Men, what exactly do you need help with the most in terms of social skills?

[Anonymous]

My poll options might be bad so if you have better suggestions for certain problems men are likely facing socially please let me know 🙏

Confidence among other men

Confidence with women

How to go about approaching women

General rules for being attractive

White pills to counter the black pill

Gaining respect from men

Making male friends

[Summeroflove]

You know… Maybe I’m weird. But I don’t really care about any of that stuff. I figure someone either likes me… or they don’t. I’m not going to force myself into being something to impress people I don’t even know.



Whether it’s making friends or finding a romantic partner. Some people like me and some don’t. So I don’t really worry about those who don’t. I don’t need 100s of friends or girls drooling over me. As long as I can find a few good people who genuinely like me. That matters more.

[inhua]

nothing. best way to be confident is not give a fuck about other's thoughts and beliefs of you unless it's a hitman trying to assassinate you for your opinions or they're holding your family hostage

outside of that, value your opinion above everyone else's within reason

[DaBiggestBird]

I don’t need help with this as I’m Giga Chad enough to help myself but I would like to be able to spit roasts more quickly and smoothly. I did alright today when my new buddy was throwing some shade but he wasn’t smart enough to understand it so that was kind of chopped.

[davado88]

you're 45 but giga chad and throw shade? You may need help with something, mate

[DaBiggestBird]

@davado88 No I’m not even 2 decades, I just put that in to avoid any dog water policy enforcements.

[davado88]

fair enough , by the way what do those terms mean?

[DaBiggestBird]

@davado88 “throwing shade” is basically just being disrespectful. Everyone else will tell you a “Giga Chad” is just a really buff dude but I have my own definition for it being Da Biggest Bird and all. In the Thicc Kingdom, a Giga Chad is a person who believes in and serves God, always (or almost always” treats everyone with respect even if they’re a Butthole (they don’t need to like anyone, just don’t be rude (back)). A Giga Chad is compassionate and wise, a man or woman can be one and they act as a reflection of God’s grace. A role model if you will.

[davado88]

thanks. idve clicked like but its absent

[DaBiggestBird]

@davado88 that’s fine, for some reason the website just turns that word into a link. Thicc

[Asker]

Damn I thought you were gonna say some dumb shit. But you described me perfectly.

But I am an atheist. I think it is in my nature to be the way I am.

But also I had a horrible childhood which may have caused me to reject certain kinds of actions.

The thing is, I was being abused before I could have done anything bad myself.

I never got the opportunity to do a bad thing to someone and learn my lesson.

People doing bad things to me definitely changed who I am today. Probably. Then again I do feel like it is in my nature to be like this.

And you're right about the alpha big dog status. Guys who act like the big dog always end up competing with eachother for my attention.

I'm not bragging. I hate it. It is bizarre to stand there while multiple men are competing for your attention and the way they act is so bizarre. Each one starts or stops talking, depending on if I'm looking at them or not. And all of them looking at me waiting to be paid attention to by me.

It's the most fucking bizarre experience I've ever had in this fucking life lol.

At this point, I'm like "alright you guys need to get out of my face." And I walk away.

[DaBiggestBird]

In that case you’d be a Mega Chad according to the SSD of Ashyea’s companions.

[Anonymous]

I’m pretty well balanced in most of these… sometimes the black pill can be an issue when you start to look at the world issues as a whole. But my biggest issue is approaching women. But I’m getting to the age that if a woman isn’t giving me clear signals I’m just going to ignore her. I have way too many other things to worry about than sit around and wonder what the best way to talk to a girl is.

[Asker]

I can teach you right now. My claim to authority is that I was a social outcast my entire life and terrified of females until I was 33.

What I did to overcome the fact that I had been a social outcast was to just start talking to people constantly. Everywhere I went I would talk to people.

I would talk about the teeniest tiniest thing I could. Like ask for the time.

It took me like 10 years to do it but eventually I came out a normal person on rhe other side.

But I still couldn't talk to women.

But the reality I ended up learning, is that women love talking. It's easiest to talk to them. They love to play too. They want to be playful and hear silly things.

So you learn to talk to any person anywhere at any time first. And then talk to women the same way.

[Asker]

Now talking to people is so natural that I'm talking to women as a standard because I talk to everyone as a standard.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing, my social skills are fine, its my exposure to likeminded peers thats lacking.

I can't find people that I want to be social with.

[D_Bone_Steak]

How to kill everyone and steal all the women? If they have kids I can turn them into slaves. I am a generous God king.

[Fireguy17]

Maintaining a conversation.
After I get past what I did on my summer vacation I'm pretty much done.

[mobiusforniner]

None of the above.

Its having a respect for self.

[Unit1]

Women.

Just women.

The rest will fall in place.

[Anonymous]

i tend to leave my fly open in public for advertising.
Sometimes works but im not sure its a social skill per se

[clampfan101]

Pretty much everything. :/