Those who got engaged but did not marry, why?

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I know a woman who called off the wedding just weeks before it was scheduled... when she discovered her fiancé cheated on her with her best friend.

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People feel like marriage just makes relationships more complicated. I mean I don't have to be married to know I love him. But then again to get engaged and not marry. Hmm. But maybe it's not about being married and they just appreciate each other ya dig

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- AmeerX
  
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  Being married is the best and the right way. Don't you just love being in marriage and be able to say he is your man and you are his woman instead of doubt coming your way
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Yes absolutely. I definitely cannot wait to get married. I think it's beautiful to share your life with one person and I can't wait
  
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- AmeerX
  
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  Do you not have someone?
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Nothing that's serious rn. 😔
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Maybe I'm wrong. I just think about that movie four Christmas s with Reese witherspoon and Vince Vaughn lol and they're too happy and don't wanna complicate things by getting married.
  
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- AmeerX
  
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  😅 aww I wish I could marry someone too.
  Don't wait around please. Lots of girls here wait and wait for the punks and end up just waiting for the guy to just keep her as a piece. That's the worst thing.
  My own rule is simple, if I like a girl just tell it straight instead of long years wasted and may be I might come as too strong to some but I know my priorities 👀
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Me too. I miss that companionship and conversation time. And being loyal to my man.
  
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- AmeerX
  
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  Wow, you are a rare girl indeed. Did you ever thought of dating someone outside your race?
  Conversion time is weird. I mean it's alright to wait few months like 2-3 months should be enough to decide on engagement at least but dating years seems stupid and waste of time. And frankly there is no perfect relationship, we love each other despite the disadvantages and not for the advantages otherwise it's not love.
  Waiting for years, no thanks. 😅 I am still Virgin and I am proud I didn't take advantage of any woman I wasn't interested in but I don't care I think the right way is marriage. Of course people can have differing reasons and mistakes can happen.
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Tbh I believe I am more of the rare type because today is like relationships and love are under rated anymore. All people wanna do these days is hook up. I wanna share my life with that one person for the rest of my life no matter how corny that may sound 😉
  
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- Mimi_ox
  
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  Talka20 thanks for picking my answer
  
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- AmeerX
  
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  @Mimi_ox that's not corny😅. God women like you are pretty rare to meet. I think Vivant here is like you. May be someone might be interested in you. Did you try those Churches of yours?
  
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He quit his job because it was making him unhappy and became a complete and utter alchoholic asshole. He Ended up in hospital for a month which I thought would be a lesson for him but it wasn't. I started getting palpitations in his presence. So I left.

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Found out who she really was. Gave her time to clean up her act. Never happened, so it never happened.

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Turns out he was a heroin addict. He introduced me to drugs and before I fell in too deep, I got on a greyhound and left.

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cuz engaging is like marriage but doesn't cost money

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- Guardian45
  
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  Maybe sometimes
  
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Long engagements. It gives you time to really find out who she is. When wo. en get that rock on there finger they think they've passed the last barrier. And some will let thier act down in that final lap thinking they've got you sewn up.

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We fell apart due to moving in different directions. Suddenly, we wanted and expected different things.

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She couldn’t handle my package every night and took her own life.

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Because I found out she had been cheating as recently as 2 months before the wedding day.

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She found someone better or he was playing her

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  @Hiyvbbbb All men have to play women to some degree. Sometimes the act becomes reality.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Good. Caring is childish.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  @Hiyvbbbb no
  
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No real love there. It was more a situationship.

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so far? mostly financials.

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- Guardian45
  
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  This is usually the biggest reason!
  
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The mini-bitch started cheating on me!

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she cheated then broke up

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Lying to thereselves in most cases.

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She cheated

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- hammeronfire
  
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  That’s exactly what happened to me lol. I dodged a bullet high key tho cause she cheated on him too and got pregnant with the guy after, who she also cheated on. I blocked her after that when she begged to have me back like 4 years ago so I have no idea what became of her. Oh well 😂
  
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Money

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