How can I be single until I’m 50 help?

[Anonymous]

I never had a boyfriend and I’ll be 26 next month.
I’m a family oríented woman, my dream is have 3 baby boys, and none of that will come true as no boyfriend exists for me.
I’m not a party club girl, I’m a loyal girlfriend. And no one wants keep me make me taken.

I never in my life got experience how it’s like bring a boy home to meet my family, I never have taken pictures with a guy, I never have celebrated Valentine’s Day or gotten roses from a guy, I never have celebrated my bday with a boy , at family parties my family all bring a man and no boy has ever been proud to attend with me.
since I’ll never have a future never be pregnant have my 3 baby boys , no marriage no boyfriend nothing, what do I do until I’m old? Just eat work and sleep?

[HappyWoman34]

You’re young. Plenty of time. There are some things you can do though. Regardless of how you look. That have helped me. Wear nice clothes, where the colours and styles flatter your body. Have a flattering hairstyle. Good hygiene. If you’re fat, like I am, lose weight. I’ve lost 7 kilos on the Lite n Easy diet so far and starting to look better. Don’t be too nice or overly eager to impress guys. Let them see your independence, your temper and your intelligence/common sense. Be confident about who and what you want. Try dating sites and take it slowly. Be friends first. Look for signs of interest from guys before making a move. All guys give some signs, like singling you out in a group to talk to, touching you a lot when they don’t do this with other women. Talking a lot. Lots of eye contact. Any questions?

[catarecute]

find a decent guy. maybe join a push club like get flying lessons or horse riding. posh men have more class and respect for women.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

If you're flexible enough to accept having no husband in the long term having your own kids from a sperm donor can be an option.

[Asker]

I don’t think a husband nor a boyfriend exists for me

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Then sperm donor makes sense.

[AmeerX]

Just try a mail order bride service. It will help you if you really want to marry

[EmmaMary]

So why exactly has this happened... Just what is the issue here?

[Asker]

Age 13 I liked my best guy friend at school and once he found out I liked him he acted like I didn’t exist.

Age 15-21 men never liked me back. I was shy but I always had guy friends and approached men and they rejcted me.
Age 22 was time of covid and I was very sick in bad health stuck at home had no life couldn’t eat and anxiety issues I was 74 lbs.

Age 23-25 I recovered but had one guy I dated but we never met family so I finally dumped him.
I stayed with him for so long as I thought a long term relationship meant a guy that dates u for long time. Due to no experience I thought this. Now I know it means living together getting married engaged

There’s a lot of boys at my job but my crush I never talked to him as he quit the job

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for your life's history!

[Asker]

And another guy I have crush on barley began show interest in me but he on purpose tried ti be near me one day but didn’t talk to me. I even walked slow waiting for him make a move n he don’t talk.
I don't know if he’s shy or what. He don’t work in the same area so it’s hard cross paths. But he parks car near mine always and now I see him with many friends that r girls. I think those girls throw themselves chase him. As he don’t seem loud social n more low key.

Othr guys showed interest in me All month at job but they all act the same, don’t talk, walk on purpose next to u looking at the floor mute, I thought it was cuz they don’t like me but I think now I realize it’s cuz they want me make the first move…
I’ve never encountered boys acting this way.
Wen I met ex boyfriend at age 18 at old job, he initiated talk to me fast. Not shy.

[Asker]

My ex boyfriend I meant the guy I dated age 23-35

[Asker]

I think I’m too ugly. That’s y I have no boyfriend. I have long black hair, very skinny can’t gain weight , boney arms chicken legs super tiny 4”11

[Asker]

I just want a short term boyfriend , that can give me experience how it’s like meet family, pics togethr , Christmas together , normal boyfriend that’s it. I’m even jealous of the girls that have bfs and they give her baby and break up after baby’s born. I have nothing.

[Anonymous]

You’re only 26. In this day and age you still have 15-20 more years to have kids. Don’t give up too soon.

[Asker]

I don’t want kids age 30-40 I want my fmaily now settle down. I’ not a party girl

[sheikalana]

How do you know you'll never find someone? You're just 26.

[Anonymous]

Live your life. Your life is NOT defined by the opposite gender. I've been single for almost 48 years and I'm quite happy. In fact I'm happier now then I've ever been in at any point in my life.

[Asker]

My dream is have 3 baby boys. U need a man in order to have that. You are a guy so u don’t care. A women’s dream is have her baby. I want my future having my baby boys, buying them toys for Christmas, have my parents see them, be happy.

[Asker]

They will light up my world.

[Asker]

I want also fullfilled my dream of taking pics with a. Guy, bringing a boyfriend to meet family, I want experience that at least once in my life before I’m 30 but how? No guy wants be my boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Don't talk to me like you have any clue about what I CARE about. I think it's pretty clear why you're single now. Enjoy the cats🙂

[Danny_dan92]

Welcome to dating in the 21st century

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Do u want to marry or not?

[In_Trance]

Do whatever you want to do until you're old

[shortster]

Need to look for guys looking for a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Have you had any guys express interest in you

[Asker]

The guys at my job don’t talk. They r weird and boys stare at u , walk near u on purpose and don’t talk. Look at floor. I wait and walk slow to give them chance to talk to me and they r silent. So I guess it means they want me make first move.

[Asker]

Only one guy showed interest in me and actually try talk but he is young 18 and I’m 26. My crush quit the job so I never had chance talk to him.

[Asker]

There’s a new guy that appeared once crush quit and he looks similar to crush but again he followed me 2 days and looked for me at job and walked next to me on purpose but I thought he was going to talk first and didn’t so now I need look for him and make first move to talk so he know I like him back. Maybe he think I don’t Iike him