, it doesn't last for long, if at all.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some love dust, we all crave the emotional cuddle of undivided attention. Having a partner who listens and validates our feelings rather than ghosting us is essential. They should be your rock without red-flagging the situation. Falling in love in these moments is truly magical. Having their reassurance, warm hugs, or even a shared silence can be the lovebomb that gets you through tough times. ❤️ Keep the love flowing and stay supportive!

[princeofromance]

I need positive uplifting emotional support.

[strateguy632]

When i feel low, i hide it. But if she feels low i will move in for a hug , slowly because often they push me away but others were like the answers here, by glas, hug and cuddle to soothe.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Mostly acceptance, accepting that I can be more withdrawn and/or detached when I'm down, accepting and understanding that such behavior doesn't target her. It's just my ways, how I react.

[andreasderjuengere]

Getting me a beer and a thousand smiles will do.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZUrPZmWBbPQ

[OneViewpoint]

None. I'm a man. I'm self sufficient. I've learned not to expect any meaningful support from women. So I expect none. It works well.

[Abbycado]

This one is a good one for @Circushowcowboy. All his moments are lowest XD

[Circushowcowboy]

Excuse you? Lols

[WhitneySnow]

Love and tenderness. Physical affection (cuddling) and words of affirmation.

[Agape93]

Just let me be alone but don't abandon me without telling me first. I deserve to know

[KateCrombie]

That he understands me and be there for me… motivates me to do better

[PeachyPie93]

Don't try and solve everything for me, let me vent, cuddle and hold me when I cry.

[DawnB]

I would be happy with a hug and someone to talk too

[MannMitAntworten]

It would be terrific if they could be present in all moments. Highs and lows. Many cannot even manage being around even for the highs.

[SotiCoto]

If I'm that low I might need help getting back up, but I'm not inclined to lie face-down in the dirt in the first place.

[MrChinaski]

That is fathoms too deep to share in open forum. But I respect your question.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Luckily for me I haven't had any low points as of yet thank God for that but when I find out I'll let you know

[nawtee_me]

Just knowing that they are there help a lot.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, but if I were in a relationship, I would need only her empathy.

[Anonymous]

None. As long as she doesn't make it worse I'm happy.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Hugs, affirmations, and distractions

[BCRanger10]

Listen to me and encourage me, mostly.

[beenherebefore]

Let me vent and be supportive.

[exitseven]

Do not feel sorry for me.

[Shiprex]

Acceptance, compassion and trust.

[Stella1]

They just being their. Holding me.

[msg321]

Every kind of support

[Sofie4]

Support work with me.

[glennos89]

Emotional support!

[Nonamez]

Old fashioned hug 🤗

[TallAnon]

Just understanding