I could not write a better answer than @Cynicaldreamer already did. I agree 100% with her answer! Refer to her answer for my response.
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i'd say no and ask them why they are demanding this and what made them think all of a sudden they needed to see it?
i have nothing to hide from them. but just the fact that they demand to see my property? we'd have to talk it out... like what did i do to make you suddenly not trust me?
Depends. I would hand my phone over, sure, but when they found there was nothing I would begin wondering if their suspicion was self-defelcted guilt. I'd rather we just both give each other our pin numbers in the beginning.
Which one? I have a personnal phone and a work phone. The work one is from the us government, so my wife will get told FAFO if she requests access to that phone. The personal one, who cares
My phone is open to her all the time. She has my password and I have hers. When driving, the passenger is always checking and replying to messages for the other. We have no secrets. Total trust.
Obv yes cause whenever I date someone I date for real and not for fun I'll just not show him my Snapchat cause I've terrible pictures of me in that shit😭😭
The moment he “demands” anything is the moment that that demand is denied. If he asks, which would be totally weird because he has never wanted to before, he can look at whatever he wants.
I will show them all social media/ contacts they are looking for because I have nothing to hide, but I will break up right after. I don't need that type of person in my life.
Also, if I felt she might be cheating I will not ask to see her phone. I will observe her changes in behavior and ask her straight up if she is. If I feel that she's lying, I will cut it off right there EVEN IF it turns out that she wasn't. Communication is important in a relationship, and if you don't communicate well about certain elements of your life then people become suspicious. I shouldn't have to ask for relevant information because she should understand that it's generally a bad look to not say where you're going/who you're going with or if you will have to spend extra time at work and what time you're expected to return. I will make sure to tell her all of this without her even asking, and I will expect the same. We will talk about that in the early stages of the relationship. If I smell something shady, I just go with my gut and leave without having to check her phone.
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I have nothing to hide. She can see my phone and my ;laptop.
Okay but when she finds nothing then what?
Nope. You can ask me, or just check it. But don't demand shit from me.
Bonus, oh yeah I will. It shows you don't respect me or trust me, and that you want control over me.
I tbh don't care, I have nothing to hide. And I wouldn't break up because of someone's trust issues it might be because of their past
I dont give my phone to anyone. He better sit tf down somewhere lmao
I could not write a better answer than @Cynicaldreamer already did. I agree 100% with her answer! Refer to her answer for my response.
i'd say no and ask them why they are demanding this and what made them think all of a sudden they needed to see it?
i have nothing to hide from them. but just the fact that they demand to see my property? we'd have to talk it out... like what did i do to make you suddenly not trust me?
He can ask no problem. But I prefer if he asks nicely and not "demands it"
Sure. All I have is memes about work, work emails and shared contacts.
Depends. I would hand my phone over, sure, but when they found there was nothing I would begin wondering if their suspicion was self-defelcted guilt. I'd rather we just both give each other our pin numbers in the beginning.
We see each other's phones all the time, but we have nothing to hide, so it is never a problem.
I would, then immediately dump her. I won't be in a relationship with someone whom I do not trust, nor with someone who does not trust me.
Which one? I have a personnal phone and a work phone. The work one is from the us government, so my wife will get told FAFO if she requests access to that phone. The personal one, who cares
My phone is open to her all the time. She has my password and I have hers. When driving, the passenger is always checking and replying to messages for the other. We have no secrets. Total trust.
We share the same phones, both home phone and cell phone.
She doesn’t have to, since she uses whatever phone is the closest.
Demanded? All they got to do is ask. You demand I'm going to tell you to f*** off.
My wife and I have free access to each other's phones. If a woman won't give her man access to her phone she is unfit for anything more than sex.
Obv yes cause whenever I date someone I date for real and not for fun I'll just not show him my Snapchat cause I've terrible pictures of me in that shit😭😭
The moment he “demands” anything is the moment that that demand is denied.
If he asks, which would be totally weird because he has never wanted to before, he can look at whatever he wants.
I will show them all social media/ contacts they are looking for because I have nothing to hide, but I will break up right after. I don't need that type of person in my life.
Also, if I felt she might be cheating I will not ask to see her phone. I will observe her changes in behavior and ask her straight up if she is. If I feel that she's lying, I will cut it off right there EVEN IF it turns out that she wasn't. Communication is important in a relationship, and if you don't communicate well about certain elements of your life then people become suspicious. I shouldn't have to ask for relevant information because she should understand that it's generally a bad look to not say where you're going/who you're going with or if you will have to spend extra time at work and what time you're expected to return. I will make sure to tell her all of this without her even asking, and I will expect the same. We will talk about that in the early stages of the relationship. If I smell something shady, I just go with my gut and leave without having to check her phone.