Do you want kids in the future and if so why or why not?

[caitycat21]

I feel like if i wanted kids it would depend on a lot of different factors like if I’m at a state mentally and emotionally where I feel capable of raising another human being and if I’m financially in a secure place and if my partners
checking all those boxes as well.

[Lliam]

I never wanted any. Too much responsibility and worry.
Kids are super expensive and they require almost all of your time. You have dedicate you life 100% to them.

Some old people I've known who had grown kids had their lives taken over by them as if those know-it-alls knew what was best. They treated their parents like children. I don't want somebody running my life.
Although, to be fair, many people have very happy lives with children and grandchildren who love them and care for them.

With the digital revolution and a future of 24/7 totalitarian monitoring and control; loss of liberty; restrictions on travel; cashless currency; medical tyranny; gender dysfunction; restrictions on essential goods, real food and energy; poison food, water and air; electromagnetic pollution; lack of decent jobs and housing etc., I wouldn't want to be a kid growing up now. I wouldn't wish the next 100 years on anybody.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm certainly open to the idea. I've had a difficult time finding women who I look at and really think "wow, she'd make great mommy material." The women I've met that I do kinda think that about usually haven't felt ready to take that step in their own lives, and that's not really something you can pursue with someone who isn't ready... They're either on-board, or they aren't.

[Anemone978]

I never was really for having kids.. But now I am trying my best to raise them tough, strong and smart so they don't become someone shit like myself..
I don't think I want anymore, though I did always want a son.. but I don't know about that..

[Apple1996]

I already have 4 sons and plan on having more

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 wth are you doing to only get boys? 🤨

[Apple1996]

@scooogy it's genetic. My family and my husband's family is full of boys

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 and you're the exception in your own family 🤔

[Apple1996]

@scooogy yeah basically. My mom had to find a different baby daddy to have me. They desperately want me to find a man with a lot of sisters and sleep with him in hopes of having a girl. Like literally wanting me to cheat for a girl lol

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 I'm in for a try 😏

[Apple1996]

@scooogy do you have sisters? Lol

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 yes, two.

[Apple1996]

@scooogy oooo I'll have to keep that in mind

[ohsheeT]

You are very smart and very wise.
And like you said there's so many other things that have to be all in order before you can be the best of yourself with your kids and that's a beautiful thing that you understand that

[Brittanyroseee]

Nah i enjoy my own company and having money to myself. Kids are also a big responsibility and are very time consuming and i have no patience for that. I also lack maternal instinct as well. 🙂

[Starrrboy]

Yeah not gonna lie... but the idea of bringing someone to this world right now doesn't seem fair to them tbh.. our parents had it better than us , and so did their parents... it's only getting worse lol.. there's too many people now and capitalism ruined society... I have to think a thousand times before bringing someone to this world just to enjoy their company and being a father...

[Drumlin2001]

I have 2 kids under 4, I'm not having any more. Had vasectomy a couple of months ago, need to send sample to be sure it worked.
If I were 10years younger maybe I'd have had another in a few years, but being over 40 I don't have the energy

[EmmaMary]

We're so lucky and blessed in now having our two planned children, and even more so that we have both a little boy and girl.

[catarecute]

i want my first kids before i am 32 and i want at least 10 kids

[caitycat21]

10 kids? Back to back Is a lot 😅

[catarecute]

lol yea

[Nikki1989]

No, I am too career motivated to have children.

[exitseven]

No, I already have three and they arer all grown up. I am ready for the next phase of my life whatever that is?

[qwert1234]

I don't want kids, but if I would have 1 or more, I would do everything I can for that kid.

[Unit1]

Nah, not for me. Food prices and inflation doesn't allow me to get fat if i wanted to.

[Likes2drive]

Already have three daughters and you definitely need to be emotionally and financially stable to have kids

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Obviously we want kids and have normal healthy family relationships

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, I do.

[Yannae]

I want to adopt. Pay it forward.

[Jennz6]

Nope , the world is too violent

[Theodora00]

No to many abortion done in school.

[eagle1951]

already done that

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes, I do.

[jahaims]

Already have 2

[LavLavLuv]

Ya I want one

[TallAnon]

Yeah, sounds fun