Is getting pregnant after two months of dating a red flag?

[Anonymous]

[provokeesmokee]

For being a fucking stupid idiot who doesn't practice safe sex, yes!

Have you been raw dogging and only now learning that getting creampied risks pregnancy?

Good luck. Hope you live in a pro-abortion state if you don't want the kid, or have the means to support it and you solo if you do want it.

Use a condom next time.

[Apple1996]

Nah it happens. I know a couple that got pregnant on the first date so can't be worse than that

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not a good thing though. I mean what do you really knkw about a person in two months this to me is how women end up as single mothers. I'm sorry but I have to be honest

[Apple1996]

@Bklynbadboy12 the couple i know that got pregnant on the first date are still together and married for 6 years now

[Bklynbadboy12]

I get that but that's definitely not the norm

[AmeerX]

@Bklynbadboy12 2 months is pretty good time spent

[AmeerX]

@Apple1996 from strangers to husband and wife in a day 🤣

[Apple1996]

@AmeerX for real that's how it happened

[AmeerX]

I believe you. In fact love at first sight can happen. It is really not a red flag more than a person asking for sex without marriage. If pregnancy is a red flag so is not getting married

[kylee2437]

Definitely specifies to me that both people are irresponsible and impulsive

[nonyabeez-wax]

I would say not a red flag, as just like you, there is limited control over what happens when it comes to sex.

You had sex after 2 months, poor choice for the both of you.

Outside of that, that doesn't mean there's something more to be worried about.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you didn't know eachother for years beforehand, then yeah, but it's not like you can just put the sperm back...

[DaveJord]

YES!!! It's the only reason why I got married at 20 and my family warned me, and I did not listen to them.

[OlderAndWiser]

Duh!

[AviatorTom]

No, it's a sign of fertility.

[desidoll]

Ughh obviously? Both of you don’t even know each other as much yet.

[Bklynbadboy12]

So true. This is bad. Very bad!!!

[cnj421]

I wouldn’t say a red flag. But it’s definitely not the most responsible thing. However accidents happen. Make sure you’re communicating with each other to decide how to move forward.

[BlackBeauty90]

Not using protection from the start is a red flag.

Getting pregnant after 2 months of dating is just plain stupidity

[Bklynbadboy12]

Facts!!!

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Exactly. It's reckless.

[hopegirly]

I think so because I believe that it should happen only after marriage

[Bklynbadboy12]

I agree

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Agreed!

[sheikalana]

I would personally prefer to know the person who's going to be the father of my baby for a bit longer than just 2 months as two months are not enough to know someone that well.

[elizamichale1]

I dont think amount of dating time matters.. wht matters is ur willingness to make this decision honey

[AmeerX]

Having a child matters more than getting to know. People wait around years and it's plain stupid if you ask me

[elizamichale1]

@AmeerX yup if u think u r vibing gud with someone n most importantly u 2 love each other then yea that is all u need

[A_Bell]

You don't seem to understand the meaning of RED flag. That sounds like someone got a green.

[Bklynbadboy12]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[AmeerX]

💯, 2-6 months is enough to decide if you want to go ahead with marriage or not.

[A_Bell]

@AmeerX probably. Depending on how many hours you spend together.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yep. Shows you likely weren't careful. Does shite happen? Yeah, does it happen much? No. I'll find someone less unlucky.

[Drumlin2001]

It's not a good thing to do. You don't know each other.
Most important thing is that you can coparent. You can pursue relationship but you need to becsure whatever happens the baby comes first

[Jazzy54]

How would it be a red flag? I don’t understand. Anyway, it just shows that you two started having sex right away.

[molonski2]

The answer to your question is YES - Obviously , VERY.

[abbyjgriffin98]

Getting pregnant isn't a red flag. Having sex without a condom is.

[Bklynbadboy12]

This is not good this is very bad. For you two to be have unprotected sex is a bad thing you to don't even know each other. This right here is how women end up being single mothers

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Most people are just stupid and careless while some are so stupid to believe the pull out method works when it doesn't.

[Sasha0426]

Well, to be fair, it’s not all on you. However, yeah it’s not a very good idea since you barely know each other.

[AmeerX]

No, it's not and you should be married instead of red flagging things

[coachTanthony]

Perfectly normal lol

[Staximus]

It means both people are stupid

[exitseven]

I would definitely say so.

[Blueeyes81]

No just piss poor planning.

[LunarEclipse433]

Yes and poor judgment if it was unexpected

[HelpfulWoman]

Yes. Just yes

[Solo3k]

His pull out game is a red flag

[Anonymous]

You’ll know each other forever

[Opinion Owner]

Either he stays with you faithfully and does as you need it terms of family, or he walks and pays you a couple hundred every month. I’m sure you Two can come to an agreement

[fantasticass]

Yes...

[tzdc21]

Um... yeah?

[RingOfFire]

DUHHHHHHH

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. For her.

[shades777]

its a green flag