Does your partner make you feel protected, when with them? If you don't have a partner, would you leave them if they didn't make you feel protected?

[Miah05]

[serious]

Well I have always been single so I am going to answer this hypothetically.

If I had a partner, if I had the woman of my dreams then I will be extremely protective towards her. Of course in good ways only if you know what I mean

I will at least try and do what it takes to show my protectiveness towards her and her safety. I would do that as my duty, as my job.

About her being protective towards me, no I would never expect that from her and if she never shows her protectiveness for me that is totally fine also. Hence my partner will not be expected to do anything in this regard. No, I would not break up or leave my partner if she never shows her protectiveness for me.

However, if my partner does show protectiveness for me (in good ways) then I won't mind that either but it is not expected. Nothing will be expected as far as protectiveness aspect is concerned.

This was just to answer your question. My reply was long but I hope you understood what I said.

[caring__1]

A protective woman can easily become an overprotective woman, and I'd never want someone micromanaging me. I'm more concerned about feeling safe with her. Too often, people feel entitled to accuse, blame, criticize, demand, rationalize, yell or tell others what they should or shouldn't do. When I see signs of any of those patterns, I shut the door and move on to other opportunities. There are plenty of healthy options to influence a relationship or let our preferences be known. Falling back on these common dysfunctional patterns shows me she's either oblivious or doesn't care about how her choices impact others. Familiar patterns aren't necessarily functional patterns.

[KingOfMe1]

You alright man?

[love_conquers_lust]

@KingOfMe1 What’s wrong with what he wrote?

[Juxtapose]

@love_conquers_lust my thoughts too..

[Ozanne]

My husband has been both. He's been a total flake when I needed him on some occasions, and on others, he stepped right up and protected me. He has a look about him that makes him seem a bit intimidating, so I usually feel safe with him when we're out. (On two separate occasions, he's physically come to my defense when a man attempted to get physical with me, not realizing that he was my husband. Those were interesting moments.)

Me, on the other hand, I think I do more of the protecting! I can't physically protect, but I am often the one who will speak up if there is anyone saying something to him that is racist, or says or does anything that is meant to insult him.

[Sweetsurprize]

Yes.

Protecting your partner isn't just physical by the way, it's also in how they protect your image/honor/reputation. If they talk good or bad about you.

But yes, being physically protected is ALSO very important as usually men are the stronger sex. Chivalry is STILL a good thing to do in my opinion. It displays the level of care and concern they have for you and of course the relationship.

[Sonorous]

Don't have one so I'm just gonna answer with what people have said about me. That they're glad I might go outside with them because a masculine male presence makes them feel safer. And also that sometimes I give off the vibe that I'm military. The way I might stand or walk.

[Miah05]

Interesting

[Sonorous]

What can I say. I'm just badass.

[Miah05]

Lol. Alright now🤣

[Sonorous]

I'll admit 🤷‍♂️ I'd probably lose in a street fight. But u better believe it's goin take a minute to get me down! Also, I've got some mental issues from my childhood so I'ma probably go full wolverine at them, growling & shit. Even if they lose, they goin have some nightmares afterward. Yup

[Miah05]

Oh dang

[Sonorous]

Yeah I would not be family friendly when I'm pissed off 🤣 I've been bullied too much fo dat

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

When I was in a relationship, I felt very protected.

I was afraid of nothing and when my partner cuddled me to sleep, I felt like his arms were the safest place in the world.

[serious]

That is totally understandable and it must be wonderful feeling for you also.

[exitseven]

Yes, I had to have a medical procedure last year. I told my wife that she did not have to come with me because I would be okay. She insisted to come. The procedure was a lot harder than I thought and during it I hyper ventilllated. My blood pressure dropped and I felt like I was about to lose consciousness. I had the nurse go and get my wife because I was afraid if I became unconscious they might harvest my organs and sell them to some rich guy.

[SolitarySolace]

Lol, no? Women can't /don't make men feel protected. If anything women are the ones men must protect themselves from. Men may be able to handle physical battles but the ones done in the courtroom by a manipulative women using the justice system to her own benefit is something men can't do anything about. Can't fight your way out of that situation.

[sage2021]

My boyfriend always used to tell me he was protecting me. With that, I would reply "From who, you."?

[Miah05]

Lol.

[Sparkie460]

I make her feel protected. I can take care of myself

[Miah05]

Okie

[Fuentes]

No women would make me feel safe lol unless she carries a gun with her

[Miah05]

Okie

[Fuentes]

Lol do u think a women can make a man feel safe?

[Sasha0426]

Yeah, you’re right. You’re on your own. See you in the afterlife.

[Fuentes]

@Sasha0426 lol u gotta be Subarugirl this k u can beat men up hahahahaha

[Sasha0426]

Well….. there’s been a time or two where I almost got into fights with men who were assholes. I’ll admit they would win but it would’ve been worth it.

[sirderpsalot123]

"It would have been worth it" you want to potentially die because a dude hurt your feelings? You sound stupid lol

[sirderpsalot123]

@Sasha0426

[Sasha0426]

@sirderpsalot123 Seems like you truly believe that’s the case for me. If so, then there’s no need to tell you my stories since you won’t believe me 🤷‍♀️

[sirderpsalot123]

I just asked you a question lol

A guy is being an asshole and hurts your feelings so you try to fight him and end up getting knocked out or he kills you... you're ok with that? That would be "worth it"

[sirderpsalot123]

There's no way you can make that not sound stupid because it's stupid lol

[sirderpsalot123]

If you were my sister or girlfriend I'd have to knock some sense into you lol don't go picking fights with men. Not a smart thing to do lol

[Sasha0426]

I would tell you it wasn’t because they hurt my feelings. But, you wouldn’t believe my story.

[sirderpsalot123]

Well were these guys physically harming you in any way? If that's the case yeah do what you can. That's more than them just being an asshole. But you shouldn't be trying to fight a guy because you didn't like something he did or said

[Sasha0426]

No, they didn’t do any physical harm. But, they sure acted like they were going to because they got super angry.

[sirderpsalot123]

And you think hitting a man when he's super angry would have been a smart thing to do?

[Sasha0426]

If he put his hands on me first, it’s game on 🤷‍♀️

[sirderpsalot123]

That would be self defense. That's different.

I'm just saying don't go looking for the fight. Or telling him to hit you. Girls love to do that and then they get knocked out. I've seen it happen.

[Fuentes]

@sirderpsalot123 ahs clearly thinks she's super man and thinks her body is made the same as a guys and she can eat our punches lol

[Miah05]

Who is this weird girl trying to start trouble on my question?

[Fuentes]

Im. assuming it's subarigirl on an alt, because only Subaru girl would go on a delusional wild tangent about her being able to protect a man and beat guys hahahhaa

[sirderpsalot123]

@Fuentes the craziest part is that she admits she would lose but she would do it anyway and it would be worth it. That's like her running in front of a car knowing it's going to run her over because the driver honked and gave her the finger and saying that it was worth it lol I just don't understand

[Fuentes]

@sirderpsalot123 deff a Subarugirl type of comment lol so strange she really just needs help lol might as well be a crash dummy for car testing lol

[Sasha0426]

Out of curiosity, I’m a stranger to the both of you. Why would you care?

[sirderpsalot123]

@Sasha0426 we care because girls like you go looking for trouble and then when you find it you expect us to risk our safety and freedom to save you

[sirderpsalot123]

@Sasha0426 And also because this is a site that's designed to give our opinions on stuff lol

[Sasha0426]

Then don’t risk your safety. No one said you had to.

[Sasha0426]

Just wish me luck I don’t die.

[sirderpsalot123]

@sash0426 that's what they always say until you find yourself in that situation because you thought you could fight a man lol then it's "there were all of these men around who just watched and didn't help me"

[Sasha0426]

As if anyone would actually come to my rescue anyway. Just let me be.

[Miah05]

This is a case of trying to starting an argument, and instant regret 🤣

[sirderpsalot123]

Why should we when you knowingly put yourself in that dangerous?

[sirderpsalot123]

*dangerous situation

[sirderpsalot123]

@miah05 especially after commenting on his opinion after not leaving an opinion of her own lol

[Fuentes]

@Sasha0426 I would suggest a female like yourself to not going anywhere to pick a fight with a male, that is like openly walking into a zoo cage with an Ape and expecting him to not rip u apart or a Lion or Tiger ir even walking into a bayou with tons of cross and alligators expecting them to not eat you and tear u apart or even a snake pit in Africa or a big box of huge huntsman spiders in Australia or EVEN! Purposely cutting yourself in the ocean where the great white sharks swim and expecting to win a fight with that huge thing thing teeth. Just stop it hhahahaa

[Miah05]

@sirderpsalot123 yup. Exactly. He answered my question honestly and wasn't being mean.
He was having a convo with me, and asked me a question. i didn't even get to respond to my friend because she wanted drama for no reason.

[Sasha0426]

Thing is we butted heads before. So we’re not on the greatest of terms. We don’t get along.

[Fuentes]

@sasha0426 so your just another obsessed user over me? Great to know hahaha I guess we got another girl building a shrine of me. Look I wanna let u know now so I can let u down real easy. Sorry but I am just not interested maybe this rejection will help you stop being so repulsive when you see me comment to have to get noticed or whatever it is you're trying to do but just know I don't think about you the way u think about me & just it will never happen. I hope you get over real soon ❤️

[Fuentes]

Impulsive***

[Sasha0426]

Oh, yeah. Totally 👍

[Miah05]

@Sasha0426 then keep away from him. Instead of looking for drama.
Me and him don't agree on everything and when you respect him. He respects you.
He is a very good man, who has very strong beliefs, but a very good man, when you get to know him as a person, instead of as someone who doesn't agree with your opinion.

[Sasha0426]

Then can we all block each other?

[Sasha0426]

And you can report my account if you want.

[Fuentes]

@Sasha0426 I mean really when you think about it who wouldn't be obsessed with me I mean I'm ME

[Sasha0426]

Please for the love of God, block me 🤦‍♀️

[Fuentes]

@Sasha0426 u are under my opinion u can block me Missy, and hope to get over it quicker. I do cause such a infatuation for most.

[Miah05]

@Fuentes 🤣goofball. But you do got a lot of people who chase after you on here🤣

[Sasha0426]

I don’t like any of you just so you know.
Ok, I’m done now. Bye 👋

[Fuentes]

@miah05 I know I'm a damn GaG celebrity at this point look at them coming I need security hahaha ARMED! Hahahaha

[Miah05]

@Fuentes I'll protect you👀

[Fuentes]

If 5 men gonna pack me out, how u gonna protect me hahhahaha

[Miah05]

💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾I'm super miah🫠

[Fuentes]

Hahahahahahahahhaa I got a question if dudes actually did that to people I know are u swinging too? Or u running or u calling 911 hahahaa

[Miah05]

Ok. Fr, fr. I would try my best to help you.

[Fuentes]

U gonna swing? Hahaha or u gonna hold the tool im the bag and pull it? ? Hahaha or u gonna give it to me and take it back when the cops come and dip off? Hahahaha

[Miah05]

I ain't answering this in public. I'm a teacher🤣

[Fuentes]

Hahahahahahahaha don't get fired

[Miah05]

Exactly 🤣

[Anonymous]

I know that just by walking with a man down the streets I'm safer that if I were alone, but I know that even if someone attacked us he would make sure I'm safe. Same goes for the house, if we heard sth weird he would go to check it out

[A_Bell]

Yes, very much so. It's one of the great things about guys. Guys with testosterone.

[Staximus]

I don't have a partner and don't need to feel protected, unless it's from the law after I kick somebody's ass. I should find a nice woman attorney but they usually don't date bums.

[LiamSawyer]

Being defendive and protective is very important to me in a relationship.

[Juxtapose]

I would like to have a partner that has enough guts to actually want to protect me in some way. It'd feel nice to have that for once!

[smilelots]

no i would not leave them for that reason ,, but if your scared then there is something wrong either were you live or who your living with.

[Jersey2]

No, she would be a hindrance. She would be slow, not aggressive and too worried about me.

[zillllll]

Sorry can I get a deeper understanding, so you feel like he/she is a wimp and can’t do anything to defend or they don’t give you a safe feeling when your around.

[Miah05]

I asked if your partner

[Anonymous]

i made her feel protected constantly she hasn't done shit for me in return

[Opinion Owner]

all the times i stood up for her ass she has yet to do that for me even once

[Opinion Owner]

especially against her scumbag so called freeloading moocher friends

[Tessafowler03]

Yes.. in a heart beat

[Jkgordon]

Interesting hmm probably would

[sirderpsalot123]

No lol

[Miah05]

Don't be mean to her 😡

[sirderpsalot123]

How am I being mean? Lol

[sirderpsalot123]

But what is she going to do to protect me

[Miah05]

Oh I'm just teasing

[Nevvv]

Yes, all the time

[shades777]

dont need a woman for that