I am elder than him in a long distance relationship?

[Arrrr_]

I met my boy online. Its been 2 months that we are in a relationship. He is 7 years younger than me. However he said that even though I am elder than him I still look younger than my age. Plus long distance relationship. We are planning to meet on January. I sometimes become very hopeless about our future but as I am grown to him I am not in a mood to do temporary relationship. What dhould I do to turn our relationship everlasting to marriage.. please help me and give me some dating tips. However I am not ready to have sex with him and he says he is OK with that. Please help me🥺 i love him so much?

[caring__1]

You're in a long-distance relationship with a 17-year-old, yet you say you aren't looking for something temporary. He's barely into adolescence, when a lot of change takes place, so neither of you will know what will exist when he resolves adolescence. That's like going to the animal shelter for a watch dog and taking home a cat. Now you are spending a lot of time and effort attempting to teach the cat to bark.

Long-distance relationships have added challenges, as people see what they want to see or what they fear seeing rather than what actually exists. They rarely lead to stable quality relationships long-term. They're usually what people seek when they feel unable to get what they want in real life, so they believe living a fantasy is better than no life at all. Just look at how often best friends become roommates, and then that destroys their friendship. They thought they knew each other very well, but it's amazing how much we learn about a person when we live with that person. It's easy to maintain a facade for short periods of time, but that becomes impossible when we're together 24/7.

[Avicenna]

Well, meet up with him to find out if you are compatible with each other

[Anonymous]

It is possible I'm the example.

My boyfriend is 4 years younger to me, we are in long distance relationship. I wasn't ok for having sex before marriage and we never did. We are almost about to get official by our families and planning to get married in next year.

It's totally depends upon how much mature and understanding you people are how much love and trust do you have. How much committed you both are.

It is very much possible.

[Opinion Owner]

But yeh problem could come because he is just 17 years old teenager. His emotions aren't that stable yet. He may modify a lot in his further age. We cannot predict how we would turn out and will his feelings would remain same or not. Your feelings would grow more stronger then but if his feelings fade with reducing harmones effects it would be painful for you

[Jkgordon]

If you are 24 and he is 7 years younger than him that’s against the law

[In_Trance]

Lame. You're living a fairy tale